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New year, new me! I said this to myself as the year 2025 started. But soon found myself hanging out with the same people I didn't agree with and drinking the same hot chocolate I hated. I realized that New Year's resolutions were not enough, I needed something more.
It was then I read the book How Neurobiology Can Help You Rewire Your Brain to Feel Safe, Connected, and Empowered by Juliane Taylor Shore, a therapist in Austin, Texas. I realised that stringent boundaries were pivotal to both personal and professional growth. Physical boundaries, for instance, protect your personal space while emotional boundaries protect your mental health.
But boundaries should not be confused with a request. For example, if you have a family member with a different political view, and you ask them to bring a certain candidate up that's a direct request. Whereas a boundary is saying, "I’m not comfortable with this conversation continuing. I'm no longer going to speak to you about this.’” Boundaries aren’t about controlling other people, she adds—they’re about taking action to protect your mental health. Terri Cole, a New York-based therapist and author of Boundary Boss emphasized that boundaries should be considered as "your own personal rules of engagement for how others will interact with you. If you don't set any boundaries, you are likely to become stressed and burned out. As resentment simmers, your relationships might become strained.
Push Back Against Work Overload
For Shore, a working mom, the challenge isn’t her passion for work but the creeping demands that keep her from family time. She’s learned to pause before saying “yes” to new tasks, asking herself what she would have to sacrifice by taking on more. "The truth is, I can’t say yes to everything. If I do, I’ll have no time for what matters most,” she shared in her book. Shore’s deliberate approach helps her restore balance while setting an example for her young daughter. Her advice? Build in a buffer to consider your commitments, and don’t let people-pleasing derail your well-being.
Reserve Sacred Tech-Free Time
What would it feel like to start your day without diving into your devices? Going off tech for a few hours does wonders for your health. A new rule? No internet before 11 a.m. Instead, fill your mornings with activities that bring you joy, like walking your dog, meditating, or simply savoring coffee with your family.
Treat News Like A Snack
Health experts warn that doomscrolling has become a mental health drain in modern day. "Refreshing the headlines all day left me stressed and emotionally unavailable to my clients. His solution? Treating the news like it’s 1980—checking headlines just once or twice a day or opting for a weekly news digest. If you’ve felt the same pressure to stay constantly informed, a more measured approach could help you feel focused and optimistic.
Banish Tech From Bedroom
Are you tethered to your phone overnight? What if you start going to bed without your phone? Well, it might result in better sleep and a refreshed morning outlook. Emergencies are rare, as per health experts. You can let loved ones know in advance about your new habit. A good night’s sleep might just be the best gift you give yourself this year.
Expect Equal Effort in Relationships
Clinical psychologist Heather Stevenson used to carry conversations, filling in silences and drawing others out, often at the expense of sharing her own thoughts. It left her feeling drained and unfulfilled. Now, she is prioritizing balance in her relationships. "I want them to be mutual," she told a media organization. If you find yourself in one-sided dynamics, try stepping back and letting the other person share the load. True connections thrive on reciprocity.
Reconnect Face-to-Face
Virtual interactions have become a way of life, but for therapist Kathleen Smith, they began to feel stifling. She's now prioritizing in-person connections, declining unnecessary Zoom meetings and seeking out community events instead. "All those little side conversations when you’re face-to-face? They’re so good for mental health."
Stop Overapologizing
Do you apologize for things that aren’t your fault? Therapists want you to reconsider this habit as constant apologizing disempowers us. Instead, practice gratitude. Swap “Sorry for bothering you” with “Thank you for your time.” This subtle shift can transform how you’re perceived—and how you feel about yourself.
Say "Yes" With Intention
Mental Health experts emphasize the power of saying no. "Saying yes out of obligation goes against my values of connection and authenticity,” she explains. By tuning into your real desires, you can reserve your energy for what truly matters.
Protect Yourself from Energy Vampires
Do certain people leave you feeling drained? Therapist Sarah Rafik Botrus has learned to limit her exposure to these “energy vampires.” Whether it’s a quick phone call or a brief visit, she sets clear boundaries to preserve her mental health. Over time, these relationships often become less draining—or fade away entirely.
Reclaim Your Privacy
In an era of oversharing, many are scaling back their social media presence. “Not everything needs an audience. By savoring moments privately, people might feel more meaningful. If you’re ready to follow suit, start small: Try a social media detox for a week or limit your posts to a couple of days.
