When mothers initially feed their babies, they make them lie on their laps, however, the same position may not be safe when the baby is feeding off the bottle.

It is important to feed your baby through the bottle in a semi-upright position and support their head. Do not feed them lying down, as formula or the milk from the bottle can flow into the middle ear, and cause infection. Also, unlike breast and its nipple, the bottle does not have the mechanism to ensure that milk is being overflowed. Also, in order to prevent your little ones from swallowing air as they suck, tilt the bottle so that the formula fills the neck of the bottles and covers the nipple.

How can you choose the right bottle for you?

While some babies happily drink from any bottle, some are much pickier. Yes, you read it right, babies need different bottles, based on how their bodies react after being fed.

If you have a baby with gas, it is best to try a bottle with a venting system. Now, this allows your baby to avoid air in the milk while feeding. Such bottles mimic the shape and feel of a breast or an actual nipple. Bottles with fewer parts are also easier to clean, which could be great during the middle-of-the-night feedings.

For new moms, it is also a great advice to start with a slow-flow nipple to avoid overwhelming your baby and switch to a faster flow when they seem to hold the bottle themselves and can finish milk in less time.

What should you follow when you bottle feed your baby?

As per the National Health Scheme (UK), NHS UK, it is important to be prepared to experiment well with the kind of bottles that suits your baby the best. Thee is no evidence that only one type of teat or bottle is better than any other.

It is always best to ensure that you screw the top tightly into the bottle before you feed your baby.

Bottle Feeding and The Right Positions

Bottle feeding is more than just feeding and nourishing your baby, it is also an opportunity to bond with your babies. Babies also feel secure when their caregivers are feeding. This is why it is important that even before you start bottle feeding, you first find a comfortable spot to sit with your baby close to you. Look at them and gently hold the and talk as you feed.

Hold your baby in a semi-upright position during bottle feeds, with their head supported. This ensures they can breathe and swallow comfortably. Brush the teat gently against their lips, and when they open their mouth wide, let them draw the teat in.

Take your time—babies feed at their own pace, so be patient and allow them plenty of time to enjoy their meal.

Do not leave your baby un-monitored

Always supervise your baby during feeding sessions. Do not prop the bottle or leave them alone with it. This can also cause choking hazard, or the milk could pool in their mouth which could increase ear infections.

The bottle's position matters as much as baby's position. When feeding, hold the bottle in a horizontal position, tipping it slightly. This helps the milk flow steadily and reduces the amount of air your baby may swallow. If the teat flattens, gently pull the corner of your baby’s mouth to release the suction. Should the teat become blocked, replace it with a fresh, sterile one.

Pregnancy is a remarkable journey, and for most women, it progresses without major complications. However, some pregnancies are classified as high-risk, meaning there is an increased likelihood of health concerns affecting the mother, the baby, or both.

A high-risk pregnancy does not necessarily mean that complications will occur, but it does require closer monitoring, timely interventions, and a collaborative approach to care. Early recognition of warning signs is often the key to preventing medical emergencies and ensuring the best possible outcomes.

Who Is More Likely To Have a High-Risk Pregnancy?

A pregnancy may be considered high-risk due to several factors. Maternal age below 18 or above 35 years, pre-existing medical conditions such as diabetes, hypertension, thyroid disorders, heart disease, kidney disease, or autoimmune illnesses can increase pregnancy-related risks.

Women carrying twins or higher-order multiples, those with a history of recurrent miscarriages, preterm deliveries, previous caesarean sections, or pregnancy-related complications such as preeclampsia are also at greater risk. Lifestyle factors, including obesity, smoking, alcohol consumption, poor nutrition, and inadequate antenatal care, can further contribute to complications.

Warning Signs

One of the most important aspects of managing a high-risk pregnancy is recognizing symptoms that require immediate medical attention. Vaginal bleeding at any stage of pregnancy should never be ignored, as it may indicate miscarriage, placental problems, or preterm labor. Severe abdominal pain, persistent cramping, or sudden back pain also warrants urgent evaluation. A severe headache accompanied by blurred vision, swelling of the face or hands, or elevated blood pressure may signal preeclampsia, a potentially life-threatening condition that can affect both mother and baby if left untreated.

