Letting Kids 'Play Around' Is Actually Good For Them- Here's Why
When I met my friend Aishwarya's daughter, Aanya, on a Sunday afternoon, she was building an entire world in her backyard using only sticks, leaves, and her imagination. In her eyes, a stick became a magic wand, leaves turned into currency for her "shop," and an old cardboard box was her fortress. Aishwarya admitted that this was Aanya’s “free play” time—a period without gadgets, instructions, or adult guidance, which made me curious.
To put this to rest, we had a word with Dr Kushal Agrawal, Neonatologist and Head of the Department of Neonatology and Paediatrics at KVR Hospital Kashipur, "Unstructured play is much more than just frivolous fun. It is an integral part of child development. Today, children do not have much scope for free play. With the academic system, straddled by extracurricular activities and digital entertainment, the scope for unstructured play is getting smaller and smaller.". On the contrary, research reveals that unstructured plays hold a lot of benefits for children that structured activities may not have in store.
According to Dr Agrawal, "free time plays" are a great way for kids to get involved in physical activities meant for their growth. "When children are left to play freely, their movements become more varied and spontaneous," he says. Science behind this practice does support this because free play increases the levels of physical activity, which is moderately vigorous in children; this is essential in preventing childhood obesity and promoting health in general.
Other than these, the outdoor environments provide opportunities and challenges for natural development outside. While children run, jump, climb, and look around the outdoors, they can become able to develop strength, coordination, and endurance for a healthy and active lifestyle by exercising. Otherwise, structured activities often restrict children to specific movements or instructions.
Except for physical fitness, disorganized play lays the foundation for basic social and emotional capabilities. During unorganized play, children invent their games, negotiate roles, settle disputes, and collaborate to attain some common objectives. According to Dr. Agrawal, "such interactions build empathy, cooperation, and communication skills as children learn to express themselves, listen to others and adapt to group dynamics.".
Research indicates that children learn emotional resilience through unstructured play, navigating minor setbacks in a low-stakes environment. If the game goes sour, kids learn to solve the problem on the spot; this builds up their self-confidence as well as independence. This is a kind of play that gives children the freedom to learn by themselves and try new things without having the fear of being prohibited by others or the fear of failure.
Freedom in play helps unlock a child's creativity and the problem-solving aspects. Most structured activities have predetermined tasks or instructions that do not develop creative thought. According to Dr Agrawal, "When children are allowed to be free, they can explore and create their own scenarios, which are meant for developing unique solutions based on critical thinking.".
Unstructured play provides children with a number of materials for play—blocks, sand, or leaves, for example—without script, so that they invent games, build imaginary worlds, and, in a very real sense, answer their natural curiosity. It has been proven that this type of play helps children to make decisions, adaptability, and innovations, qualities useful throughout life.
Dr Agrawal believes that unstructured play is a very important factor of all-rounded child development. "Nowadays, children's lives are very scheduled, so it's very important for the parents to remember how necessary play is", he further adds. Being freely playful would be a great support to their healthy physical development as well as social, emotional, and cognitive development.
As parents, we can encourage free play by creating an environment that encourages exploration and curiosity. What can be very impactful is giving the child a safe outdoor space and setting aside gadgets to allow for uninterrupted time to play. As these spaces tend to be counterintuitive to everything that can be seen as a hallmark of productivity and measurable progress, unstructured play allows the children to build resilience, independence, and joy.
More than just being childhood, unstructured play confers a wide range of benefits since children learn to manage social dynamics, solve problems independently, and bring their creativity into life which puts them better prepared for the challenges of adulthood. In this natural form of play, people lay down a foundation for lifelong skills to achieve balanced wellbeing and success.
The next time you catch your child playing carefree—maybe using a stick as a wand or a rock as a pet—take the time to be thankful for the developmental steps.
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Fetal oxygen levels fall if asthma is not well controlled, which is why the baby is more at risk of being born prematurely or of low birth weight.
This is because when breathing is compromised due to a lack of control, the oxygen supply to the baby through the placenta is limited. It usually happens when the hormones affect lung function.
Even though the wide range of medications that can be used safely during pregnancy without any health risks is often highlighted by researchers, the number of people who stop using their inhalers keeps increasing.
Several pregnant women, out of fear, think that the only symptom of being pregnant is the lack of breath, so they decide to use their inhalers to a lesser extent, which, actually, at times can worsen the situation even further.
At present, the practice of henceforth making decisions according to one's own gut feelings without looking for professional advice substantially raises the level of hazard.
Living in a bustling city and being around allergens means there are always irritants in the air, making the very act of managing asthma day by day quite difficult.
Also, the anxiety that often goes with the responsibilities of raising children or the fear of not meeting the expectations of society, at times, has an asthma-inducing effect, like a flare-up.
Initial signs of illness, such as coughing or a sensation of chest constriction, which are distressing, should not be taken lightly as they are signals that, if not treated, will only lead to a bigger problem. By being vigilant, results can be improved without a drastic overhaul of one's daily habits.
