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Emotional control is something everyone learns over time. Everyone deals with things differently, some people have a difficult time controlling their emotions, while others find it easier to compartmentalize and figure out a solution. However, having an emotional breakdown/meltdown is completely different then feeling stressed or panicked. An emotional meltdown is when you feel so overwhelmed that you can't control your feelings. It's like hitting a breaking point.
You might cry a lot, get really angry, or feel panicky. WebMD explains that it's not a medical problem, but it's a sign you're under a lot of stress. Everyone has meltdowns sometimes, especially when life gets tough. It doesn't mean you're weak or broken. It just means you're human. Meltdowns happen when your needs aren't being met, like needing more rest or help. It's your body's way of saying something's wrong. You can learn to handle stress better and have fewer meltdowns.
Many things can cause a meltdown. Not sleeping enough makes you grumpy and stressed. Skipping meals makes you feel shaky and unable to focus. Doing too much at once makes you feel overwhelmed. Big changes in your life, like a new job or a breakup, can make you feel wobbly. Not talking about problems with people you care about can also make things worse. If you have meltdowns often, think about what makes them happen. Maybe you need to eat more regularly or learn to talk about your feelings. Some things are easy to fix, and some take more time.
When you feel a meltdown coming, stop and take a breath. Your face might get hot, your hands cold, and your breathing fast. Pay attention to how you feel. Don't try to fix the problem right away. First, calm down. Your brain can't think clearly when you're upset. Try grounding techniques, like feeling your feet on the floor or touching your fingertips together. Deep breathing helps too. Breathe in for four seconds, hold for four, breathe out for four, and pause for four. Do this until you feel calmer. You can't change the problem right away, but you can change how you react to it.
After a meltdown, you might feel embarrassed, ashamed, or relieved. Don't just ignore it. Think about why it happened. Did you try to do too much? Learn from it. If you're embarrassed, ask yourself why. It's okay to have feelings. If you felt relieved, it means you needed to let your feelings out. But try to express them in a healthy way before you have a meltdown. You don't have to apologize for how you feel, but you might need to apologize for how you acted. If you yelled or threw things, say sorry and make a plan to do better next time. If you have meltdowns often, talk to a therapist. Be kind to yourself; everyone gets overwhelmed sometimes.
You can learn to stop meltdowns before they start. Make time to relax every day. Do things you enjoy, like exercising or reading. Listen to your body. If you feel tense, tired, or have headaches, you're probably stressed. Do something to relax. Don't ignore bad feelings. Talk about them. Naming your feelings helps you control them. Ask for help from friends and family. They can help you with tasks or just listen. Spend time in nature; it's calming. Do things that make you laugh and have fun. If you're still feeling overwhelmed, talk to a therapist. They can teach you ways to cope with stress.
Young men must go for regular health check-ups to rule out the possibility of health problems later.
Most young men assume that if there is no pain, there is no serious problem. Unfortunately, many important testicular conditions, especially testicular cancer, often begin as a painless lump, swelling, or enlargement of one testicle. Because there is no pain, men tend to ignore it, thinking it is due to exercise, minor trauma, tight clothing, cycling, or temporary swelling. Embarrassment and reluctance to discuss genital symptoms also contribute to delay.
Dr. Chandan M. N, Consultant Urologist, Andrologist, Uro-Oncologist & Renal Transplant Surgeon, Apollo Hospitals, Sheshadripuram, Bangalore, spoke about the pain conundrum. The expert said that when it comes to testicular health, absence of pain must not be a reassuring factor.
Pain is usually seen as a warning signal, but in testicular disease, absence of pain should not reassure patients. Testicular cancer is one of the most common cancers in young men, particularly between 15 and 35 years of age, and it can progress quickly if diagnosis is delayed. However, when detected early, it is also one of the most curable cancers.
The most commonly overlooked sign is a painless lump or swelling in one testicle.
