Health Risks for Ageing Parents: Expert Tells How to Care for Them

Updated Aug 11, 2024 | 11:28 AM IST

SummaryDo you have elderly parents at your home? Are you struggling to understand them? Do your grandparents deny when you offer them help or assistance? Is this something that happens in your house regularly? If yes, then this can help you navigate helping the elderly at your home. Read on to know more.
Health Risks for Ageing Parents Expert Tells How to Care for Them

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As you grow old, your health starts to deteriorate. Everything, whether it is your mental health or your physical health, starts to slow down. However, with age, your mental health gets overshadowed by your physical health.

Signs You Should Note
Neha Sinha, a dementia specialist and CEO and Co-founder of Epoch Elder Care, with the experience of 15 years notes that with age accessing social spaces becomes a hassle. “You are not able to go out because it is not accessible anymore or is not safe. This leads to loneliness. You start to withdraw from all social gatherings, and this leads to a deterioration in your mental health,” she points out.

If you note these signs in your ageing parents or grandparents, take note of it. Try to get involved with them. It is also important to ensure that they have a separate social circle apart from the family. This way, they can have friends who they can also relate to.

With age, suggests Sinha, you are more prone to be depressed, and anxious. “Mental health conditions like schizophrenia or bipolar disorders are not something that happens when you grow older. You may have been living with these for the last 40 years, but the management differs, she suggests.

As you grow old, your symptoms start to overlap with other mental health conditions. For the proper treatment professionals use differential diagnosis, suggests Sinha. “The lines become blurred and to differentiate the symptoms from one mental health condition to another becomes difficult,” she says.

Preventive Measures
While there are ways like performing brain quizzes and optical illusions to keep your brain functioning, Sinha says that not many studies have been done on it. Thus, it cannot be guaranteed that it will help. However, it surely helps keep your brain active.

There are also food habits like eating leafy vegetables, nuts, fish, virgin coconut and beans that help with brain functions.

Sinha suggests that keeping a social circle and continuing your hobbies can help your mind stay healthy. “Men especially face this issue, after they retire, they feel like they are at the loss of authority, and they start to lose control. It is thus important to keep doing things and learning a new skill to keep your brain active. While for women, since they continue taking care of the house, their brain stays active,” she says.

Cognitive stimulation is the key, especially to managing dementia, she notes.

“Just with weight training, you push your body and after a while, it becomes your muscle memory. Same with the brain. However, one should not get into solving too many puzzles, or trivia after being diagnosed with dementia. Because that would mean you are making your already injured brain exercise which might lead to agitation,” she recommends.

How to support?
It is important to know the ways you can support your ageing parents after they have been diagnosed.

“The most important part is for the caregiver to understand what is happening and come to terms with the conditions. Because the elderly with cognitive conditions are not able to understand, they cannot be told or instructed to do anything. Thus, the responsibility is solely on the caregiver,” points out Sinha.

So, what can be done?

Awareness
Sinha suggests that the caregiver must understand that most cognitive conditions in ageing parents is progressive. “Even if you give your 200%, the condition will progress, you must not blame yourself for it. But you can delay the progression by creating a healthy environment.”

Reach out to therapists and counsellors to know the ways to create such a healthy environment.

Be Patient
With progressive neurological conditions, the capability to communicate also deteriorates. “If you have a million words in your vocabulary, your parents might have a handful. So, it is important to pay attention to their needs,” she says.

She suggests adopting the same approach that you do with kids and with your pets. This is when you focus on gestures, body language and mood over language. Due to cognitive disorders, parents experience a loss of language and the only way to communicate and to understand what they are communicating is through these means.

Be Empathetic
The earliest sign of dementia is short-term memory loss. “This means that your parents may not remember what they had or breakfast or if they had breakfast at all. But they will remember their childhood stories. You may be confused if there is at all a memory loss since they remember old stories, and you might think they are doing this on purpose. But this is not the case,” she says.

Create a healthy environment by agreeing with them and listening to their stories. The responsibility of creating a safe environment is totally with you.

There might be times when your parents may do socially unacceptable or non-compliance behaviour. But it is important to understand the triggers and ensure that the triggers do not occur anymore.

