Health Risks for Ageing Parents: Expert Tells How to Care for Them

Updated Aug 11, 2024 | 11:28 AM IST

SummaryDo you have elderly parents at your home? Are you struggling to understand them? Do your grandparents deny when you offer them help or assistance? Is this something that happens in your house regularly? If yes, then this can help you navigate helping the elderly at your home. Read on to know more.
Health Risks for Ageing Parents Expert Tells How to Care for Them

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As you grow old, your health starts to deteriorate. Everything, whether it is your mental health or your physical health, starts to slow down. However, with age, your mental health gets overshadowed by your physical health.

Signs You Should Note
Neha Sinha, a dementia specialist and CEO and Co-founder of Epoch Elder Care, with the experience of 15 years notes that with age accessing social spaces becomes a hassle. “You are not able to go out because it is not accessible anymore or is not safe. This leads to loneliness. You start to withdraw from all social gatherings, and this leads to a deterioration in your mental health,” she points out.

If you note these signs in your ageing parents or grandparents, take note of it. Try to get involved with them. It is also important to ensure that they have a separate social circle apart from the family. This way, they can have friends who they can also relate to.

With age, suggests Sinha, you are more prone to be depressed, and anxious. “Mental health conditions like schizophrenia or bipolar disorders are not something that happens when you grow older. You may have been living with these for the last 40 years, but the management differs, she suggests.

As you grow old, your symptoms start to overlap with other mental health conditions. For the proper treatment professionals use differential diagnosis, suggests Sinha. “The lines become blurred and to differentiate the symptoms from one mental health condition to another becomes difficult,” she says.

Preventive Measures
While there are ways like performing brain quizzes and optical illusions to keep your brain functioning, Sinha says that not many studies have been done on it. Thus, it cannot be guaranteed that it will help. However, it surely helps keep your brain active.

There are also food habits like eating leafy vegetables, nuts, fish, virgin coconut and beans that help with brain functions.

Sinha suggests that keeping a social circle and continuing your hobbies can help your mind stay healthy. “Men especially face this issue, after they retire, they feel like they are at the loss of authority, and they start to lose control. It is thus important to keep doing things and learning a new skill to keep your brain active. While for women, since they continue taking care of the house, their brain stays active,” she says.

Cognitive stimulation is the key, especially to managing dementia, she notes.

“Just with weight training, you push your body and after a while, it becomes your muscle memory. Same with the brain. However, one should not get into solving too many puzzles, or trivia after being diagnosed with dementia. Because that would mean you are making your already injured brain exercise which might lead to agitation,” she recommends.

How to support?
It is important to know the ways you can support your ageing parents after they have been diagnosed.

“The most important part is for the caregiver to understand what is happening and come to terms with the conditions. Because the elderly with cognitive conditions are not able to understand, they cannot be told or instructed to do anything. Thus, the responsibility is solely on the caregiver,” points out Sinha.

So, what can be done?

Awareness
Sinha suggests that the caregiver must understand that most cognitive conditions in ageing parents is progressive. “Even if you give your 200%, the condition will progress, you must not blame yourself for it. But you can delay the progression by creating a healthy environment.”

Reach out to therapists and counsellors to know the ways to create such a healthy environment.

Be Patient
With progressive neurological conditions, the capability to communicate also deteriorates. “If you have a million words in your vocabulary, your parents might have a handful. So, it is important to pay attention to their needs,” she says.

She suggests adopting the same approach that you do with kids and with your pets. This is when you focus on gestures, body language and mood over language. Due to cognitive disorders, parents experience a loss of language and the only way to communicate and to understand what they are communicating is through these means.

Be Empathetic
The earliest sign of dementia is short-term memory loss. “This means that your parents may not remember what they had or breakfast or if they had breakfast at all. But they will remember their childhood stories. You may be confused if there is at all a memory loss since they remember old stories, and you might think they are doing this on purpose. But this is not the case,” she says.

Create a healthy environment by agreeing with them and listening to their stories. The responsibility of creating a safe environment is totally with you.

There might be times when your parents may do socially unacceptable or non-compliance behaviour. But it is important to understand the triggers and ensure that the triggers do not occur anymore.

Help Them Stay Fit
It is important that they physically stay well, and do not get any infections or don’t suffer a fall. For that, you can use the help of technology like motion sensors. GPS tracker is another way you can keep a check on them. “There is a tendency of wandering off and being unable to find your way back. In these cases, a GPS tracker can help,” she says.

