Parents often put parental controls for their kids and keep an eye on their media consumption at all times but often neglect their own usage by a mile. When you are telling kids to not do certain things and then proceed to do it yourself, you send a hypocritical message to kids. They start believing that you are making up rules and they are not that important, because if they were you yourself would’ve been following it! While you may not think that your media usage should be your kid’s business, a new study shows that it has a direct effect on your kids. Not just their mentality, but also what your screen hours show them that the internet is a safe place where they can explore whatever content they want. It is very easy for kids to override the age rule and get access to mature content, which lead to them consuming these videos and media from an early age! A new study looked at how parents' phone use might affect whether their kids see inappropriate content. Researchers found that when parents spend a lot of time on their phones and don't have clear rules about media use at home, their kids are more likely to watch R-rated movies or play video games meant for adults. The study talked to over 10,000 kids aged 12 and 13.
A recent study published in the journal BMC Pediatrics has revealed a potential link between parents' phone habits and their children's consumption of inappropriate content. The researchers wanted to learn more about how parents can help their young teens with media use. They explained that while there's advice for younger kids and older teens, there's not much for this age group. These young teens are in a tricky stage, they're not little kids anymore, but they're not quite teenagers either. The study wanted to see how what parents do and the rules they make affect what kind of content young teens are exposed to.
Parents answered questions about their own phone use, like how often they try to limit their screen time around their kids. The kids also answered questions about how often they watch R-rated movies or play mature video games. The study found that the more time parents spent on their phones, the more likely their kids were to consume mature content. Things like using phones during meals or in bedrooms seemed to be especially linked to kids seeing this type of content.
Experts say it's important for parents to be aware of their own phone habits, because kids often copy what they see. They suggest that parents should "practice what they preach", if they make a rule about no phones at the dinner table, they should follow it too. Experts also recommend that families create a media plan together with clear rules, like limiting screen time during meals and before bed, talking about what they see online, not using screen time as punishment, and using it as a reward for good habits. Basically, the study shows that what parents do with their phones can really influence what their kids are doing online.
First, see how much you're using them and set small goals to cut back. Make some areas and times in your house phone-free, like during meals and before sleep, this is a great chance to connect with your family. Turn off notifications you don't need and find fun things to do instead of being on your phone, maybe even things your family can do together. Put your phone away so it's not always tempting and think about why you're picking it up. Tell your family you're trying to use your phone less, and maybe they'll join you! If it's tough, think about taking a break from all screens for a bit. It takes time, so be patient with yourself and enjoy the extra time you have with your family. This not only benefits you but also sets a positive example for your children.
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Felicity-Jo, a 13-year-old girl in the UK’s Lancashire, has survived a life-threatening bout of sepsis and two weeks of induced coma, after her symptoms were initially dismissed by doctors as a stomach bug.
In early February, Felicity-Jo suffered vomiting and abdominal cramps, and was admitted at the Royal Blackburn Teaching Hospital where the medical team administered intravenous fluids. They discharged her the following day as the teen girl showed temporary improvement, and attributed her condition to gastroenteritis, also known as a stomach bug.
"They [gave] her some fluids to stop the dehydration, and she seemed to like come around and seemed to feel better — the pain eased and then she took to small sips of water,” Natalie-Anne Rowlett, her mother told the BBC.
"The doctors said they thought it was gastroenteritis or a stomach bug going around. They had said they wanted to take her for a scan, but they didn't do it because she perked up."
While Felicity-Jo returned to her normal activities, her health suddenly deteriorated weeks later. On March 15, the teen collapsed in extreme pain and was admitted to the ICU at Burnley General Teaching Hospital. Here, the surgeons discovered she had been born with congenital adhesions, or internal scar tissue.
The adhesions caused a total bowel obstruction, which was eventually followed by an infection and sepsis, her mom told the BBC.
“The main symptoms were abdominal pain and persistent vomiting. It’s frightening how quickly things progressed from what seemed like a typical upset stomach to a life-threatening situation," Rowlett was quoted as saying to PEOPLE.
After undergoing two emergency surgeries, including the removal of a portion of her bowel, Felicity-Jo was transferred to the pediatric intensive care unit at Royal Manchester Children's Hospital. She remained on life support for 14 days while battling the infection and subsequent blood clots.
"Sepsis develops so quickly, and I want others to be aware. I know she'll come through. She's a fighter," Rowlett said, according to the BBC.
After being fitted with a stoma bag and diagnosed with two blood clots four weeks after the health scare, Felicity-Jo finally took her first steps in almost a month.
Felicity-Jo has “managed a smile,” which “melted” their hearts, wrote Rowlett on the GoFundMe page, which the family started to raise funds.
Rowlett confirmed that her daughter was being moved from the PICU to another ward in the hospital.
“She still has a long road of recovery, stoma care, and rehabilitation ahead, but moving to the ward is a giant leap forward,” Rowlett added.
Rowlett is now urging others to be aware of the symptoms of sepsis, telling them to "trust their guts" if something “doesn’t feel right,” the BBC reported.
Abdominal adhesions are bands of scar tissue that form between the organs in the belly and pelvis. The scar tissue mainly forms between loops of the small intestine, but can also form between an organ and the wall of the abdominal cavity.
When the condition is present from birth, it is called congenital adhesion. Congenital bands arise from abnormal adhesions of folds in abdominal organs that form during the first eight weeks of pregnancy.
Adhesions are the most common cause of a small bowel obstruction — a medical emergency caused by complete or partial blockage in the intestines. With obstruction, food, liquid, air and waste can’t pass through the intestines and can cause:
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India's Ministry of Women and Child Development today launched the 8th edition of Poshan Pakhwada, under the flagship Poshan Abhiyaan mission to fight against malnutrition and improve the country's nutritional status.
