Have you ever felt like sexual thoughts or impulses are taking over, affecting your work, relationships, or daily life? You might have hypersexuality disorder.
It is a condition marked by persistent, excessive sexual thoughts, fantasies, urges, or behaviours that interfere with daily life. It goes beyond having a high sex drive, involving an overwhelming compulsion towards sexual activity that is difficult to control.
People with hypersexual disorder may spend hours daily on sexual activities, impacting work or personal responsibilities. They might feel unable to cut back despite harmful consequences, for instance, health risks or relationship issues. People may use sexual behaviour as a way to manage stress, loneliness, or anxiety, often leading to a cycle of guilt and shame.
There may be emotional and social consequences including:
Guilt and shame from repeatedly engaging in behaviours they wish to avoid.
To hide these behaviours, some withdraw from family and friends, creating a barrier to healthy relationships.
Constant failure to control sexual impulses can harm self-image, leading to depression or anxiety.
Although the causes are complex and it may vary, there are certain key factors, which may be:
Brain Chemistry
Imbalances in dopamine the "reward" neurotransmitter, may fuel compulsive behaviours, including sexual ones.
Genetic Factors
A family history of addiction or impulse-control disorders can also raise one's risk.
Mental Health Issues
Hypersexual behaviour is often linked to conditions like bipolar disorders, particularly during manic phases, OCD, and certain personality disorders.
Substance Use
Stimulants like methamphetamine or cocaine can amplify sexual desire and lead to compulsive sexual behaviour.
Hypersexuality can disrupt one's life as the sexual thoughts can hinder personal work or social functioning. However, high libido does not lead to distress or impairment.
Hypersexual disorder is not an official diagnosis in the DSM-5, clinicians usually assess it based on symptoms and patterns that impact a lot on quality of life.