Sometimes the change is subtle; a testicle may simply feel slightly harder, heavier, larger, or firmer than before. Many men also ignore a dragging sensation, heaviness in the scrotum, or a dull ache in the groin or lower abdomen because these symptoms are mild and not severe enough to disrupt daily life.
Other signs that should not be ignored include sudden fluid collection in the scrotum, change in the shape or size of one testicle, unevenness between the two testicles, persistent discomfort, or a feeling that something is different. Some men may also notice back pain, breast tenderness, or unexplained swelling if the disease has spread. Importantly, not every testicular lump is cancer. Conditions such as hydrocele, varicocele, spermatocele, orchitis, or hernia can also present with swelling or heaviness. But the only safe approach is to get examined rather than assume it is harmless.
Young men should know what is normal for their own body. A simple self-examination once a month, ideally after a warm shower when the scrotal skin is relaxed, can help detect early changes.
Men should gently feel each testicle for lumps, swelling, hardness, change in size, or heaviness. Familiarity with one’s normal anatomy makes it easier to notice when something changes. Any new lump, swelling, change in shape, or persistent discomfort should be evaluated promptly by a doctor. Usually, a physical examination and scrotal ultrasound are enough to identify the cause. Early medical advice can differentiate a harmless condition from something serious and, in the case of testicular cancer, can make the difference between simple treatment and advanced disease.
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Malaria is widely known as a mosquito-borne disease that causes fever, chills, and body aches. But what many people don’t realize is that in severe cases, it can also affect the heart.
Malaria is caused by parasites belonging to the Plasmodium genus. It may cause complications beyond the bloodstream. In some cases, this may happen in severe malaria, where either the diagnosis or treatment is late.
Speaking to HealthandMe, Dr. Ravi Prakash, Senior Consultant Cardiology, PSRI Hospital, Delhi, noted that malaria affects different parts of the body, depending on the severity and the patient's immunity.
"In severe malaria cases, the parasite that causes malaria infects the red blood cells, making them sticky. When these stick together, the cells block the flow of blood in smaller blood vessels, limiting oxygenation of important organs, including the heart," Dr Prakash explained.
The condition may then result in myocarditis, arrhythmias, or heart failure. Although these complications rarely affect the heart, they require prompt medical intervention.
Further, Dr. Rakesh Pandit, Senior Consultant & HOD, Internal Medicine, Aakash Healthcare, highlighted that malaria can put stress on the heart either directly or indirectly.
It can lead to inflammation of the heart and result in chest pains, fatigue, or arrhythmia.
"Patients suffering from severe malaria may develop tachycardia or, in worst-case scenarios, experience heart blockage," Dr. Pandit told HealthandMe.
Furthermore, malaria infection may limit the blood flow to the heart by increasing the stickiness of the blood, thus blocking small blood vessels.
"Anemia associated with malaria can increase the load on the patient's heart," Dr Pandit said.
Fever, dehydration, and hypoxia further increase cardiac stress in malaria patients, who may end up having their pre-existing heart conditions unmasked.
Early detection is important. Besides classic malaria symptoms such as fever, sweats, shivers, headaches, and tiredness, any unusual symptoms such as chest pains, difficulty breathing, rapid heartbeats, or excessive weakness must be considered carefully.
"These could be signs of organ damage caused by the disease, which means early diagnosis and treatment are vital. Blood tests will be conducted to identify malaria parasites in your body," Dr. Prakash said.
Some individuals are more susceptible to contracting malaria, which increases their chances of developing complications from the disease.
These include
"People who have underlying diseases may develop heart-related problems due to the malaria infection," Dr Prakash said.
Moreover, travelers to malaria-endemic areas without adequate protection from the disease are also likely to be affected.
The best method to avoid contracting malaria is to take preventive measures.
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Malaria is usually understood as a fever illness, with symptoms such as chills, sweating, body ache, weakness, and in severe cases, anemia or organ complications. But for women, especially in malaria-prone regions, its impact can be more layered.
