Emotional control is something everyone learns over time. Everyone deals with things differently, some people have a difficult time controlling their emotions, while others find it easier to compartmentalize and figure out a solution. However, having an emotional breakdown/meltdown is completely different then feeling stressed or panicked. An emotional meltdown is when you feel so overwhelmed that you can't control your feelings. It's like hitting a breaking point.

You might cry a lot, get really angry, or feel panicky. WebMD explains that it's not a medical problem, but it's a sign you're under a lot of stress. Everyone has meltdowns sometimes, especially when life gets tough. It doesn't mean you're weak or broken. It just means you're human. Meltdowns happen when your needs aren't being met, like needing more rest or help. It's your body's way of saying something's wrong. You can learn to handle stress better and have fewer meltdowns.

What Prompts An Emotional Breakdown?

Many things can cause a meltdown. Not sleeping enough makes you grumpy and stressed. Skipping meals makes you feel shaky and unable to focus. Doing too much at once makes you feel overwhelmed. Big changes in your life, like a new job or a breakup, can make you feel wobbly. Not talking about problems with people you care about can also make things worse. If you have meltdowns often, think about what makes them happen. Maybe you need to eat more regularly or learn to talk about your feelings. Some things are easy to fix, and some take more time.

Can You Stop A Meltdown When It’s Happening?

When you feel a meltdown coming, stop and take a breath. Your face might get hot, your hands cold, and your breathing fast. Pay attention to how you feel. Don't try to fix the problem right away. First, calm down. Your brain can't think clearly when you're upset. Try grounding techniques, like feeling your feet on the floor or touching your fingertips together. Deep breathing helps too. Breathe in for four seconds, hold for four, breathe out for four, and pause for four. Do this until you feel calmer. You can't change the problem right away, but you can change how you react to it.

After a meltdown, you might feel embarrassed, ashamed, or relieved. Don't just ignore it. Think about why it happened. Did you try to do too much? Learn from it. If you're embarrassed, ask yourself why. It's okay to have feelings. If you felt relieved, it means you needed to let your feelings out. But try to express them in a healthy way before you have a meltdown. You don't have to apologize for how you feel, but you might need to apologize for how you acted. If you yelled or threw things, say sorry and make a plan to do better next time. If you have meltdowns often, talk to a therapist. Be kind to yourself; everyone gets overwhelmed sometimes.

Can You Prevent It?

You can learn to stop meltdowns before they start. Make time to relax every day. Do things you enjoy, like exercising or reading. Listen to your body. If you feel tense, tired, or have headaches, you're probably stressed. Do something to relax. Don't ignore bad feelings. Talk about them. Naming your feelings helps you control them. Ask for help from friends and family. They can help you with tasks or just listen. Spend time in nature; it's calming. Do things that make you laugh and have fun. If you're still feeling overwhelmed, talk to a therapist. They can teach you ways to cope with stress.

In my 13 years of working with clients as a trauma-informed consulting psychologist, I have often noticed that people recognise nervous-system overload only after their body forces them to slow down.

Until then, they may describe themselves as “too sensitive”, “lazy” or “unable to cope”. In reality, these reactions are often the nervous system’s attempt to protect us.

Fight, Flight, Freeze Or Shutdown

Our nervous system continually assesses whether we are safe. When stress feels persistent or overwhelming, the body may move into fight or flight.

We might become irritable, restless, anxious or unusually controlling. The heart may race, muscles tighten and sleep become disturbed. At other times, the system may shift towards freeze or shutdown, showing up as exhaustion, emotional numbness, procrastination, forgetfulness or a strong desire to withdraw.

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When Everyday Reactions May Signal Overload

For example, someone who becomes disproportionately angry over a minor delay may not simply have an “anger problem”; their system may already be carrying days or months of accumulated stress. Another person may sit before a simple email for hours, unable to respond.

What looks like avoidance may actually be a freeze response. Some people remain highly productive while feeling disconnected from their bodies, until headaches, digestive difficulties or fatigue begin demanding attention.

These signs do not automatically indicate trauma or a mental health condition. They are invitations to become curious: What has my system been carrying? When did I last feel rested, supported or genuinely safe?

Small Ways To Help The Body Feel Safer

If you notice these patterns, begin gently. Reduce unnecessary stimulation, eat regularly, protect your sleep and spend time with people around whom you do not have to perform. Slow breathing—particularly allowing the exhale to be longer—may help signal safety. You can also look around the room, notice your feet on the floor and name what you can see and hear. Small, repeated experiences of safety are often more helpful than forcing yourself to “calm down”.

If symptoms persist, interfere with daily life or feel difficult to manage alone, speaking with a trauma-informed therapist can help you understand the patterns beneath them. Therapy is not only for moments of crisis; it can offer a safe space to listen to what the nervous system has been communicating all along.

The body is rarely working against us. Often, it is asking for care in the only language it knows.

By Ms Arouba Kabir, Psychologist & Therapist, Founder - Enso Wellness

Someone who is dying may start to their loved ones who passed away years ago. This could be unsettling and confusing for families and relatives who may assume that the person is just hallucinating or undergoing a deeper neurological issue.

But hospice physician Dr Christopher Kerr says such experiences are a known phenomenon called end-of-life dreams and visions (ELDVs). Kerr, chief medical officer of Hospice Buffalo, has spent decades studying these experiences in dying patients extensively.

Appearing on The Oprah Podcast, he told Oprah Winfrey that many patients near death describe seeing deceased relatives or people who cared for them during their lives. The experiences can feel completely real to them.

