When someone that you know makes a suicide attempt, it’s normal to feel a surge in tough emotions like grief, guilt, anger or even a sense of numbness. However, it’s vitally important to talk through these feelings, both for you to be able to hold yourself afloat and to support your friend through their moment of need. Listen without judgement, keep the conversation open and try to ask questions that allows you to see their perspective. Here are a few things to keep in mind.
Talk Through It
The first thing to remember when engaging in this kind of conversation is that the tough reality it’s not always about finding solutions. Sometimes our role, as a friend, is simply to offer a safe space for them to be able to express their feelings. One of the most damaging sentiments in the modern day is that we don’t have the right to our emotions or to feel the way that we do, which can lead to negative spirals or ruminations.
Why Support Systems Are Crucial
The second thing to bear in mind are support systems: for you and your friend. If you're close to the person, ensure you also have a support system to help you navigate this challenging time. The person in recovery may still be experiencing suicidal distress, so having a network of people who can provide emotional support, practical help, and actual professional resources is crucial. This network might include friends, family, mental health professionals, and community support groups.
What To Do Immediately After An Attempt
In the immediate aftermath of a suicide attempt, it's important to ensure the person's safety. Either escort them to the emergency department of your nearest hospital or call a mental health crisis helpline that is equipped to handle these kinds of crises. In that time, remove any triggers or means of suicide that might exacerbate the situation and try to keep them talking. Staying calm and simply letting them know you care can be crucially important.
Reach Out To Local Mental Health NGOs And Foundations
These organizations tend to have a pool of resources to help suicide attempt survivors and those caring for them. hey also provide resources such as personal safety plans, advice for supporting someone online, and helplines for immediate support. Remember, it's not about fixing the person but about showing them empathy, care, and understanding as they navigate their path to recovery
Lastly, just remember that supporting a suicide attempt survivor is a journey, one that requires patience, empathy, and resilience. However, do remember that with the right support, recovery is possible.
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Dehydration is a serious concern for people fasting during the month-long Ramadan period, and can severely impact kidney and prostate health. Experts suggested that avoiding excess salt and caffeine can help.
While Ramadan fasting is generally safe for people with early-stage chronic kidney disease (CKD), maintaining adequate hydration between iftar and sehri -- the two important meals each day for faithful observing the fasting -- is of significant importance.
Dehydration can lead to acute kidney injury and electrolyte imbalances for individuals with advanced CKD. As prolonged fasting hours -- more than 12 hours a day -- urine becomes concentrated, increasing the risk for kidney stones and Urinary Tract infections (UTIs).
For men with prostate problems, fasting during Ramadan can pose challenges, such as Benign Prostatic Hyperplasia (BPH) or an enlarged prostate, primarily due to dehydration.
“As a practicing urologist and kidney transplant surgeon in India, I often notice a rise in kidney stone pain and urinary infections during Ramzan. When patients fast for long hours -- especially in our warm climate -- urine becomes highly concentrated. That increases the risk of stones and UTIs. Men with prostate enlargement sometimes report worsening urinary flow because they consciously reduce fluid intake,” Dr. Pankaj Panwar, Additional Director, Urology, Fortis Escorts Okhla, New Delhi, told HealthandMe.
The doctor advised people “to hydrate strategically between Iftar and Sehri, avoid excess salt and caffeine”.
Consuming high-sodium foods such as processed meats, pickles, salty snacks, and fast food during iftar or sehri can increase thirst and dehydration.
High salt intake forces the body to pull water from cells to dilute the sodium, leading to severe thirst. It can also lead to bloating.
Similarly, caffeine in coffee, tea, chocolate, and energy drinks can be diuretic and cause the body to lose fluids and salts through increased urination. Particularly, drinking coffee or tea at sehri -- the pre-dawn meal -- can lead to faster dehydration during the day.
Caffeine consumption, especially late in the evening, can also interfere with sleep, making it harder to wake up for sehri.
“Ramzan is a sacred month of fasting, but prolonged abstinence from water, especially in hot climates, can increase dehydration risk. Concentrated urine puts stress on the kidneys and may worsen kidney stones or trigger urinary tract infections,” Dr. Mangesh Patil, Urologist at Saifee Hospital, Mumbai, told HealthandMe.
Dehydration during Ramadan fasting can lead to symptoms like headaches, extreme thirst, fatigue, and dizziness. But in case of severe dizziness, fever, confusion, or blurred vision, the experts warned of immediate medical help.
“Do not ignore warning signs like flank pain, fever, or difficulty passing urine. A little planning can prevent an emergency hospital visit,” Panwar said.
Patil said warning signs include severe flank pain, burning urination, fever, vomiting, blood in urine, or reduced urine output. Men with Benign Prostatic Hyperplasia may notice worsening urinary symptoms.