Another critical warning sign is reduced or absent fetal movements after 28 weeks of pregnancy. Mothers are often the first to notice changes in their baby's activity, and any significant decrease should prompt immediate consultation with an obstetrician. Leakage of fluid from the vagina before the expected due date may indicate rupture of membranes, increasing the risk of infection and preterm birth. Persistent fever, painful urination, severe vomiting leading to dehydration, difficulty breathing, chest pain, or seizures are medical emergencies that require prompt hospital care.

Regular Antenatal Check-Ups Key

Regular antenatal check-ups remain the cornerstone of high-risk pregnancy management. These visits allow healthcare providers to monitor maternal blood pressure, blood sugar levels, fetal growth, amniotic fluid volume, and placental function. Ultrasound examinations, fetal monitoring, laboratory investigations, and specialized prenatal screening tests help identify potential complications before they become serious. Early diagnosis allows doctors to initiate appropriate treatment and determine the safest timing and mode of delivery.

Women with high-risk pregnancies can also play an active role in protecting their health. Maintaining a balanced diet rich in essential nutrients, staying adequately hydrated, taking prescribed prenatal supplements, engaging in safe physical activity as advised by the obstetrician, and ensuring adequate rest contribute significantly to maternal and fetal well-being. Equally important is strict adherence to medications for existing medical conditions and avoiding tobacco, alcohol, and non-prescribed medications.

It is equally important to address the emotional aspect of a high-risk pregnancy. Anxiety and uncertainty are common, but regular communication with healthcare providers, emotional support from family, and access to counselling services can help women navigate this challenging period with greater confidence.

Early Action

The majority of high-risk pregnancies today result in healthy mothers and healthy babies, thanks to advances in obstetric care, fetal medicine, and neonatal support. The key lies in early recognition of warning signs, regular prenatal monitoring, and timely medical intervention. Pregnancy should never be viewed as a condition to endure silently. Seeking medical advice at the earliest sign of concern can prevent complications from escalating into emergencies and ensure the safest possible journey to motherhood.

(Dr. Ruchi Bhandari, Director- Obstetrics & Gynecology, Yatharth Super Speciality Hospital)

With careers, education, and overseas opportunities keeping many couples apart. Many have been in long-distance relationships for years.

So, according to the expert, long-distance marriages can create unique challenges when it comes to planning a pregnancy and managing fertility. Hence, couples know about the hidden fertility challenges and seek timely help.

Long-distance marriages are becoming increasingly common in India. There are a large number of couples who tend to live in different cities, states, or even countries because of work commitments, higher education, business responsibilities, or career opportunities abroad.

While technology helps partners stay emotionally connected, physical distance can sometimes make family planning more complicated. The couple must seek help from a fertility consultant and plan pregnancy accordingly.

The Hidden Fertility Challenges

For pregnancy to occur naturally, timing plays a critical role. When couples meet only occasionally, they may miss the woman's fertile window, which is the period during the menstrual cycle when conception is most likely.

This can reduce the chances of pregnancy even when both partners are otherwise healthy.

Delayed Fertility Evaluation

Moreover, another challenge can be delayed fertility evaluation. Many couples assume that because they are young and healthy, conception will happen whenever they decide to start a family and miss the fertility consultations. However, fertility naturally changes with age, particularly for women. In some cases, months or even years may pass before a couple realizes that distance and timing have reduced their opportunities to conceive.

Managing demanding jobs, travel schedules, time-zone differences, and long periods of separation can lead to stress, affect emotional well-being, sleep patterns, and overall health. These factors may indirectly influence reproductive health in both men and women.

Also read: Shamita Shetty’s Endometriosis Diagnosis Sparks Concerns About Risks Of Delayed Detection

Tips for Couples Planning a Pregnancy

So, couples in long-distance marriages should discuss family planning early rather than waiting until they are ready for pregnancy. Understanding the menstrual cycle and identifying fertile days can help maximize the chances of natural conception during visits.

Couples should go for routine fertility checks if they are trying to conceive without success. Basic tests for both partners can provide valuable information and help identify any concerns at an early stage.

Maintaining a healthy lifestyle, including regular exercise, balanced nutrition, stress management, and adequate sleep, can be beneficial for fertility health.

By understanding their reproductive health, communicating openly, and seeking medical guidance when needed, couples living miles apart can make informed decisions and improve their chances of achieving their parenthood goals.