Help Them Stay Fit
It is important that they physically stay well, and do not get any infections or don’t suffer a fall. For that, you can use the help of technology like motion sensors. GPS tracker is another way you can keep a check on them. “There is a tendency of wandering off and being unable to find your way back. In these cases, a GPS tracker can help,” she says.

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Taking Magnesium And Melatonin Together? Here’s How It Affects Your Sleep

Updated Nov 21, 2025 | 12:00 AM IST

SummaryMagnesium and melatonin are two popular supplements often used to support sleep, and some research suggests taking them together may improve sleep quality. Both supplements carry possible side effects and can interact with medications, so consulting a healthcare professional before combining them is recommended.
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Magnesium and melatonin are both popular supplements, especially among people looking to get more shuteye, but can combining them improve your sleep? Some research indicates that taking magnesium and melatonin together could improve sleep quality, though stronger, larger studies are needed to confirm the effect.

Can We Combine Magnesium and Melatonin To Support Sleep?

Studies on using magnesium and melatonin together are limited, but some evidence suggests it could benefit sleep in certain individuals.

As per Health, one study focusing on women with polycystic ovary syndrome found that taking both magnesium and melatonin improved sleep quality. Another study reported that people with sleep difficulties who used a combined magnesium-melatonin supplement for four weeks noticed modest improvements in how well they slept.

The exact reason why the two work together is not completely understood, but magnesium and melatonin may influence each other in a way that supports sleep.

“Magnesium does have an effect on melatonin levels,” said Marie van der Merwe, PhD, coordinator of the applied physiology and nutrition doctoral program at the University of Memphis, speaking to Health. “The amount of magnesium you have can influence how well your body produces melatonin.”

You don’t necessarily need to take the two supplements at the same time to benefit, van der Merwe noted. It’s fine to take magnesium in the morning and melatonin before bed.

The takeaway: There could be a link between magnesium and better sleep, but more research is needed to be sure.

Magnesium And Sleep

Magnesium is a vital mineral that supports nerve and muscle function, regulates blood pressure and blood sugar, and contributes to the formation of bone, protein, and DNA. As per Mayo Clinic, it is also commonly taken to help with sleep, but it is not without risks.

Benefits of Magnesium for Sleep

Some studies suggest magnesium may help sleep by:

Improving sleep quality: Ensuring adequate magnesium through diet or supplements may help people with deficiencies sleep better and ease anxiety.

Reducing muscle tension: Magnesium can help relax muscles and relieve tension, which can make it easier to fall asleep.

Risks of Magnesium for Sleep

Research on magnesium for sleep is limited. Supplements aren’t regulated by the FDA for safety or effectiveness and carry potential risks:

Delayed effect: It may take several weeks before magnesium supplements noticeably improve sleep.5

Side effects: High doses can cause diarrhea, nausea, and stomach cramps.7

Drug interactions: Magnesium can interfere with some medications, reducing their effect or increasing side effects. Talk to a doctor before starting any new supplement.7

Melatonin And Sleep

Melatonin is a well-known sleep aid, though it’s actually a hormone your body naturally produces to regulate sleep-wake cycles.⁸ “Melatonin is in charge of running the [internal] clock, and it really is important for regulating your circadian rhythms,” van der Merwe said.

Benefits of Melatonin for Sleep

Works quickly when needed: Unlike magnesium, melatonin can act soon after taking it, making it useful for occasional sleepless nights.

May help you fall asleep faster: Studies show that a 2-milligram dose of melatonin helped some people fall asleep about nine minutes sooner than placebo.

Supports sleep timing: Melatonin can help shift workers, travelers with jet lag, or those with irregular sleep schedules align their sleep patterns.

Risks Of Melatonin For Sleep

Melatonin can help with some sleep difficulties but won’t fix all sleep disorders, van der Merwe said. Like magnesium, melatonin isn’t FDA-regulated:

Long-term effects unclear: There’s limited data on the safety of long-term melatonin use.

Medication interactions: Melatonin may interact with antibiotics, antidepressants, and birth control.

Caution for certain groups: It’s generally not recommended for children or people with dementia, and should be used carefully by those with seizures or on blood thinners.

What to Consider Before Taking Magnesium and Melatonin Together?

It’s wise to speak with a healthcare professional before starting any new supplements, alone or in combination.