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Colon (colorectal) cancer begins when small growths called polyps form on the inner lining of the colon or rectum. Over time, changes in the DNA of these cells can cause the polyps to become cancerous.
As abnormal cells multiply, they replace healthy cells and eventually form a mass known as a tumor. This process develops slowly, often taking up to ten years for a precancerous polyp to turn into cancer and begin showing symptoms.
Colon cancer poses serious health risks because cancerous cells can invade healthy tissues. Over time, they may break away and spread to other parts of the body, making detection more difficult since the symptoms can resemble other conditions.
Colon cancer can be difficult to detect because it often develops without obvious symptoms. However, doctors emphasize that the number one warning sign is rectal bleeding or blood in your stool.
"Colon cancer can be hard to diagnose because it can develop asymptomatically,” said Dr. John Nathanson, a gastroenterologist at New York-Presbyterian Allen Hospital.
Dr. Pratima Dibba adds that this symptom should not be misdiagnosed as hemorrhoids, infection, or constipation, since early signs of colon cancer can look similar.
She urges patients to get checked promptly to rule out serious conditions.
Research from the Cleveland Clinic also shows that blood in stool can originate anywhere in the gastrointestinal tract, including the colon.
Detecting colon cancer early is critical, as survival rates can be as high as 90 percent when caught in its initial stages.
Persistent changes in bowel habits (diarrhea, constipation, or narrowing of stool). Other signs include:
Colorectal cancer (CRC) is a major health concern worldwide. In India, it is the fourth most common cancer among both men and women. In 2022, there were 64,863 new cases and 38,367 deaths.
Projections suggest that incidence will continue to rise by 2026, reflecting both lifestyle changes and improved detection.
Compared to developed countries, survival rates in India remain lower, largely due to late-stage diagnosis and limited access to screening programs.
The American Cancer Society notes that colorectal cancer is a cancer that starts in the colon or the rectum. Colorectal cancer impacts around 1.9 million people every year, noted the World Health Organization (WHO) as per its 2022 data.
Some of the risk factors include risk factors involve being over the age 50, family history, certain genetic syndromes (like Lynch syndrome), inflammatory bowel diseases, and lifestyle factors (diet high in red meat, alcohol, smoking, inactivity).
The most effective way to prevent colorectal cancer is through annual colonoscopies, screening and stool tests.
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Alcohol use problems are far more common in people living with borderline personality disorder than many clinicians may assume. A large meta analysis has found that more than half of individuals diagnosed with the condition also struggle with alcohol use disorders. The finding strengthens calls for mental health care that treats both issues together rather than separately.
Borderline personality disorder, often called BPD, is a complex psychiatric condition marked by intense emotional swings, impulsive behavior, unstable relationships, and a fragile sense of self. Many people with BPD experience overwhelming emotional distress and may turn to alcohol as a way to cope, calm themselves, or escape difficult thoughts.
For years, research has hinted at a strong connection between BPD and substance misuse. However, the actual scale of the problem has been unclear because individual studies reported very different numbers. Some suggested moderate overlap while others pointed to extremely high rates.
Alcohol misuse in BPD is not just a side issue. It can worsen mood instability, increase the risk of self harm, and make therapy harder to stick with. People may miss appointments, struggle with medication routines, or act more impulsively while intoxicated. This makes understanding the true prevalence important for both diagnosis and treatment planning.
To clarify the picture, researchers reviewed 15 studies including 15,603 adults diagnosed with borderline personality disorder. The team analyzed data collected across multiple countries and databases up to March 2024 using established systematic review methods.
The results were striking. About 55.28 percent of people with BPD had an alcohol use disorder. Around 44.59 percent met criteria for alcohol dependence and 18.84 percent for alcohol abuse.
When compared with the general population, the contrast becomes sharper. Alcohol use disorders occur in roughly 8.6 percent of men and 1.7 percent of women overall. The prevalence in BPD is therefore dramatically higher.
In simple terms, alcohol related conditions are not occasional in BPD. They are common and clinically significant.
The findings suggest that mental health services cannot treat borderline personality disorder in isolation. Screening for alcohol misuse should become routine during psychiatric assessment. Likewise, addiction services should look for underlying personality disorders rather than focusing only on drinking behavior.
Integrated treatment approaches are likely to work better. Therapy that addresses emotional regulation, impulsivity, and coping skills alongside addiction support may reduce relapses and improve long term outcomes.
Early identification is key. When both conditions are recognized together, patients are more likely to stay engaged in care and avoid severe complications. The research ultimately highlights a simple but important point. For many patients, recovery depends on treating the person as a whole, not just the diagnosis they first walk in with.
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