By Dr. Neha Tripathi, Fertility Specialist, Nova IVF Fertility, Indirapuram

A baby’s arrival is described as one of the happiest moments in a woman’s life. Families celebrate, relatives visit, pictures are shared, and everyone asks one question — “How's the Baby?” But very few pause to ask the mother, “How are you?”

Behind the smiles, celebrations, and sleepless nights, many women silently struggle with something far deeper than exhaustion: Postpartum Depression (PPD). Unfortunately, in many homes, it goes unnoticed, misunderstood, or dismissed as “normal after delivery.”

Postpartum Depression is a medically recognized mental health condition that can affect women after childbirth. It is not “drama,” “weakness,” “overthinking,” or simply a phase of tiredness. While many mothers experience temporary mood swings, crying spells, irritability, or anxiety after delivery due to hormonal changes and exhaustion — commonly known as the “baby blues” — these feelings usually settle within a few days.

However, when sadness, fear, hopelessness, anxiety, anger, emotional numbness, or exhaustion continue for weeks and begin affecting daily life, sleep, appetite, bonding with the baby, or relationships, it may indicate postpartum depression.

More Common Than We Think

Experts estimate that nearly 1 in 7 women may experience postpartum depression after childbirth. Yet many cases remain unrecognized because symptoms are often normalized within families. In many Indian households, women are expected to “adjust” immediately after delivery — manage breastfeeding, care for the baby, attend to guests, recover physically, smile constantly, and return to routine life within days. This pressure often prevents mothers from openly expressing emotional distress.

Many women feel guilty admitting that they are struggling because society expects mothers to feel joyful all the time.

Why Families Often Fail to Recognize It

One of the biggest challenges with postpartum depression is that it does not always “look obvious.” A mother may still feed her baby, smile in front of guests, continue household responsibilities, or post happy pictures online while silently struggling emotionally.

Sometimes, even mothers, sisters, or older women in the family unintentionally dismiss the condition because they compare it to their own experiences. Statements like “we also had babies, and we managed” are common. However, every pregnancy, delivery, body, emotional response, and support system is different.

Reading about postpartum depression online may create awareness, but self-diagnosis alone is not enough. Many women may not have the emotional agency, clarity, or support to seek treatment themselves — especially when their feelings are repeatedly dismissed as routine stress or hormonal changes.

How Can You Recognize Postpartum Depression?

Some common signs include:

· Persistent sadness or crying

· Extreme exhaustion beyond normal tiredness

· Anxiety, panic, irritability, or anger

· Feeling disconnected from the baby

· Difficulty sleeping even when the baby sleeps

· Guilt, hopelessness, or fear of being a “bad mother”

· Avoiding conversations or social interactions

· Emotional withdrawal or loss of interest in daily life

If these symptoms continue for more than two weeks, professional support should be considered.

How Families Can Help

The biggest support a new mother can receive is emotional validation. Instead of dismissing her feelings with statements like “You are dramatic” or “Is the baby healthy?” families should ask:

· “How are you really feeling?”

· “You don’t have to handle this alone.”

· “We are here for you.”

A new mother does not need constant advice, comparisons, or pressure. She needs rest, reassurance, emotional safety, and practical help. Small gestures like helping with the baby, preparing meals, managing household work, accompanying her for appointments, or simply allowing uninterrupted sleep can make a significant difference.

Most importantly, families should encourage professional support without shame. Postpartum depression is treatable, and seeking help is not a weakness. Treatment may include counselling, therapy, emotional support, lifestyle changes, support groups, or medical treatment when required. Recovery takes time, patience, and understanding.

Why Ignoring It Can Be Harmful

Untreated postpartum depression can affect a mother’s emotional and physical health, bonding with the baby, relationships within the family, confidence, and recovery after childbirth. Most importantly, it can leave mothers feeling deeply isolated during one of the most vulnerable phases of their lives.

The Conversation We Need to Start

Becoming a mother does not make women immune to emotional struggles. A woman can deeply love her baby and still battle postpartum depression. It is real, common, and treatable. The problem is not always that mothers are unable to speak — sometimes, it is that nobody is willing to listen. Every mother deserves to feel heard, supported, and cared for after childbirth. Because after delivery, healing is not only physical; emotional recovery matters too.

(Dr Shilva, Consultant – Department of Obstetrics & Gynaecology, Cloudnine Group of Hospitals, Panchkula)_