It can disturb the body’s hormonal rhythm, worsen fatigue, complicate menstrual symptoms, and create confusion between infection-related pain and period-related discomfort. That is why malaria should not be seen only as a seasonal mosquito-borne disease, but also as a health concern that can affect women’s reproductive and menstrual well-being.
India has made strong progress against malaria. According to the Government of India, reported malaria cases fell from 11.6 lakh in 2015 to 2.27 lakh in 2023, a reduction of roughly 80%. Malaria-related deaths also declined from 384 to 83 in the same period, a fall of about 78%. This shows that prevention, testing, surveillance, and treatment have improved significantly.
At the same time, malaria has not disappeared. The risk remains higher in endemic, tribal, forested, and hard-to-reach areas, where mosquito exposure, delayed testing, limited access to care, and anemia can make the illness more difficult to manage.
The connection begins with the body’s stress response. Malaria infection does not remain limited to the bloodstream. Research on hormones in malaria shows that the infection can affect host metabolism and create hormonal imbalances, with changes influenced by parasite type, disease severity, immune response, age, sex, nutrition, and stage of infection.
The research notes that malaria can dysregulate the hypothalamic-pituitary-adrenal, thyroid, and gonadal axes, which are central to stress, metabolism, and reproductive hormone regulation.
For menstrual health, this matters because periods are not controlled by the uterus alone. They depend on coordination between the brain, ovaries, and hormones such as estrogen and progesterone. When the body is fighting malaria, that rhythm can be disturbed.
Fever, inflammation, poor appetite, weakness, anemia, and high physical stress can make periods late, lighter, heavier, or more exhausting than usual. In some women, premenstrual symptoms such as body ache, fatigue, abdominal discomfort, and mood changes may also feel worse because malaria itself produces overlapping symptoms.

There is also a direct hormonal pathway to consider. Cortisol, often called the stress hormone, is reported to rise in both P. falciparum and P. vivax malaria. High cortisol can affect immune function and may also disturb the wider hormonal balance on which regular ovulation and menstruation depend.
The same research notes that lower estradiol has been reported in severe falciparum malaria, while progesterone levels have also been reported to be lower in patients with P. falciparum malaria.
These findings do not mean every woman with malaria will have menstrual changes, but they do show that malaria can interfere with the hormonal systems linked to reproductive health.
Anemia is another important link. Malaria can destroy red blood cells and contribute to severe anemia. Menstruation, especially heavy bleeding, can also lower iron stores. When both happen together, the result can be extreme tiredness, dizziness, breathlessness, paleness, poor concentration, and slower recovery.
This is particularly relevant in India, where anemia among women is already a major public health concern. A woman recovering from malaria who also has heavy periods should not dismiss prolonged weakness as “normal period fatigue.”
One reason diagnosis can be delayed is that malaria symptoms are often nonspecific. WHO lists fever, headache, and chills as common early symptoms, and says early testing is important because symptoms may initially resemble many other fever illnesses. In women, body ache, fatigue, abdominal discomfort, and weakness may be mistaken for PMS, a painful period, viral fever, or early pregnancy unless malaria is actively considered.
The risk is even more serious during pregnancy, including early pregnancy when a woman may not yet know she is pregnant. WHO states that malaria during pregnancy can cause premature delivery or low birth weight, and it is also noted that pregnancy reduces immunity to malaria, increasing the risk of severe anemia and illness.
The practical message is simple: if fever with chills, severe body ache, vomiting, unusual weakness, dizziness, or headache appears around the time of a period, it should not automatically be treated as PMS or “period weakness,” especially after travel to or residence in a malaria-prone area.
A malaria test should be done promptly, and treatment should be taken only under medical supervision.
Malaria can affect menstrual health by placing stress on the body’s blood, hormones, immunity, and energy reserves. For women, recognizing this connection can help prevent delayed diagnosis and support faster recovery.
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