We are always told to never mix work and friendships in social settings. While it is normal to make friendships at work, you should always keep a professional distance to make sure things do not go sour and start affecting your work. This also means that you do not divulge private information or have private conversations with your colleagues as you may never know how this could be brought up and affect you. This is an unsaid rule in corporate culture that if you are sick or you are coming down with a serious issue, you should never bring it up and keep it to yourself. While this may seem unusual to new workers, it is a very common knowledge for people who have been in the industry for a long time. A new study showed that this is much more common than many people believe!

A new poll shows that a lot of U.S. workers with long-term health problems keep it a secret from their bosses. This affects their health and their jobs. It's a big problem that employers could help fix, which would be good for everyone. This isn't just about people having a sniffle. We're talking about serious conditions like heart disease, diabetes, and asthma that require ongoing management and can significantly impact a person's life, both inside and outside of work. The fact that so many people feel they need to hide these conditions shows a larger issue of stigma and lack of support in the workplace.

How Does Health Become A Hidden Burden?

Most U.S. workers which were over half of the people, have some kind of long-term health problem. But a lot of them, about 6 out of 10, don't tell their boss. They might be afraid their boss will treat them differently or think they can't do their job. Keeping secrets like this can make it hard to get the help you need at work. It can also make your health problems worse because you're stressed about hiding them. It's a tough situation, and it shows that many workplaces aren't as supportive as they could be.

The poll also found that more than a third of people with health problems have had to miss doctor's appointments because of work. This means they're putting their jobs ahead of their health, which isn't good. It's hard to balance work and health, especially when you have a long-term illness. People need understanding bosses who will let them take time off for important medical stuff. Missing appointments can make health problems worse, and it can also make people feel more stressed and anxious.

Does It Impact Their Career And Well-Being?

Almost half of the workers with health problems said they couldn't even take breaks during the day to take care of themselves. They also said they felt like they'd been passed over for promotions because of their health. And some people even got bad reviews at work because of their health problems. This can make people feel really bad about themselves and their jobs. It can also make their health problems worse because they're so stressed. It's not fair, and it's something that needs to change.

It's not just people with health problems who have a hard time. Lots of people are also taking care of someone at home who is sick. Almost half of these caregivers have to help their sick family member during work hours. And many of them have trouble taking time off to care for their loved ones. Some people even have to work fewer hours, which means less money. This shows how much pressure people are under, trying to juggle work and family and health.

Mrs. Radha Sharma, 78, was brought to the hospital with sudden confusion, irritability, and restlessness. She had no fever, no pain, and no typical urinary complaints. Her family worried it could be dementia or a brain-related issue. However, a simple urine test revealed the real cause— a urinary tract infection (UTI). With timely treatment, fluids, and care, she recovered within a few days. This is a common but often overlooked reality—UTIs in older adults don’t always look like UTIs.

In another case, 72-year-old Mr. Pankaj Verma had repeated UTIs over a year. Each time, antibiotics provided temporary relief, but the infection kept returning. On further testing, doctors found an enlarged prostate that was preventing his bladder from emptying fully. Once this was treated, his infections reduced significantly.

These examples show an important pattern: in the elderly, UTIs are often missed, misunderstood, or keep recurring because the root cause is not addressed.

Why Are UTIs So Common In Older Adults?

As we age, the body goes through changes that make infections like UTIs more likely. In women, menopause leads to a drop in estrogen levels. This weakens the natural lining of the urinary tract, making it easier for bacteria to grow. Women also have a shorter urinary passage, so that bacteria can reach the bladder more easily.

In men, an enlarged prostate is a common issue. It can block the flow of urine, causing some urine to remain in the bladder. This leftover urine becomes a breeding ground for bacteria. Other common reasons include weaker immunity, conditions like diabetes, urinary incontinence, use of catheters, reduced movement, and dependence on caregivers for hygiene.

Symptoms Are Not Always clear

Unlike younger people, elderly individuals may not complain of burning urine or urgency. Instead, the signs can be subtle and confusing, such as:

• Sudden confusion or unusual behavior
• Increased falls
• Weakness or tiredness
• Loss of appetite

These symptoms are often mistaken for ageing or dementia, which can delay treatment.

Men vs Women: What’s the Difference?

UTIs are more common in older women due to hormonal changes and bladder control issues. Many women also experience repeat infections. In men, UTIs are less common but usually more serious. They are often linked to problems like prostate enlargement or urinary blockage, which need proper evaluation. Chronic illnesses play a big role. Diabetes, for example, increases the risk because excess sugar in urine helps bacteria grow. Poor sugar control also weakens the body’s ability to fight infections.

Conditions that affect bladder control, such as stroke or Parkinson’s disease, can also lead to incomplete emptying of the bladder, increasing infection risk.

