Parents often put parental controls for their kids and keep an eye on their media consumption at all times but often neglect their own usage by a mile. When you are telling kids to not do certain things and then proceed to do it yourself, you send a hypocritical message to kids. They start believing that you are making up rules and they are not that important, because if they were you yourself would’ve been following it! While you may not think that your media usage should be your kid’s business, a new study shows that it has a direct effect on your kids. Not just their mentality, but also what your screen hours show them that the internet is a safe place where they can explore whatever content they want. It is very easy for kids to override the age rule and get access to mature content, which lead to them consuming these videos and media from an early age! A new study looked at how parents' phone use might affect whether their kids see inappropriate content. Researchers found that when parents spend a lot of time on their phones and don't have clear rules about media use at home, their kids are more likely to watch R-rated movies or play video games meant for adults. The study talked to over 10,000 kids aged 12 and 13.

What Did The Study Reveal?

A recent study published in the journal BMC Pediatrics has revealed a potential link between parents' phone habits and their children's consumption of inappropriate content. The researchers wanted to learn more about how parents can help their young teens with media use. They explained that while there's advice for younger kids and older teens, there's not much for this age group. These young teens are in a tricky stage, they're not little kids anymore, but they're not quite teenagers either. The study wanted to see how what parents do and the rules they make affect what kind of content young teens are exposed to.

Parents answered questions about their own phone use, like how often they try to limit their screen time around their kids. The kids also answered questions about how often they watch R-rated movies or play mature video games. The study found that the more time parents spent on their phones, the more likely their kids were to consume mature content. Things like using phones during meals or in bedrooms seemed to be especially linked to kids seeing this type of content.

Why Should Parent’s Mobile Usage Be A Concern?

Experts say it's important for parents to be aware of their own phone habits, because kids often copy what they see. They suggest that parents should "practice what they preach", if they make a rule about no phones at the dinner table, they should follow it too. Experts also recommend that families create a media plan together with clear rules, like limiting screen time during meals and before bed, talking about what they see online, not using screen time as punishment, and using it as a reward for good habits. Basically, the study shows that what parents do with their phones can really influence what their kids are doing online.

How You Can Reduce Your Screen Time?

First, see how much you're using them and set small goals to cut back. Make some areas and times in your house phone-free, like during meals and before sleep, this is a great chance to connect with your family. Turn off notifications you don't need and find fun things to do instead of being on your phone, maybe even things your family can do together. Put your phone away so it's not always tempting and think about why you're picking it up. Tell your family you're trying to use your phone less, and maybe they'll join you! If it's tough, think about taking a break from all screens for a bit. It takes time, so be patient with yourself and enjoy the extra time you have with your family. This not only benefits you but also sets a positive example for your children.

Eye specialists worldwide are raising the alarm, as myopia, or nearsightedness, is on the rise among children at a rate that is making eye doctors and pediatricians reconsider how they assess young patients.

What used to be a mild inconvenience that could be corrected with a pair of glasses is now being treated as a long-term health concern. High myopia in childhood is associated with an increased risk of serious eye conditions later in life, including retinal detachment, glaucoma and myopic macular degeneration. This is not just an anecdotal change.

Public health professionals say the development is likely due to a variety of causes, including more time spent on screens, less time outdoors, and more strenuous academics, which most online work is entangled with. The good news is that myopia can be controlled if it is discovered early.

Optometrists have an expanding toolbox of options, including customized contact lenses, Ayurvedic eye drops, and more time spent outdoors, that can help to delay its advancement in children. The trick is to catch it early. Seven warning flags to look out for as a parent

1. Squinting To See Distant Objects

Because myopia often develops gradually, many parents don't realize their child is struggling to see clearly until a school vision screening flags it or until the child is already several dioptres into nearsightedness.

A child who consistently squints to read the whiteboard, to watch TV from across the room, or to notice a buddy coming towards them is usually making an instinctive attempt to make a murky image clearer. Squinting alters the shape of the eye's opening for a brief period, which can help bring things that are far away into marginally better focus — but it's a signal, not a solution.

2. Sitting Too Close To TV Or Screens

A child who always sits inches from the screen, holds tablets or books very near to their face, or asks for a front-row seat at school may be compensating for trouble seeing things far away.

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3. Regular Headaches Or Eye Strain

Children who have difficulty focusing on things that are far away have eyes to work harder all day. This added stress may manifest as frequent headaches, especially after school, screen time, or reading.

4. Poor Performance In School or Attention

Kids don’t usually say, “I can’t see the board. Instead, a sudden dip in grades, difficulties reproducing notes or seeming distracted and uninterested in class can be an ignored symptom of undetected vision problems.