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India has reported its second human fatality due to highly pathogenic avian influenza (HPAI) or bird flu, marking the first such death in four years. While bird flu infections in humans are rare, they are highly lethal, with a fatality rate of one in two cases. The most recent victim was a two-year-old girl from Palnadu, Andhra Pradesh, who passed away in mid-March after being hospitalized for over 10 days at the All India Institute of Medical Sciences (AIIMS), Mangalgiri.
The pathogen responsible for the infection and subsequent deaths was confirmed only on 31 March, following a survey by the Indian Council of Medical Research-National Institute of Virology (ICMR-NIV). According to details shared by the state government, the child, who had a habit of consuming raw chicken, was admitted to the hospital on 4 March with symptoms including fever, breathlessness, nasal discharge, seizures, diarrhea, and reduced feeding. Two days before falling ill, she had reportedly consumed raw chicken. She succumbed to the infection 12 days later.
In a statement issued on Wednesday, the state government noted that no abnormal cases of respiratory infections had been identified in the ongoing survey. However, surveillance will continue for the next two weeks, with testing arranged for any suspected cases. Union health ministry officials stated that, based on data from the Integrated Disease Surveillance Programme (IDSP), no unusual surge in influenza-like illness (ILI) or severe acute respiratory illness (SARI) cases has been observed in the district in recent weeks.
A national joint outbreak response (NJOR) team has been deployed to conduct an epidemiological investigation and provide assistance to the state.
The Union government emphasized that "human-to-human transmission of the H5N1 virus is uncommon, and the risk of any other epidemiologically linked case being reported is assessed to be low."
India's first recorded human infection of the H5N1 influenza virus occurred in 2021 when an 18-year-old boy in Haryana succumbed to the infection within days of contracting it.
In May last year, Australia reported its first human infection with H5N1, stating that the patient had acquired the virus in India. Towards the end of 2024, the deaths of four big cats—three tigers and a leopard—were attributed to H5N1 infection.
Oxytocin, commonly referred to as the "love hormone" because it is involved in bonding and social behavior, is now being investigated for its surprise effect on pregnancy. Although oxytocin is traditionally linked to childbirth, milk letdown during lactation, and emotional bonding, recent findings indicate that this hormone can possibly delay early pregnancy. A study on mice conducted recently has helped explain how the hormone can stop embryonic growth, which may provide new understanding of human fertility and pregnancy.
In a few mammals, such as marsupials, bats, and more than 130 others, a process called "diapause" takes place. This is a natural biological phenomenon that sees embryos suspend their development in order to wait until the right conditions prevail for pregnancy to resume. Although very uncommon and hard to monitor in human beings, clinical experience from in vitro fertilization clinics indicates that human embryos might at times show delayed implantation. One highly documented case in 1996 showed that an embryo implanted in a uterus was in a suspended state for five weeks before implantation took place.
The new research by scientists at the NYU Grossman School of Medicine investigated oxytocin's possible role in inducing this pause in pregnancy. Their results indicate that oxytocin could be a major player in controlling diapause in mice, and they raise questions about its possible role in human pregnancies.
To study the impact of oxytocin on pregnancy, scientists tested female mice who had recently given birth by letting them be mated while still lactating. The research revealed that nursing females had pregnancies that lasted about a week longer than those of the non-nursing mice. Since the normal pregnancy in mice takes only 19 to 21 days, this postponement is a drastic halt to embryonic development.
The research team then sought to determine how this pause occurred. Using optogenetics, a technique that enables the activation of specific neurons through light stimulation, they artificially triggered the release of oxytocin in pregnant mice. After five days of oxytocin stimulation, the researchers examined the mice’s uteruses and found that five out of six had embryos in a dormant state, indicative of diapause. Conversely, pregnant mice that were not administered oxytocin stimulation did not exhibit any indication of developmental arrest.
In further confirmation of their research findings, the scientists administered oxytocin to early-stage mouse embryos in the laboratory setting. They detected identical cellular alteration related to diapause, implying that oxytocin has a direct influence on suspended embryonic development.
The research showed that oxytocin slows down the process through which embryonic cells convert genetic information into proteins. This process, essential for growth and development of the cell, is copying DNA instructions into RNA, which then guides protein synthesis. By suppressing this process, oxytocin puts the embryo into suspended animation.