Diagnosis Needs Careful Attention

Not every bacterium found in urine needs treatment. Many older adults have bacteria in their urine without symptoms—a condition called asymptomatic bacteriuria. Treating this unnecessarily can lead to antibiotic resistance. Doctors usually rely on urine tests, cultures, symptoms, and medical history before deciding on treatment.

Treatment: More Than Just Antibiotics

While antibiotics are important, they are only one part of the solution. Repeated courses without finding the cause often lead to recurring infections.

Treatment should also focus on:

• Drinking enough fluids
• Managing diabetes or other health conditions
• Treating prostate problems in men
• Avoiding unnecessary catheter use
• Reviewing medications that may affect bladder function

Early treatment is crucial. Ignoring symptoms can allow the infection to spread to the kidneys, which can be serious. Recurrent UTIs are common in the elderly. This can happen due to:

• Incomplete treatment
• Underlying problems like prostate enlargement
• Ongoing issues, such as incontinence or catheter use
• Antibiotic resistance

Prevention: Simple But Effective Steps

Preventing UTIs doesn’t always require complex measures. Small daily habits can make a big difference:

• Encourage regular water intake
• Avoid holding urine for long periods
• Maintain proper personal hygiene
• Manage conditions like diabetes well
• Limit catheter use
• Consider probiotics or cranberry products (after medical advice).

Caregivers play a key role in ensuring these habits are followed, especially for elderly individuals who need assistance. Immediate medical attention is needed if there is:

• Fever or chills
• Sudden confusion
• Blood in urine
• Lower back pain

UTIs in the elderly are common but often not straightforward. They may present differently, recur frequently, and require more than just antibiotics. The key is early recognition, identifying the underlying cause, and taking simple preventive steps. With the right care, recurrent UTIs can be reduced—helping older adults live healthier, more comfortable lives.

(By Dr. Sunita Goyal, Senior Consultant – Obstetrician and Gynecologist, Cloudnine Group of Hospitals, Ludhiana)

Systematic Lupus Erythematosus (SLE), also known as Lupus, is a multisystem autoimmune disease in which one's immune system attacks the body. It is most common in women of reproductive age; however, in rare cases, it can present in men and patients of any age.

Lupus Symptoms: More Than Just Joint Pain

Symptoms for SLE can range from unexplained fever for days to months, to oral ulcers, malar rash, photosensitivity (after exposure to sun), hair loss, headache, stroke, seizure, abnormal behavior (psychiatry lupus). A large group of patients experiences joint swelling, pain, and fatigue. If the kidneys are affected in Lupus patients, they can pass blood with their urine.

Their urine output also decreases; their legs swell, and there is swelling around the eyes. Involvement of the heart, brain, and pancreas is also not uncommon. Lupus is one of the causes of multiple unexplained pregnancy losses, especially in the second trimester, but with proper treatment and observation, many patients do well and have an uneventful pregnancy and childbirth.

Common Myths About Lupus

Some very prominent myths about SLE need to be debunked. Many think SLE is contagious and that only women can get it, when in reality, neither is true. Being an autoimmune disease means it cannot spread by contact, and it impacts both men and women, although the incidence rate of SLE is higher for women. Many also believe in the common misconception that it affects only joints, when in reality it is a multisystem disease that can affect the kidneys, heart, brain, skin, and lungs.

There is a common myth that pregnancy is impossible or unsafe for women with Lupus; however, many women with Lupus can conceive and experience safe and healthy full-term pregnancies under the right medical guidance. Kidney biopsy, which is a required test for treating Lupus, is often deemed unsafe, but it is a safe test and is required to decide the stage of the disease and treatment.

Lupus: Warning Signs

Some symptoms that can be a cause of alarm in SLE are rapid rising serum creatinine, new onset seizure or psychosis, sudden onset shortness of breath associated with chest pain, blood in cough with low oxygen saturation, acute confusional state with fever, vision changes, severe abdominal pain, unexplained severe anemia, severe thrombocytopenia (platelet count < 20,000).

Managing Lupus

For accurate diagnosis and treatment, one needs a rheumatologist's consultation. Rheumatologists will decide the plan of treatment to manage symptoms, reduce inflammation, prevent flares of the disease, and minimize organ damage. Lifestyle measures like avoiding Sun exposure, quitting smoking, lowering stress, and engaging in some low-impact physical activities help patients to minimize the disease burden.

There is very little awareness about Lupus in society, and due to varied presentations and symptoms, patients often consult with multiple doctors of different specialties before consulting with rheumatologists. We need to push for more awareness in society about less talked-about ailments like Lupus, which needs efficient intervention and management, as it is a lifelong condition. Talking about it also helps reduce stigma and bust myths around it. Late diagnosis and delay in treatment can cause significant morbidity, disease progression, and mortality. With early diagnosis and optimal treatment.