5. Holding Books Or Devices Unusually Close

Similar to sitting close to screens, a child who holds a book, tablet, or phone very near their face may be doing so instinctively to bring text into focus.

6. Rubbing Eyes Frequently Or Excessive Blinking

While rubbing eyes and blinking can have many causes, when paired with other signs on this list, they can indicate visual fatigue from the eyes constantly trying to compensate for blur.

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7. Complaints That Things "Look Fuzzy" From A Distance

Sometimes the sign is simply the child telling you directly — that the street signs look blurry, that they can't see the ball until it's close, or that faces "look fuzzy" from across the room.

These direct complaints are often the clearest signs that your child is experiencing visibility issues. While rubbing eyes and blinking can have many causes, when paired with other signs on this list, they can indicate visual fatigue from the eyes constantly trying to compensate for blur.

Why Early Detection Matters

Pediatric eye specialists usually advocate regular vision examinations beginning in early childhood and continuing through the school years, as this is the age when myopia most typically first develops and progresses the fastest — between 6 and 12 years of age. If any of the following indicators are noticed, parents are recommended to schedule a full eye exam with an optometrist or eye specialist rather than waiting for the next standard school screening.

Common lifestyle adjustments include more unstructured outdoor time, regular breaks during near-work tasks (following the general “20-20-20” guideline of looking at something 20 feet away for 20 seconds every 20 minutes), and proper lighting for reading and homework, alongside professional treatment options.

By Dr Mandeep Singh Basu, Ayurvedic Eye Specialist, Dr Basu Eye Care Centre

The recent Lindsay Clancy case has renewed public discussion around postpartum mental health, particularly postpartum psychosis—a rare but severe psychiatric condition that can develop after childbirth. Experts say it is important to distinguish postpartum psychosis from the intrusive thoughts that many new mothers experience, as the two are fundamentally different.

Postpartum psychosis is considered a medical emergency that requires immediate psychiatric care. While the condition is rare, early recognition by family members and prompt treatment can significantly improve recovery.

What Is the Case About?

Lindsay Clancy, a labour and delivery nurse at Massachusetts General Hospital, is accused of killing her three children—Cora, 5, Dawson, 3, and eight-month-old Callan—at the family's home in Duxbury, Massachusetts, on January 24, 2023. Prosecutors allege she strangled them with exercise bands before attempting to take her own life by jumping from a second-floor window. Her husband, Patrick Clancy, discovered the scene after returning home.

Clancy has pleaded not guilty. Her defence argues she was suffering from severe postpartum psychosis and undiagnosed bipolar disorder, making her not criminally responsible. Prosecutors contend she "knew exactly what she was doing."

In the weeks before the deaths, Clancy wrote in her journal, "I want help. I want to be well," and had sought treatment through a postpartum depression program.

HealthandMe spoke to two health experts to understand postpartum psychosis, how it differs from intrusive thoughts, and the warning signs families should know.

What Is Postpartum Psychosis?

Dr. Shiv Prasad, Professor and Head of the Department of Psychiatry at Lady Hardinge Medical College & Smt. Sucheta Kriplani Hospital, New Delhi, explained that postpartum psychosis is a rare but severe mental illness that usually occurs within the first two weeks after delivery.

"It is considered a psychiatric emergency because the mother may lose touch with reality and may not be able to make safe decisions for herself or her baby," he told HealthandMe. Postpartum psychosis affects around 1 in 1,000 mothers after childbirth and is a psychiatric emergency.

Postpartum Psychosis Is Different From Intrusive Thoughts

Many women experience intrusive thoughts after childbirth, but experts stress these should not be confused with postpartum psychosis.

"While many new mothers experience intrusive thoughts, distressing, unwanted thoughts that they recognize as irrational and are unlikely to act upon, postpartum psychosis is fundamentally different. It involves a loss of touch with reality, with symptoms such as delusions, hallucinations, extreme confusion, severe mood changes, and disorganized behavior," Dr. Sabine Kapasi, a gynecologist, Global Health Strategist, and a UN Advisor, told HealthandMe.

While intrusive thoughts are relatively common, especially in women with anxiety or obsessive-compulsive disorder (OCD), women with postpartum psychosis may experience hallucinations, delusions, confusion, or believe they must act on false beliefs.

"The biggest difference is that women with intrusive thoughts usually know the thoughts are irrational, while women with postpartum psychosis often believe their experiences are real," Dr. Prasad said.

Experts said postpartum psychosis is treatable and that most women recover well with timely diagnosis, psychiatric care, medication and family support.

