
(Credit-Canva)
Emotional control is something everyone learns over time. Everyone deals with things differently, some people have a difficult time controlling their emotions, while others find it easier to compartmentalize and figure out a solution. However, having an emotional breakdown/meltdown is completely different then feeling stressed or panicked. An emotional meltdown is when you feel so overwhelmed that you can't control your feelings. It's like hitting a breaking point.
You might cry a lot, get really angry, or feel panicky. WebMD explains that it's not a medical problem, but it's a sign you're under a lot of stress. Everyone has meltdowns sometimes, especially when life gets tough. It doesn't mean you're weak or broken. It just means you're human. Meltdowns happen when your needs aren't being met, like needing more rest or help. It's your body's way of saying something's wrong. You can learn to handle stress better and have fewer meltdowns.
Many things can cause a meltdown. Not sleeping enough makes you grumpy and stressed. Skipping meals makes you feel shaky and unable to focus. Doing too much at once makes you feel overwhelmed. Big changes in your life, like a new job or a breakup, can make you feel wobbly. Not talking about problems with people you care about can also make things worse. If you have meltdowns often, think about what makes them happen. Maybe you need to eat more regularly or learn to talk about your feelings. Some things are easy to fix, and some take more time.
When you feel a meltdown coming, stop and take a breath. Your face might get hot, your hands cold, and your breathing fast. Pay attention to how you feel. Don't try to fix the problem right away. First, calm down. Your brain can't think clearly when you're upset. Try grounding techniques, like feeling your feet on the floor or touching your fingertips together. Deep breathing helps too. Breathe in for four seconds, hold for four, breathe out for four, and pause for four. Do this until you feel calmer. You can't change the problem right away, but you can change how you react to it.
After a meltdown, you might feel embarrassed, ashamed, or relieved. Don't just ignore it. Think about why it happened. Did you try to do too much? Learn from it. If you're embarrassed, ask yourself why. It's okay to have feelings. If you felt relieved, it means you needed to let your feelings out. But try to express them in a healthy way before you have a meltdown. You don't have to apologize for how you feel, but you might need to apologize for how you acted. If you yelled or threw things, say sorry and make a plan to do better next time. If you have meltdowns often, talk to a therapist. Be kind to yourself; everyone gets overwhelmed sometimes.
You can learn to stop meltdowns before they start. Make time to relax every day. Do things you enjoy, like exercising or reading. Listen to your body. If you feel tense, tired, or have headaches, you're probably stressed. Do something to relax. Don't ignore bad feelings. Talk about them. Naming your feelings helps you control them. Ask for help from friends and family. They can help you with tasks or just listen. Spend time in nature; it's calming. Do things that make you laugh and have fun. If you're still feeling overwhelmed, talk to a therapist. They can teach you ways to cope with stress.
Credit: AI-generated image
Men have been taught for generations that they must be strong, that they are supposed to be self-sufficient, not to feel any impact, and to be emotionally strong when they face challenges.
Resilience is a good trait, but it may also make men feel disheartened about sharing their vulnerabilities or asking for assistance when they need it. Emotional distress can often be seen as a personal failure, rather than a health issue, as many grow up hearing "man up" or "be strong.”
Meanwhile, there is still a high demand for men in society. Financial pressures, career expectations, family commitments, and social expectations can become a never-ending burden.
These factors can lead to feelings of loneliness, worry, and sadness, especially when combined with not having enough emotional release and wanting to turn to others for help.
Men are expected to be a part of the discussion, but not the central point of discussion when it comes to mental health. But the figures don't match. Almost three-fourths of the suicides in India are committed by men, which is a hidden and unaddressed issue.
One of the major issues is that there is a definition of masculinity in society. Boys are taught to be tough and independent from a young age and do not have to show feelings. The traits can both assist people in coping with difficulties and hinder them from admitting to emotional problems or seeking help when it is most necessary.
Read more: Doctors Day: From Burnout To Work Anxiety, The Mental Health Struggle Doctors Rarely Talk About
A further issue is that there are not enough safe places in which men can express feelings without risk of condemnation. Stigma can be a barrier to seeking help even when there is help available. This can not only postpone treatment but also increase symptoms of loneliness and hopelessness.
The answer is more than just asking men to "speak up". We need to actively question and combat the stereotypes entrenched in society that equate vulnerability with weakness. Both families and workplaces, schools and communities all have a part to play in promoting emotional literacy and open dialogue amongst men.
Men may not be aware of or express emotional distress in traditional ways, which can be a big problem. Rather, symptoms can be manifested as irritability, withdrawal, substance abuse, or risk-taking behaviour, which can make it difficult for family members and friends to recognise when intervention is required.
It is not enough to raise awareness to solve this crisis. It is important to establish a space of normalisation for expressing emotions, to provide support for mental health and to make it part of the identity to seek help instead of looking weak. Promoting the mental health of men is not only an individual matter, but also a public health issue that can save lives.
For a genuine commitment to the prevention of suicide, mental health status of men needs to be a public health issue. Being sensitive to their challenges, to the idea of seeking assistance, and to establishing environments that are supportive of them can make the difference between life and death.