Holistic care is possible, which goes a long way in helping individuals manage autoimmune conditions like Lupus

(By Dr Niharika Gill, Rheumatologist, Lilavati Hospital and Research Center, Mumbai)

Prostate cancer presents a troubling paradox. It is among the most treatable cancers when detected early, with survival rates exceeding 99% at five years. Yet it continues to be a major cause of cancer-related deaths among men worldwide.

The challenge is not always the aggressiveness of the disease; it is the fact that prostate cancer often develops quietly, with symptoms that are easy to overlook or dismiss.

When Cancer Doesn't Make a Sound?

The prostate is located deep within the pelvis, beneath the bladder and surrounding the urethra. In its early stages, prostate cancer typically causes little to no discomfort. Small tumors rarely affect nearby nerves or tissues, allowing the disease to progress unnoticed.

Even when symptoms do appear, they are often mistaken for natural signs of ageing. Changes such as a weaker urine stream, increased frequency of urination, urgency, or waking up several times at night are commonly associated with benign prostate enlargement. This condition affects many men as they grow older. As a result, warning signs are frequently ignored or attributed to age-related changes rather than investigated further.

Unfortunately, more alarming symptoms, including blood in the urine or semen, persistent bone pain, unexplained weight loss, or difficulty passing urine, often emerge only when the disease has advanced beyond the prostate.

Why Men Delay Seeking Help

Biology is only part of the story. Social and psychological factors play an equally important role in delayed diagnosis.

Many men are conditioned to endure discomfort rather than seek medical attention. Persistent messages around toughness and self-reliance can discourage conversations about health concerns, particularly when symptoms involve urinary or sexual function.

Fear also contributes to postponement. Some men worry about receiving a cancer diagnosis, while others are concerned about potential treatment side effects such as urinary incontinence or erectile dysfunction. For many, avoiding the test feels easier than confronting the possibility of bad news.

A lack of awareness further compounds the problem. Unlike heart health or diabetes, prostate health is rarely discussed openly. Many men are unfamiliar with the prostate gland, its role in the body, or the importance of prostate-specific antigen (PSA) testing.

The Role of Stigma and Social Barriers

Symptoms linked to urinary or sexual health often carry an element of embarrassment, making men less likely to discuss them with friends, family members, or healthcare professionals.

Additionally, many men prioritize work and family responsibilities over their own health. Preventive screening may be viewed as unnecessary, especially when symptoms seem minor or absent. This tendency can delay diagnosis until the disease reaches a more advanced stage.

Health disparities also play a role. Certain populations face higher risks of developing and dying from prostate cancer, yet often experience lower rates of screening and healthcare access, highlighting the need for more targeted awareness efforts.

Challenges Within the Healthcare System

Unlike some other cancers, prostate cancer screening recommendations are not universally standardized. Decisions around PSA testing are often based on age, risk factors, and individual discussions between patients and healthcare providers.

Because symptoms frequently overlap with benign conditions such as urinary tract infections or prostate enlargement, prostate cancer may not always be suspected immediately. Furthermore, many men do not attend regular health check-ups, reducing opportunities for early detection and informed conversations about risk.

Who Should Be Particularly Vigilant?

While all men should be aware of prostate health, certain groups face a higher risk of developing the disease:

• Men over the age of 50
• Individuals with a father, brother, or close relative diagnosed with prostate cancer
• Men carrying inherited genetic mutations such as BRCA2
• Those with obesity, smoking habits, or diets high in processed foods and saturated fats

Breaking the Silence

Improving outcomes starts with changing the conversation around prostate health. Rather than viewing screening as a response to illness, it should be considered part of routine preventive healthcare, similar to monitoring blood pressure, cholesterol, or blood sugar levels. Men should feel comfortable discussing urinary changes, however minor they may seem, with their healthcare providers.

Public awareness campaigns, workplace screening initiatives, and community outreach programs can play a vital role in normalizing conversations around prostate health. Equally important are personal stories from survivors and public figures, which can encourage others to seek timely medical advice.

The Difference Early Detection Makes

When prostate cancer is identified at an early stage, treatment options are often less invasive and highly effective, ranging from active surveillance to curative surgery or radiation therapy. Survival outcomes are excellent.

In contrast, advanced prostate cancer may require long-term hormone therapy, chemotherapy, and ongoing management of symptoms that significantly affect quality of life. The burden extends beyond health, impacting emotional well-being, family life, and financial stability.

A Message Every Man Should Hear

Prostate cancer often develops without obvious warning signs, making awareness and proactive screening essential. The goal is not to create fear, but to empower men to take charge of their health before symptoms become impossible to ignore.

When it comes to prostate cancer, the conversation should begin long before the disease announces itself.