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Irritable Bowel Syndrome: A Common Yet Underdiagnosed Condition

Updated May 2, 2026 | 09:24 PM IST

Summary​Individuals frequently experience recurrent symptoms such as bloated abdomen, abdominal pain, gas, diarrhea, or constipation, and normalize these symptoms over time or attribute them to "something they ate" or everyday stresses. Therefore, IBS remains undiagnosed for many years.
Irritable Bowel Syndrome: A Common Yet Underdiagnosed Condition

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Irritable Bowel Syndrome (IBS) is a common but often overlooked gastrointestinal disorder; as a result, IBS is very prevalent, with less than 15% being diagnosed.

Individuals frequently experience recurrent symptoms such as bloated abdomen, abdominal pain, gas, diarrhea, or constipation, and normalize these symptoms over time or attribute them to "something they ate" or everyday stresses. Therefore, IBS remains undiagnosed for many years.

Why Diagnosis Is Often Delayed

One reason for this delay in being diagnosed is that the symptoms occur intermittently. It is also important to note that the presentation of these symptoms is inconsistent and unpredictable; there may be episodes where the IBS can last many days, and then completely resolve, thus providing a false sense of relief. Therefore, many individuals choose to delay consulting with a physician due to their belief that the symptoms they are experiencing are not serious.

Stigma Around Digestive Health

Another contributing factor is that there is still a degree of reluctance or discomfort associated with discussing problems related to the gastrointestinal tract openly; this only further complicates under-reporting statistics.

A ‘Functional’ Disorder Adds to Confusion

Finally, IBS is a functional disorder. Therefore, routine diagnostic testing will not reveal any visible abnormalities. Many patients may assume that the symptoms they are experiencing are not "real" or are not significant enough to warrant seeking medical attention, even though the discomfort they experience can be quite significant and affect their daily lives.

If you continually ignore symptoms of IBS, it will hurt your quality of life, productivity, and mental health. If you have persistent discomfort, you are likely to develop anxious feelings about eating, socializing, and travelling. Furthermore, if you don't manage your symptoms, you may experience a combination of untreated IBS with one or more other illnesses that are either gastrointestinal or metabolic; consequently, establishing the correct diagnosis for your IBS will be increasingly difficult as time goes on.

Why Early Action Matters

It is of the utmost importance to identify and respond to early warning signs of IBS as quickly as possible. A thorough evaluation can rule out other illnesses and provide a pathway for appropriate management, including dietary modifications, stress management techniques, and, if necessary, medical treatment.

Once you address your IBS, you will experience better control of your symptoms and eliminate the long-term consequences of IBS, both physically and psychologically.

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Colorectal Cancer: UK Surgeon Warns Of 5 Silent Signs You Shouldn’t Ignore

Updated May 2, 2026 | 08:00 PM IST

SummaryThe American Cancer Society notes that colorectal cancer is a cancer that starts in the colon or the rectum. Colorectal cancer impacts around 1.9 million people every year, noted the World Health Organization (WHO) as per its 2022 data.
Colorectal Cancer: UK Surgeon Warns Of 5 Silent Signs You Shouldn’t Ignore

Colorectal Cancer is not only one of the most common and deadly cancers, but is also one of the most preventable ones.

Unlike many other cancers, patients have a clear window of opportunity to stop it before it even begins. Almost always, these cancers start as small growths called polyps or precancerous lesions on the inner lining of the colon or rectum.

There is a long interval of time before polyps develop into cancer. During this time, they can be removed if they are identified. If a doctor removes a precancerous polyp during a routine screening, they would not only have nipped the cancer in the bud, but would have also prevented it from occurring.

However, there is a persistent taboo surrounding discussing bowel movements and other risk factors, and public understanding of its symptoms and crucial screening procedures frequently lags.

Dr Jeremy Clark, a consultant general surgeon specializing in colorectal diseases at Nuffield Health in Brighton, has underscored five critical warning signs the public must recognize, The Independent reported.

1. Blood in stool

“Passing blood when you go to the toilet is a worrying feature that you should flag to your GP,” Clark said, adding that the color can vary from bright red to almost black.

“If you see blood in the stools, particularly darker-colored blood or blood that’s actually mixed in with the stools, just once, and it’s significant, that should be reported to your doctor straight away. Don’t wait for that to keep on happening,” he added.

2. Changes in Bowel Habits

Dr. Clark stated that although more constipation may not be a risk factor, any sudden changes in bowel movements that last for a couple of weeks and do not go back to normal must be checked.

“If your bowels go from working once a day like clockwork, and then suddenly you’re going two or three times a day, and the bowels are a bit looser, that’s something that needs to be looked into,” the expert added.