The strategy needs to be proactive and focused on prevention. Checking the symptoms regularly, taking the medication properly, and avoiding the things that are known to cause symptoms are a few of the basic aspects.
Besides that, small steps like enhancing the quality of air indoors, staying well hydrated, and doing breathing exercises on a regular basis are great in the control of the disease. The majority of ladies with asthma, if they receive adequate treatment and are knowledgeable about their disease, can look forward to an uneventful pregnancy and a safe delivery.
Actually, the key point is that pregnancy shouldn't mean stopping your asthma treatment. On the other hand, it's the time when the mother and the baby need to be protected through knowledgeable and trustworthy care.
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While long periods of sitting have become normal in today's workplace culture, their effects may go beyond back pain and weight gain.
According to health experts, prolonged sitting may also be quietly affecting reproductive and hormonal health in both men and women.
Previously, sedentary habits were only associated with non-communicable diseases such as obesity, diabetes, and cardiovascular disease, but doctors are now observing a growing connection between inactivity and reproductive dysfunction.
A recent study led by researchers from Fudan University showed that extended daily sitting time is linked to a heightened risk of infertility in women of reproductive age.
Studies also suggest men with high daily sedentary time (over 6–8 hours) may experience higher testicular temperatures and decreased blood flow to the pelvic region.
In addition, desk jobs raise the risk of obesity and insulin resistance, two conditions that are intimately linked to issues connected to reproduction.
Dr. Lepakshi Dasari, Consultant Gynaecologist & Laparoscopic Surgeon, Yashoda Hospitals, Hyderabad, told HealthandMe that sitting for extended periods of time can lower blood flow, impede metabolism, cause weight gain, and upset hormonal balance.
“Women may experience irregular periods, increasing PCOS symptoms, issues with ovulation, and decreased reproductive potential as a result. Long-term inactivity has been associated with worse reproductive function, lower sperm quality, and worse metabolic health in men,” she added.
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Reproductive hormones in both males and females can be further disrupted by long-term stress, insufficient sleep, and inactivity.
“Although sitting by itself does not immediately cause infertility, a prolonged sedentary lifestyle can eventually lead to circumstances that are detrimental to reproductive health,” Dr. Lepakshi said.
“Looking at it from a gynecology standpoint, sitting for long hours is one of the things researchers nowadays associate with hormone imbalance, even besides the problem of weight gain.
As per the World Health Organization, about one in six people (17.5 per cent of adults) worldwide experience infertility, marking a significant health challenge.
Between 1990 and 2021, infertility prevalence increased annually by 0.49 per cent for men and 0.68 per cent for women, driven by delayed parenthood, environmental toxins, and lifestyle factors.
By 2050, over 75 per cent of countries may face population declines due to these trends.
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Dr Tripti Dadhich, Additional Director - Obstetrics and Gynecology, CK Birla Hospitals, Jaipur, explained that when an individual is inactive, the chances of experiencing insulin resistance increase, leading to irregular menstrual cycles and fertility issues.
“If the body is less active, not only is the blood flow to the pelvis less efficient, but this can lead to discomfort and irregularities in menstrual cycles over a period of time. The majority of women are not aware that long sitting hours combined with poor sleeping and stress can cause hormonal imbalance,” she told HealthandMe.
Experts shared that simple routines can have a big impact on reproductive and hormonal health, including:
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Motherhood is often described as joyful, fulfilling, and transformative, but for many women, it is also a quietly exhausting experience. While sleepless nights and endless responsibilities are expected parts of pregnancy and parenting, constant fatigue should not always be dismissed as “normal.” One of the most overlooked causes is iron deficiency anemia.
Iron is essential for producing hemoglobin, the component of blood that carries oxygen throughout the body. During pregnancy, a woman’s iron requirements increase significantly because she is supporting both her own growing blood volume and the baby’s development. After childbirth, blood loss during delivery, breastfeeding demands, poor nutrition, and inadequate recovery can further deplete iron stores.
The result? Persistent tiredness, weakness, dizziness, headaches, breathlessness, poor concentration, hair fall, and even mood changes. Many mothers continue to function despite these symptoms, assuming that exhaustion is simply part of motherhood. Unfortunately, untreated anemia can affect not only a woman’s health and immunity, but also her emotional well-being, recovery after delivery, and ability to care for her child.
In India, iron deficiency anemia remains extremely common among women of reproductive age. Vegetarian diets low in iron absorption, irregular meals, heavy menstrual bleeding before pregnancy, closely spaced pregnancies, and lack of routine screening all contribute to the problem.
The good news is that anemia is both preventable and treatable. Regular antenatal check-ups, timely blood tests, iron-rich foods such as green leafy vegetables, legumes, jaggery, dates, nuts, lean meats, and iron supplementation when advised can make a significant difference. Vitamin C-rich foods also help improve iron absorption.
While we celebrate Mother’s Day, the strength and resilience of mothers, we must also encourage them to prioritize their own health. Fatigue should not be worn as a badge of honor. Sometimes, the body is simply asking for help, and listening to it is one of the most important acts of self-care a mother can offer herself and her family.
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