By Dr. Hamza Hussain, Head of the Department of Psychiatry and Mental Health at Ruby Hall Clinic and Bhavya Shah, Consultant Psychologist at Saifee Hospital, Mumbai
Credits: Canva
Cancer cases are rising across India, but many patients still reach hospitals only after the disease has advanced. According to Dr. Hasmukh Jain, Professor of Medical Oncology at Tata Memorial Hospital, Mumbai, recognizing persistent warning signs and seeking timely medical care can make a critical difference.
Speaking about cancer awareness, Dr. Jain said, "Every year 15 lakh new cases of cancer are diagnosed in India. But the unfortunate thing is that most of these cases are diagnosed at an advanced stage."
He stressed that while cancer can present in many different ways, paying attention to your body's signals is one of the most important steps toward early diagnosis.
Dr. Jain explained that cancer often begins with symptoms that are common to many other illnesses, making them easy to dismiss. These may include:
Although these symptoms may also occur due to infections or conditions such as tuberculosis, he advised against ignoring them.
"If the symptoms are persisting for more than two weeks, always seek medical attention," Dr. Jain said.
He added that many cancers can be detected through a physical examination, basic blood tests, and, when required, a biopsy.
Also Read: FSSAI Targets 6 Energy Drink Brands; Experts Link Them to Obesity, Liver Problems
Cancer cases are increasing at an alarming rate, both in India and globally. To combat this, embracing healthy lifestyle practices can significantly reduce the risk of this life-threatening disease.
Here are some of the everyday habits that one can follow to reduce the risk of cancer:
Consuming a healthy and balanced diet rich in fruits, vegetables, whole grains, and lean proteins can reduce cancer risk. Berries, nuts, and green leafy vegetables contain many antioxidant properties that are useful in fighting oxidative stress-induced cancer. Cutting back and eliminating red and processed meat and sugar-containing drinks lowers the risk further.
Regular physical activity keeps the individual body fit and reduces the risk of breast, colon, and endometrial cancers.
Among the factors that would be measured when determining preventable causes, tobacco use takes part as the first head in the index, associated with lung, throat, or mouth cancers. Similarly, alcohol consumption exposure is linked to many cancers, from hepatocellular to breast cancer. Moderation or abstinence is the key.
Skin cancer is one of the most preventable types of cancer. Applying sunscreen with high SPF, finding shade, and avoiding tanning beds would save you from harmful ultraviolet rays.
Most people, including men and women over the age of 40, should get routine screening through mammograms, Pap tests, and colonoscopy to enhance early detection, which can save lives.
Moreover, cancer prevention is a shared goal influenced by personal choices. Bringing small yet steady changes in daily habits can dramatically reduce cancer risk while enhancing quality of life.
Credit: AI Created Image
Swimming is often considered one of the safest forms of exercise—and for good reason. It provides an excellent cardiovascular workout, builds muscle strength, and places far less stress on the joints than activities like running or weight training. However, "safe" does not mean "injury-proof."
Whether it's children learning their first strokes or adults swimming regularly for fitness, injuries can occur when technique is poor, training intensity increases too quickly, or warm-ups are skipped. The good news is that most swimming-related injuries can be prevented with a few simple habits.
According to Dr. Dharam P. Pandey, Director, APARC Health & Motion, Premier Chain of Physiotherapy and Rehabilitation Care Provider, understanding these risks and taking preventive measures can help swimmers of all ages enjoy the sport without unnecessary setbacks.
Swimming injuries often develop gradually due to repetitive movements rather than sudden accidents.
In children, the most common causes include poor stroke technique, repetitive motion, and pushing beyond their physical limits too early. Shoulder pain—commonly known as "swimmer's shoulder"—is one of the most frequently reported issues. Breaststroke swimmers may also experience knee pain, while lower back discomfort is another common complaint.
Adults face many of the same overuse injuries but are also more likely to develop muscle strains, neck pain, and muscle cramps. These problems are especially common among people returning to swimming after a long break or those who suddenly increase the intensity or duration of their workouts.
Also Read: FSSAI Targets 6 Energy Drink Brands; Experts Link Them to Obesity, Liver Problems
Many swimmers assume that simply getting into the water is enough to loosen up the body. In reality, muscles and joints perform much better when they are prepared beforehand.
A proper warm-up should include a few minutes of stretching along with gentle movements for the shoulders, neck, and legs. Once in the pool, swimmers should begin with easy laps before increasing speed or intensity. This gradual approach significantly lowers the risk of muscle strains and overuse injuries.
Swimming longer distances is not always better if the technique is incorrect.
Poor stroke mechanics can place unnecessary stress on the shoulders, knees, and spine. Children benefit from proper supervision while learning swimming techniques, ensuring they develop correct movement patterns from the beginning.
Adults experiencing recurring discomfort should also consider improving their stroke technique instead of simply pushing through the pain. Good technique not only improves efficiency in the water but also plays a major role in preventing injuries.
Swimming is an activity that people should be able to enjoy throughout their lives. Preventing injuries is far easier than recovering from them.
Following proper technique, warming up before every session, progressing gradually, staying hydrated, and paying attention to early signs of pain can help both children and adults remain active, healthy, and injury-free throughout the swimming season.
© 2024 Bennett, Coleman & Company Limited