Parents often put parental controls for their kids and keep an eye on their media consumption at all times but often neglect their own usage by a mile. When you are telling kids to not do certain things and then proceed to do it yourself, you send a hypocritical message to kids. They start believing that you are making up rules and they are not that important, because if they were you yourself would’ve been following it! While you may not think that your media usage should be your kid’s business, a new study shows that it has a direct effect on your kids. Not just their mentality, but also what your screen hours show them that the internet is a safe place where they can explore whatever content they want. It is very easy for kids to override the age rule and get access to mature content, which lead to them consuming these videos and media from an early age! A new study looked at how parents' phone use might affect whether their kids see inappropriate content. Researchers found that when parents spend a lot of time on their phones and don't have clear rules about media use at home, their kids are more likely to watch R-rated movies or play video games meant for adults. The study talked to over 10,000 kids aged 12 and 13.
A recent study published in the journal BMC Pediatrics has revealed a potential link between parents' phone habits and their children's consumption of inappropriate content. The researchers wanted to learn more about how parents can help their young teens with media use. They explained that while there's advice for younger kids and older teens, there's not much for this age group. These young teens are in a tricky stage, they're not little kids anymore, but they're not quite teenagers either. The study wanted to see how what parents do and the rules they make affect what kind of content young teens are exposed to.
Parents answered questions about their own phone use, like how often they try to limit their screen time around their kids. The kids also answered questions about how often they watch R-rated movies or play mature video games. The study found that the more time parents spent on their phones, the more likely their kids were to consume mature content. Things like using phones during meals or in bedrooms seemed to be especially linked to kids seeing this type of content.
Experts say it's important for parents to be aware of their own phone habits, because kids often copy what they see. They suggest that parents should "practice what they preach", if they make a rule about no phones at the dinner table, they should follow it too. Experts also recommend that families create a media plan together with clear rules, like limiting screen time during meals and before bed, talking about what they see online, not using screen time as punishment, and using it as a reward for good habits. Basically, the study shows that what parents do with their phones can really influence what their kids are doing online.
First, see how much you're using them and set small goals to cut back. Make some areas and times in your house phone-free, like during meals and before sleep, this is a great chance to connect with your family. Turn off notifications you don't need and find fun things to do instead of being on your phone, maybe even things your family can do together. Put your phone away so it's not always tempting and think about why you're picking it up. Tell your family you're trying to use your phone less, and maybe they'll join you! If it's tough, think about taking a break from all screens for a bit. It takes time, so be patient with yourself and enjoy the extra time you have with your family. This not only benefits you but also sets a positive example for your children.
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A 20-month-old toddler from West Bengal who suffered from recurring urinary tract infections (UTIs) for six months was eventually diagnosed with cystinuria, a rare inherited metabolic disorder that causes recurrent kidney stone formation.
The diagnosis came after the toddler experienced persistent UTIs over a period of six months. After multiple episodes of infection couldn’t be solved despite treatment, the doctors discovered the rare condition.
Initially, the doctors believed that it could be vesicoureteral reflux, a condition in which urine flows backward from the bladder towards the kidneys.
However, more investigations revealed an unusual kidney stone caused by cystinuria, an inherited disorder that leads to excessive amounts of the amino acid cystine in urine.
As cystine dissolves poorly in urine, it can crystallise and form stones, which may block urine flow, trigger recurrent UTIs, and damage the kidneys if left untreated for a long time. Doctors at a Bengaluru hospital treated the child using a minimally invasive procedure to remove the stone.
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Usually, the kidneys reabsorb cystine after filtering blood. In individuals with cystinuria, this process does not work well.
Large amounts of cystine pass into the urine. As cystine does not dissolve in urine, it forms crystals and eventually stones in the kidneys.
The condition is caused when the child inherits one faulty gene from each parent. Parents who carry one altered gene usually have no symptoms themselves.
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Unlike most kidney stones, which are more common in adults, cystinuria presents during childhood or adolescence. Parents must look out for the following symptoms in their children:
Although cystinuria has no cure, effective treatment and management can reduce stone formation and protect kidney function. It includes:
Parents must seek medical attention when the child faces the following:
While most recurrent UTIs are caused by common anatomical or behavioural factors, persistent or unusual infections can occasionally point to rare inherited disorders like cystinuria that warrant medical attention.
Early diagnosis and timely treatment can help prevent permanent kidney damage and significantly reduce the frequency of stone formations.