3. Abdominal pain

Dr Clark highlighted that bowel cancers can cause abdominal pain, even in the initial days.

4. Bloatedness

The feeling of being 'quite often’ bloated may also indicate that something is going wrong in the bowel, Dr. Clark said.

5. Unexplained weight loss

Bowel cancers can impact digestion and cause weight loss

Colorectal Cancer: UK Surgeon Warns Of 5 Silent Signs You Shouldn’t Ignore

Dr Clark said that as these symptoms are common with other conditions, such as hemorrhoids or irritable bowel syndrome (IBS), people often ignore or easily dismiss these symptoms. He urged patients not to ignore and visit their doctor if they notice any of these symptoms.

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What Is Colorectal Cancer?

The American Cancer Society notes that colorectal cancer is a cancer that starts in the colon or the rectum. Colorectal cancer impacts around 1.9 million people every year, noted the World Health Organization (WHO) as per its 2022 data.

It is a disease of the large bowel and a type of cancer that originates from the rectum or colon. A person's colon, cecum, rectum, and anus make up the large intestine.

According to experts, if you are above 45 years of age or have high-risk factors, you need to take the initiative to be screened.

The FIT (Fecal Immunochemical Test) is a simple, non-invasive at-home stool test kit that can collect a small sample of your feces, which can then be tested.

“If it comes back as positive, that means there is blood in your stools which needs to be investigated,” Clark said, adding that the next step is typically the Colonoscopy – the gold standard.

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Are Optional Vaccines Really Optional? What Parents Need To Know

Updated May 3, 2026 | 09:00 AM IST

SummaryVaccines are a safe and effective way to strengthen immunity against infections.
Vaccines

Some vaccines are age-specific and work best when administered at the right time. (Photo credit: AI generated)

Despite increasing access to healthcare, there is a lack of awareness when it comes to optional vaccines for children. Here, the expert guides parents regarding this. Parents should prioritise their child's health and ensure they are vaccinated without fail. So, learn more about these optional vaccines and make informed health choices when it comes to your children. Vaccines are important for a child’s well-being. Are you aware? In India, childhood vaccines are classified into two categories – those included under the government’s UIP (Universal Immunisation Programme) and those termed as “optional vaccines”.

Dr Amar Bhise, Consultant – PICU (Paediatric Intensive Care Unit), Neonatology and Paediatrics, Motherhood Hospitals, Lullanagar and Kharadi, Pune, spoke about ‘optional vaccines’. The expert also answered FAQs on which vaccines are of utmost importance for children and why timing matters.

What are ‘optional vaccines’?

“Parents should understand that optional vaccines are those that protect against additional infections not covered under the national schedule. These include vaccines for diseases like rotavirus, hepatitis A, chickenpox, influenza, and human papillomavirus. Though labelled optional, many of these vaccines play a crucial role in preventing illnesses that can lead to complications such as severe dehydration from rotavirus, liver inflammation from hepatitis A, and pneumonia or serious flu-related illness from influenza, hospitalisation, or long-term health issues,” said Dr Bhise.

UIP vaccines vs optional vaccines

There is a difference between UIP vaccines and optional vaccines. The reason they are not part of the UIP is often related to cost, prioritisation, and public health logistics, rather than a lack of importance. For example, the rotavirus vaccine helps prevent severe diarrhoea in infants, which can cause hospitalisation. Likewise, the HPV vaccine is important in preventing cervical cancer later in life. These benefits make such vaccines highly valuable, even if they are not universally provided.

Vaccines like the pneumococcal vaccine help prevent serious infections such as meningitis and bloodstream infections, especially in young children. This highlights that “optional” vaccines often protect against conditions that can become severe if left untreated.

Is timing important for vaccinations?

Dr Bhise said that another important aspect parents should consider is timing. Many optional vaccines are age-specific and work best when given within a recommended window. Delaying them may reduce their effectiveness or leave children vulnerable during crucial developmental years.

So, “optional” does not mean they are unnecessary, and it is not advisable to avoid including them in the vaccination schedule. In fact, with changing lifestyles, urban exposure, daycare attendance, and increased travel, children now have higher chances of suffering from serious infections. Vaccines, including influenza vaccines, which need to be taken annually, can help prevent seasonal illness and complications, particularly in young children or those with weak immunity. Chickenpox can cause severe skin infections or pneumonia in some cases, and can disturb parents’ peace of mind. Hepatitis A can affect a child’s overall health.

Parents should not worry, as these vaccines are safe and effective. These vaccines will safeguard children against preventable diseases. Making informed decisions can help parents ensure their child stays healthy.

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