Van der Merwe emphasized that sleep problems can stem from issues that supplements alone won’t fix. Conditions like cardiovascular disease, type 2 diabetes, and depression can affect sleep.

If you want to try one or both supplements, a doctor can help determine the best timing for magnesium, melatonin, or a combined product.

“Melatonin [should] increase at night,” van der Merwe explained, so it is crucial to take it at the right time. Taking it in the morning can disrupt your internal clock.

Even though sleep-support supplements like magnesium and melatonin have grown in popularity, it’s important to consult a professional to see if they will help in your situation.

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Why COPD Is Now Affecting People in Their 20s and 30s

Updated Nov 19, 2025 | 07:00 PM IST

SummaryCOPD is increasingly affecting people in their 20s and 30s, driven more by toxic exposures than smoking. Doctors warn that pollution, biomass fuel, vaping, childhood lung infections, and occupational hazards are accelerating lung damage. Early symptoms like persistent cough or breathlessness must not be ignored, as early diagnosis can slow long-term decline.
Why COPD Is Now Affecting People in Their 20s and 30s

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Chronic obstructive pulmonary disease (COPD) has long been seen as a condition of older adults, typically tied to years of smoking. But across India, pulmonologists are increasingly diagnosing it in people in their 20s and 30s. This shift, experts say, reflects a deeper and more troubling change: young adults are growing up and living in environments where the lungs never truly get a chance to breathe clean air.

A Shift From “Smoker’s Disease” to “Exposure Disease”

The biggest change is the cause itself. As Dr. Raja Dhar, Director & HOD, Pulmonology, CK Birla Hospitals, CMRI Kolkata, explains, “COPD is increasingly becoming an ‘exposure disease’ rather than a ‘smoker’s disease.’ In India, non-smoking COPD is numerically a much larger problem.”

This exposure begins early—sometimes in childhood.

Dr. Dhar highlights how even limited exposure can have lifelong consequences: “Severe airway obstruction can be traced back to just six to seven years of biomass smoke exposure in a poorly ventilated kitchen during a child’s formative years.”

Dr. Harshil Alwani, Consultant – Pulmonology, CK Birla Hospitals, Jaipur, also points to the changing risk profile. According to him, “newer epidemiological data show that non-smoking drivers—especially air pollution and occupational exposures—are playing a disproportionately large role in younger people.” He adds that rapid urbanisation means more young adults are chronically breathing polluted air from childhood onwards.

Improved diagnosis and greater awareness also mean younger patients with persistent symptoms are now being evaluated more often, he notes.

Beyond Smoking: The Real Culprits Behind Early COPD

Air Pollution

Both experts agree that polluted air is the biggest trigger today. Dr. Alwani explains that long-term exposure to PM₂.₅ is directly linked to lung decline and COPD. “Recent research shows that temperature and humidity modulate the harmful effect of PM₂.₅, making COPD risk worse under certain climatic conditions,” he says.

Dr. Dhar adds that India’s air quality is deteriorating nationwide: “Ambient outdoor air pollution is a severe risk, as air quality across 98% of India is worse than WHO standards.”

Indoor Pollution

Household pollution remains a massive issue. Biomass fuel used for cooking is, as Dr. Dhar puts it, “the largest non-smoking contributor, resulting in numbers approximately three times that of smoking-related COPD.”

Occupational Hazards

Young adults working in construction, mining, welding, or factory settings face daily exposure to dust, fumes, and chemicals. Dr. Alwani notes that such environments “carry a significantly increased risk.”

Childhood Lung Infections

Recurrent infections can impair lung development and reduce lung reserve, making early-onset disease more likely.

Genetic Factors

Conditions like alpha-1 antitrypsin deficiency, though rare, still contribute when combined with environmental triggers.

Delhi’s Winter Pollution: A Direct Route to Lung Damage

Every winter, Delhi’s smog becomes a health emergency. According to Dr. Dhar, “High winter pollution, particularly hazardous levels of PM2.5, acts as a chronic, low-grade chemical burn on the young respiratory system.”

Dr. Alwani adds that winter inversion traps pollutants closer to the ground, amplifying PM₂.₅’s damage.