The nutrition campaign will run from April 9 to 23, and focuses on improving the nutritional and cognitive health of young children under six years.
"A well-nourished child is the foundation of a strong nation. Poshan Abhiyaan is not just a government programme, but a people’s movement to ensure holistic nutrition for every mother and child,” said Prime Minister Narendra Modi, while underscoring the importance of nutrition.
"This year's theme focuses on laying a strong foundation for our children's bright future. This campaign will not only strengthen the resolve for a malnutrition-free India but also promote public awareness and community participation," said WCD Minister Annpurna Devi, in a post on social media platform X.
The theme for Poshan Pakhwada 2026 is “Maximizing Brain Development in the First Six Years of Life”.
It recognizes that early childhood—particularly the first 1,000 days—is critical for brain development, physical growth, and overall well-being.
Scientific evidence indicates that over 85 percent of brain development occurs by the age of six, underscoring the importance of optimal nutrition, responsive caregiving, and early learning.
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The key focus areas under this year’s theme include:
During the Pakhwada, activities will be organized across States and Union Territories through Anganwadi Centers, with participation from mothers, caregivers, families, community institutions, and local bodies.
These will include Poshan Panchayats, awareness sessions, early stimulation activities, play-based learning initiatives, and campaigns promoting healthy lifestyles and reduced screen time among young children.
Through Poshan Pakhwada 2026, the Ministry aims to further strengthen the Jan Andolan by reinforcing that nutrition, care, early learning, and community participation together lay the foundation for a healthy, educated, and empowered India.
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Poshan Abhiyaan was launched by the Prime Minister on March 8, 2018, in the Jhunjhunu district of Rajasthan. The focus of Abhiyaan is to emphasize the nutritional status of adolescent girls, pregnant women, lactating mothers, and children from 0-6 years of age.
Poshan Pakhwada serves as a key pillar of this movement by driving awareness, behavioural change, and community mobilisation at the grassroots level. The major objectives include:
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The birth of a baby is a joyous occasion, accompanied by celebrations as well as well-meaning advice from friends and family. "Don't feed for 24 hours!" "Give honey first!" "Discard the first milk!" These traditional and generational beliefs leave new mothers confused about what is appropriate for their baby.
As a neonatologist with years of experience, I have seen how these myths can harm the delicate newborns. Let us separate fact from fiction with simple, but evidence-based truths.
Myth 1: Wait Before First Feed
Traditional Belief: Many families delay breastfeeding for hours—waiting for an auspicious time, a particular relative, or to follow traditions and customs.
Fact: Babies should be breastfed within the first hour of birth (Golden hour) right in the labor room! The yellowish first milk (colostrum) is packed with antibodies and nutrition. Early feeds can prevent low blood sugar levels, build immunity, increase the mother’s milk supply, and lead to bonding between the mother and the newborn.
Myth 2: Honey or Jaggery First
Traditional Belief: Elders give honey, jaggery, or butter at birth for strength and good virtues.
Fact: Short-cuts are dangerous! Stick to mother's milk only. Anything else can cause infections (botulism with honey) and delay colostrum administration.
Myth 3: Throw Away Colostrum
Traditional Belief: "First milk is dirty—discard it!"
Fact: Colostrum is liquid gold! It is a natural vaccine, full of maternal antibodies and high in proteins. Discarding it deprives the baby of natural immunity.
Myth 4: 40-Day Lockdown
Traditional Belief: Keep mother-baby indoors for 40 days to avoid colds.
Fact: Fresh air and sunlight are rich sources of oxygen and vitamin D. Confining them in dark, stuffy rooms increases the risk of post-partum depression in the mother. Take short, safe outdoor trips, avoiding windy weather.
Myth 5: Gripe Water and Janam Ghutti
Traditional Belief: Essential for digestion, teething, and excessive crying.
Fact: Avoid completely as the ingredients are not standardized or regulated. Contents vary wildly—many contain alcohol, opioid derivatives, or bacteria, causing loose stools and sedation. Breast milk is the panacea.
Myth 6: Kajal Makes the Eyes Beautiful
Traditional Belief: Surma/kajal improves eyesight and makes the eyes bigger
Fact: May contain lead that causes eye infections, allergies, and lead poisoning if used excessively
Myth 7: Babies need water before 6 months.
Fact: Breast milk or formula is 88 percent water and meets the water requirement even in hot months. Early water intake increases the risk of sodium imbalance (hyponatremia). Start water in a sippy or cup, after 6 months, with complementary foods (150-250 ml water split into multiple times).
Myth 8: Sneezing = Cold
Traditional Belief: Any sneeze means an upcoming cold.
Fact: Newborns sneeze to clear mucus— a sign of healthy airways! Consult a doctor if it is accompanied by fever, cough, or runny nose.
Myth 9: Mother's 'Cold' Foods Harm The Baby
Traditional Belief: Curd, rice, and ice cream can cause cold or colic in the baby.
Fact: The temperature of the maternal diet does not influence the breast milk temperature or quality, so no cold food bans!
Myth 10: Teething Causes Fever/Diarrhea
Traditional Belief: Fever and loose stools indicate tooth eruption
Fact: Red flag! These signals indicate infections from dirty objects that babies put into their mouths during the mouthing phase of development. See a doctor immediately.
Myth 11: Protruding Navel = Doctor Error
Traditional Belief: Caused by excessive pull on the cord during delivery.
Fact: Commonly due to lax abdominal muscles. It usually resolves by one year of age. No tapes/coins are needed. Consult a doctor immediately if the swelling does not retract or becomes red.
Myth 12: Warm Head = Fever
Traditional Belief: A warm forehead means fever
Fact: Normal newborn temp is 97.6-99.5°F. The head feels warmer due to increased blood flow. Check the armpit if concerned.
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