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Hypertension or high blood pressure is an increasingly common problem among children and adolescents; many children may not have any obvious signs or symptoms in the early phase. It is said that hypertension in children is a “silent condition,” and therefore, it is of paramount importance that doctors, parents, and teachers are aware of it to detect the condition early.
While some kids might not have any symptoms at all, there are some signs that shouldn't be overlooked. Recurrent headaches or morning headaches, especially headaches in the back of the head, may occasionally be a sign of high blood pressure. Symptoms can be dizziness, blurred vision, flashers, loss of energy for no known reason, nausea, vomiting, difficulty breathing during exercise, chest pain, palpitations, or frequent nosebleeds for no obvious reason.
There can also be changes in a child's behaviour or physical appearance in the school environment that teachers might observe. Children with high blood pressure often experience headaches, frequent visits to the sick room for weak or dizzy spells and ask to go out of class to rest. Sometimes, symptoms such as difficulty in concentration, sudden drop in school performance, irritability, changes in mood or appearing unusually withdrawn are associated with underlying health problems, such as hypertension.
Some children may be more tired, winded or unwell from sports or physical activity than others and avoid it. These symptoms can be missed and dismissed as stress, poor sleep or lack of interest in studies or sports. Such symptoms may be overlooked and blamed on stress, sleep deprivation or low interest in studies or sports.
Doctors think obesity, poor diet, excessive salt intake, poor sleep, low exercise, and watching too much screen time are all factors that are driving up hypertension rates in kids and teens. Other kidney disease, heart disease, hormone imbalances, or family history can also contribute in some children.
Regular blood pressure checks on children's routine visits are very significant because many children with hypertension may be asymptomatic, experts say. Prompt diagnosis and treatment can prevent complications with the heart, kidneys, brain and eyes in the long term.
It is important that parents and teachers do not shrug off repeated complaints of headaches, fatigue, dizziness or vision problems as insignificant. Early medical assessment can be important in safeguarding a child's long-term health.
By Dr Vaibhav Meshram, Paediatrician, Ruby Hall Clinic
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If your pre-pubescent or teenage kid cannot live without a smartphone or tablet, it’s a cause for concern. Ordinarily, it was believed that some amount of screen time isn’t harmful in young adults. But a new study has gone beyond the notion of ‘limited screen time’, ascertaining exactly how much is too much.
A new study published in the European Child & Adolescent Psychiatry journal recently shared insight into how endless scrolling of short-form content, personalised social media feeds, and engaging content may affect the cognitive, mental, and emotional well-being of adolescents and young adults.
Marlene Ebster, first author of the study Taming the Endless Scroll and a graduate from the University of Bayreuth’s Institute of Medical Management and Health Sciences, said, “Our aim was to develop a differentiated understanding of the effects of short-video platforms based on scientifically robust evidence, and to move beyond blanket statements such as ‘less screen time.’”
The researchers relied on scientific data published between 2015 and 2025. 47,000 participants were included in the final analysis, with an average age of 16.8 years.
The findings indicate that an intensive and unintentional use of short-video platforms may be associated with a number of negative consequences.
Researchers eventually found that these usage patterns and habits were linked to increased inattention and impulsivity.
The findings also said that the participants presented reduced working memory and weaker self-regulation abilities.
Additionally, several studies reported mental health issues in young adults, including higher levels of anxiety, depression, and stress, especially among heavy users.
The study also identified factors that can protect young people. A supportive social environment, strong digital literacy, and structured and purposeful digital habits proved to reduce the negative effects of endless scrolling. Here are other ways that can help:
Swapping Online Shows With Interesting Activities: Replace one streaming session with a home-made “show” of fun-filled activities. Kids get hooked on activities with time-bound tasks; they get competitive. Screen-free creativity is a cardio-friendly brain workout.
Hiding Wi-Fi Router: Hide the router behind a daily challenge. Want Wi-Fi? You have got to earn it by doing something active, like 20 minutes of cycling, a round of badminton, or even cleaning the house.
Family Screen Swap Hour: Pick one hour each evening where everyone swaps screens for a shared activity, like board games, cooking, or a walk outside. The key is doing it together, so no one feels singled out.
The ‘Leave It at the Door’ Rule: Phones and tablets stay outside the bedrooms. Create a charging station in the hallway and make it a family-wide ritual. Fewer late-night scrolling marathons mean better sleep and, as the study shows, potentially better heart health.
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