Warning Signs Families Should Never Ignore

The experts said family members are often the first to notice changes in a new mother's behavior. According to Dr. Kapasi, sudden personality changes, unusual beliefs, insomnia without feeling tired, paranoia, and hearing or seeing things that others do not are major warning signs that require immediate medical attention.

"Early identification of these red flags by families is very important. Sudden personality shifts, strange beliefs, insomnia without fatigue, paranoia, or hearing and seeing things that others do not require prompt medical attention."

Dr. Prasad said these symptoms should never be dismissed as normal postpartum stress.

"Families are often the first to notice that something is seriously wrong. Warning signs may include sleeplessness, sudden confusion, unusual behavior, hearing or seeing things that others cannot, expressing strange beliefs, or talking in a way that doesn't make sense."

He advised that if these symptoms appear, the mother should not be left alone with the baby until she has been assessed by a doctor, and urgent psychiatric help should be sought.

The experts stressed that postpartum psychosis is not a sign of weakness or poor parenting, but a medical emergency that requires compassion, immediate treatment and family support.

The Lindsay Clancy trial is ongoing. If convicted of murder, she faces life in prison without parole. If found not guilty by reason of lack of criminal responsibility, she would be committed to a state mental health facility, according to the Associated Press.

The monsoon brings welcome relief from the heat, but it also creates the perfect environment for viruses, bacteria, fungi, and mosquitoes to thrive. As a result, babies become more vulnerable to infections such as coughs and colds, diarrhoea, skin rashes, fungal infections, and mosquito-borne illnesses like dengue and malaria.

Since an infant’s immune system is still developing, they require extra care during the rainy season. Fortunately, many monsoon-related illnesses can be prevented by avoiding a few common mistakes.

Not Changing Damp Clothes Promptly

Leaving babies in damp clothes for long periods can cause discomfort, heat rash, skin irritation, and fungal infections, especially in skin folds. Whether clothes become wet from rain, sweat, or spills, they should be changed immediately. Dress your baby in soft, clean, breathable cotton clothing.

Neglecting Hand Hygiene

Hand hygiene is one of the simplest and most effective ways to prevent infections. Parents and caregivers should wash their hands with soap and water before touching or feeding the baby and after returning home. Anyone with symptoms such as cough, cold, fever, vomiting, or diarrhoea should avoid close contact with infants.

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Giving Stale or Improperly Stored Food

If your baby has started complementary feeding, always offer freshly prepared home-cooked meals. During humid weather, bacteria multiply rapidly in improperly stored food, increasing the risk of stomach infections. Avoid feeding leftovers that have been kept at room temperature for long periods.

Ignoring Mosquito Protection

The rainy season is associated with a rise in mosquito-borne diseases such as dengue and malaria. Use mosquito nets, eliminate stagnant water around your home, and dress your baby in light, full-sleeved clothing. Avoid applying mosquito repellents directly to infants younger than two months unless specifically recommended by your paediatrician.

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Keeping the Home Damp and Poorly Ventilated

Damp surroundings encourage mould and fungal growth, which can trigger allergies and respiratory problems. Keep your home well-ventilated, dry wet areas promptly, and ensure that your baby’s bedding, blankets, mattresses, and soft toys are completely clean and dry before use.

Overdressing Your Baby

Many parents assume babies need extra layers during the monsoon. In reality, overdressing can lead to overheating, excessive sweating, and skin rashes. Dress your baby according to the indoor room temperature rather than the weather outside. To assess whether your baby is comfortable, feel the neck or chest instead of the hands or feet, which are naturally cooler.

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Trying Home Remedies Without Medical Advice

Avoid steam inhalation, balms, herbal oils, over-the-counter cold medicines, or traditional remedies unless advised by your paediatrician. Honey should never be given to babies under one year of age because of the risk of infant botulism. Always seek medical advice before giving any medication or home remedy.

Taking Young Babies to Crowded Places Unnecessarily

Crowded indoor spaces such as shopping malls, family gatherings, and social events increase the risk of viral infections. Limiting unnecessary exposure, especially during the first few months of life, can significantly reduce the chances of your baby falling ill.

A baby’s first monsoon can be a worrying time for new parents, but a few simple precautions can go a long way in keeping your little one healthy and comfortable. Good hygiene, fresh food, mosquito protection, a clean and dry environment, and timely medical advice are the keys to preventing most monsoon-related illnesses.

If your baby develops persistent fever, breathing difficulty, poor feeding, repeated vomiting, diarrhoea, decreased activity, or signs of dehydration, seek medical attention without delay.