The Vaping Problem

Vaping and e-cigarettes, widely perceived as harmless, have added a new layer of risk. Dr. Alwani warns, “Vaping is not benign. Its aerosols contain volatile compounds, heavy metals, and ultrafine particles that trigger inflammation and oxidative stress—central pathways to COPD.”

Dr. Dhar echoes this concern: “Any inhalation of heated chemical aerosols is a significant lung irritant and pro-inflammatory agent.”

Symptoms Young Adults Should Never Ignore

Doctors urge young adults not to dismiss symptoms like:

  • Persistent cough
  • Breathlessness during routine activity
  • Wheezing or chest tightness
  • Frequent colds or bronchitis
  • Fatigue or reduced stamina

Why Early Diagnosis Matters

Early spirometry can dramatically change outcomes. As Dr. Dhar puts it, “Early intervention allows us to remove the source of exposure and start therapy, which can effectively preserve the patient’s remaining lung function.”

Dr. Alwani adds that catching the disease early can “significantly slow further lung damage” and prevent long-term complications.

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FOFO (Not FOMO) Is The New Psychological Barrier That’s Fueling a Drop In Health Screenings

Updated Nov 19, 2025 | 10:00 PM IST

SummaryFOFO: fear of finding out, stops many people from getting health screenings like mammograms, blood tests, and cancer checks. Driven by anxiety, past negative experiences, or fear of bad news, it leads to dangerous avoidance. Surveys show rising reluctance toward routine tests. Experts say acknowledging fears and weighing long-term risks can help break the cycle.
If FOMO Makes You Engage, FOFO Makes You Avoid

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We all know the feeling of FOMO, the fear of missing out, but there exist another fear, this is FOFO: the fear of finding out. This apprehension is what keeps people from boking their health screenings. The horrors of what will happen after a mammogram, a Pap smear, an STD test, blood panel, or even something as simple as a blood pressure check can scare those with FOFO.

While the term itself is not a medical diagnosis, it is a widely recognized behavioral pattern that both patients and doctors get to see frequently. Over the years, it has gained more attention among experts who deal with health anxiety. As one clinical psychologist explains, there isn’t much published research on FOFO, but practitioners who work with health-related anxiety are very familiar with its impact.

What is even worrying is how common this avoidance has become. As per a 2025 survey of 2,000 employed US adults, 3 out 5 avoid medical screenings altogether, due to fear of bad news or embarrassment. Another 2025 reveal that of 7,000 adults, only 51% attended a routine medical appointment of cancer screening, with a 10% drop from 2024.

The attitude is: "If I don't know it, I can't have it".

Where Does FOFO Come From?

According to psychologists, FOFO often roots itself in anxiety and the desire for control. When something feels uncertain—like a health test result—many people instinctively avoid it. Avoidance becomes a way to quiet the anxiety, at least temporarily.

Experts say FOFO is especially common in people with generalized anxiety disorder, OCD, or illness anxiety disorder. But anyone can experience it. For some, it’s a one-off situation—like hesitating over a prostate exam. For others, it’s part of a broader coping style that involves avoiding anything that feels threatening. Ironically, this sometimes goes hand in hand with endlessly checking symptoms online.

Previous negative experiences in healthcare settings can also feed FOFO. Some people feel anxious around doctors or medical procedures, while others fear being judged, especially when a screening could uncover conditions that carry social stigma—such as STDs. There’s also the fear of receiving results that might force lifestyle changes or treatments they’re not ready for.

A common unspoken belief behind FOFO is:

“If I don’t take the test, then the problem doesn’t exist.”

Waiting for test results adds to the anxiety too. When results take days or weeks, the uncertainty can feel more stressful than the test itself.

How Can You Break The FOFO Cycle?

The first step is by acknowledging what is at stake. Many experts recommend weighing the pros and cons of taking the test versus avoiding it. If FOFO is holding you back, ask yourself what exactly you’re afraid of. Many people underestimate their ability to handle bad news. Understanding this can help reduce the emotional weight of screening.

It’s also helpful to reflect on a few important questions:

  • Do I want fear to dictate my health choices?
  • What could happen if I keep putting this off?
  • A year from now, will I regret not acting today?

These questions often shift the focus from fear to long-term wellbeing. As psychologists note, facing the fear usually leads to decisions that better align with your values.

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