Why Do People Near Death See Deceased Loved Ones?

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One of the possibilities is that the brain experiences significant changes as the body starts to shut down.

Alterations in sleep, consciousness, metabolism, oxygen levels, medications, and brain chemistry can all affect perception during the final stages of life.

Dr. Rakesh Lalla, Additional Director - Neurology, Fortis Hospital, Mumbai, told HealthandMe, " These visions could be explained by the alterations that occur within the brain as the body starts to close down. Due to oxygen deprivation and altered brain activity, the brain would process memories, feelings, and stimuli differently. The areas responsible for memory processing and vision could become stimulated or disrupted, which could result in some vivid visions or experiences."

The expert also said that these visions do not mean that the person has a neurological or psychiatric issue.

Dr. Lalla said, "They do not necessarily mean that the person is confused or suffering from a psychiatric condition. In many cases, they are brief, peaceful, and emotionally meaningful to the individual. We still do not fully understand why particular people or memories appear."

The neurologist also advised families to stay supportive and calm during such situations.

He added, "The brain’s complex relationship between memory, emotion and perception is likely to play an important role. For families, the key is to remain calm, listen without dismissing the experience, and provide reassurance and comfort."

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Hallucinations Or Part Of The Dying Process?

Experts who have been studying ELDVs have also found that these experiences have some distinctive patterns that do not resemble random hallucinations.

In a 2014 longitudinal study led by Kerr, most of the 59 hospice patients who completed the study reported at least one dream or vision. Almost half occurred during sleep, and nearly all patients said the experiences felt real. The most common involved deceased friends or relatives or other loved ones. In fact, comforting visions of deceased people became more common as patients moved closer to death.

A 2026 systematic review of 13 studies similarly found that ELDVs occurred in at least one in five dying adults.

The National Institute on Aging also states that dying people may appear to see or talk to someone who is not present and may report dreams involving deceased relatives or friends. Such experiences are often comforting, and caregivers are generally advised not to immediately correct or challenge the person.

Seeing Loved Ones Could Be A Comforting End

Kerr said that patients seeing deceased loved ones in their visions appeared calmer afterward. His research suggests that these experiences may carry deep emotional meaning for patients.

“Very little is said between the person in the dream and the dreamer, but everything seems to be understood,” Kerr told Oprah.

Scientists still cannot say exactly what produces these experiences or whether they represent anything beyond changes occurring in the dying brain.

India accounts for one-fifth of global deaths due to cardiovascular diseases (CVDs) or complications related to the heart and blood vessels. Moreover, women are more vulnerable to these complications. Recent data show that women (14%) have a higher prevalence of CVD than men (12%), making preventive care very important for all.

When Should A Heart Check-up Be Done?

The human heart works constantly and efficiently and can compensate for metabolic stress and narrowing of blood vessels without showing any obvious symptoms. Hence, a heart health evaluation should ideally take place when the person is feeling completely well, long before any warning signs appear.

While acute symptoms, such as chest pressure or tightness, unexplained breathlessness, fainting, or unusual fatigue on effort, demand immediate attention, true heart protection occurs through early and planned tests. While heart check-ups are routinely recommended starting at age 40, screening should ideally begin earlier, around ages 30 to 35, especially if risk factors are present.

Starting check-ups at age 30 is important because certain congenital and structural heart conditions remain completely silent for years, and early screening ensures timely, targeted treatment when it is most effective.

Regular screening helps detect and rule out underlying issues early, including congenital heart defects (commonly known as holes in the heart) and conditions such as Atrial Septal Defect (ASD), Ventricular Septal Defect (VSD), or Patent Ductus Arteriosus (PDA). Structural and muscle diseases, on the other hand, include valve disorders, heart muscle weakness, or abnormal thickening of the heart walls (e.g., Hypertrophic Obstructive Cardiomyopathy (HOCM)).

Key Risk Factors

In addition to age, patients should seek a heart check-up sooner if they have any of the following risk factors:

• Strong family history of premature heart disease in immediate relatives.
• History of active or past smoking and tobacco use.
• Metabolic conditions such as diabetes, hypertension, or elevated blood cholesterol.

Excess body weight, especially central or abdominal obesity. Excess body weight damages the kidneys, leads to fat deposits in the liver and increases the risk of developing diabetes, and ultimately increases the strain on the heart and blood vessels (cardiovascular system). These interconnected conditions are known as Cardiovascular-Kidney-Metabolic (CKM) syndrome and include heart disease, kidney disease, diabetes, stetotic (fatty) liver disease, and obesity.

Effective weight and metabolic management, through modern options such as oral or injectable GLP1 therapies, can improve long-term heart health.

Tailoring care

A heart check-up can involve several tests, from blood tests to invasive or non-invasive ones (with/without needles, catheters, or probes entering the body). The most common blood tests include fasting and post-prandial or after-meal blood sugar (FBG/PPBG), HbA1c (glycated haemoglobin), lipid and thyroid profile, and kidney function tests. Non-invasive cardiac tests include electrocardiogram (ECG), 2D echocardiogram, and ultrasound. However, not everyone needs all of them.

Diagnostic tests should be customized based on the person’s age, symptoms, and individual risk score. Hence, skip the urge to self-order commercial diagnostic packages online. Instead, take the most important step towards protecting your heart by talking to your doctor. A personalized assessment can help determine which tests, if any, are appropriate for you, so that you can focus on the right steps to keep your heart healthy.