Interestingly, scientists also learned that embryos without oxytocin receptors were still able to enter diapause, suggesting that more than one biological pathway is used to trigger the pause. Still, having working oxytocin receptors seemed to increase the embryo's chances of surviving the halted state. When oxytocin receptors in the embryos were deactivated, survival rates while in diapause fell to 11% from 42%.
Although this research is in its infancy, it presents exciting possibilities for human fertility studies. A better grasp of the role oxytocin plays during early pregnancy may lead to significant advances in treating unexplained infertility and recurrent miscarriage. If human embryos can enter a state of diapause, further study could reveal how hormonal or environmental influences are responsible for early pregnancy loss.
Also, these discoveries may have greater implications outside pregnancy. As oxytocin is implicated in cell survival, researchers now want to know if what it does in diapause can help understand how to keep nerve cells from dying in the developing nervous system. What stops cells from dying early on might help neurobiology and regenerative medicine advance.
Even with these thrilling findings, much remains to be answered. How long can diapause be in various species, including humans? What are other biochemical signals that cooperate with oxytocin to control embryonic development? And might this information one day lead to targeted fertility treatments or interventions?
More studies are needed to uncover these secrets. As researchers learn more about the multifaceted functions of oxytocin, its image as just the "love hormone" is changing. This potent molecule seems to play a much more intricate function in reproductive biology than has been known, and it may play a role not only in when life starts, but in when it temporarily gets suspended.
Oxytocin's role in pregnancy is turning out to be more complex than originally thought. Though still a primary force behind labor and maternal attachment, it has also recently been found to retard embryonic development, which could have far-reaching consequences for reproductive science. As more research unfolds, the hormone could provide new insights into fertility, enhance IVF success, and even prevent early miscarriage. The possibility of oxytocin-based fertility therapies is an exciting one, and future research will be important to determine how this information can be translated to human pregnancy.
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A study published in the New England Journal of Medicine has listed five key factors that impact the longevity of individuals. The research tracked participants for up to 47 years, assessing how five specific factors influenced their risk of death, longevity, and the number of healthy years they could gain by altering these habits. The conclusions of this study were based on data analyzed from over two million adults aged 18 and above across 39 countries.
As per the researchers, women who didn't have these five risk factors at age 50 could potentially add more than 14 years to their lives, and men could gain almost 12 additional years. Men were most affected by these factors as those with all five faced a 94% chance of dying before 90, while their counterparts without these issues had just a 68% chance. Women with all five risk factors at age 50 had an 88% chance of dying before 90, whereas those without these problems had a 53% chance.
Out of all the factors, cholesterol was the least impactful of all. As per the study, people who lowered their cholesterol levels could only add 1.2 extra healthy years to their lifespan. On the contrary, individuals who quit smoking could potentially extend their lives by up to six years. Women who do not have diabetes could gain an extra 6.4 years, while men without the condition might see an increase of 5.8 years. Even a slight reduction in blood pressure could lead to an additional 1.8 healthy years, and achieving a normal BMI could contribute an extra 2.6 years, with variations depending on the region.
The study reinforces the importance of lifestyle modifications in extending a healthy lifespan. The researchers noted that small but consistent changes in daily habits could significantly impact longevity. For example, maintaining an optimal weight through a balanced diet and regular physical activity helps control blood pressure, diabetes, and cholesterol levels, reducing overall health risks.
Smoking cessation emerged as the most crucial lifestyle change that could dramatically influence lifespan. Quitting smoking, even later in life, significantly reduces the risk of cardiovascular diseases, lung disorders, and certain cancers, contributing to longer and healthier lives. Similarly, diabetes management through dietary changes, regular exercise, and proper medical intervention plays a vital role in preventing complications and enhancing longevity.
The study also highlighted variations in longevity gains based on gender and geographical regions. For instance, men were more susceptible to the adverse effects of these five risk factors than women. This disparity could be attributed to lifestyle differences, genetic predisposition, or healthcare access.
Additionally, in certain countries with high obesity rates, maintaining a normal BMI was one of the most significant contributors to longevity. Meanwhile, in regions with lower tobacco consumption, factors like high blood pressure and diabetes had a more prominent role in affecting lifespan.
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