Health Risks for Ageing Parents: Expert Tells How to Care for Them

Updated Aug 11, 2024 | 11:28 AM IST

SummaryDo you have elderly parents at your home? Are you struggling to understand them? Do your grandparents deny when you offer them help or assistance? Is this something that happens in your house regularly? If yes, then this can help you navigate helping the elderly at your home. Read on to know more.
Health Risks for Ageing Parents Expert Tells How to Care for Them

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As you grow old, your health starts to deteriorate. Everything, whether it is your mental health or your physical health, starts to slow down. However, with age, your mental health gets overshadowed by your physical health.

Signs You Should Note
Neha Sinha, a dementia specialist and CEO and Co-founder of Epoch Elder Care, with the experience of 15 years notes that with age accessing social spaces becomes a hassle. “You are not able to go out because it is not accessible anymore or is not safe. This leads to loneliness. You start to withdraw from all social gatherings, and this leads to a deterioration in your mental health,” she points out.

If you note these signs in your ageing parents or grandparents, take note of it. Try to get involved with them. It is also important to ensure that they have a separate social circle apart from the family. This way, they can have friends who they can also relate to.

With age, suggests Sinha, you are more prone to be depressed, and anxious. “Mental health conditions like schizophrenia or bipolar disorders are not something that happens when you grow older. You may have been living with these for the last 40 years, but the management differs, she suggests.

As you grow old, your symptoms start to overlap with other mental health conditions. For the proper treatment professionals use differential diagnosis, suggests Sinha. “The lines become blurred and to differentiate the symptoms from one mental health condition to another becomes difficult,” she says.

Preventive Measures
While there are ways like performing brain quizzes and optical illusions to keep your brain functioning, Sinha says that not many studies have been done on it. Thus, it cannot be guaranteed that it will help. However, it surely helps keep your brain active.

There are also food habits like eating leafy vegetables, nuts, fish, virgin coconut and beans that help with brain functions.

Sinha suggests that keeping a social circle and continuing your hobbies can help your mind stay healthy. “Men especially face this issue, after they retire, they feel like they are at the loss of authority, and they start to lose control. It is thus important to keep doing things and learning a new skill to keep your brain active. While for women, since they continue taking care of the house, their brain stays active,” she says.

Cognitive stimulation is the key, especially to managing dementia, she notes.

“Just with weight training, you push your body and after a while, it becomes your muscle memory. Same with the brain. However, one should not get into solving too many puzzles, or trivia after being diagnosed with dementia. Because that would mean you are making your already injured brain exercise which might lead to agitation,” she recommends.

How to support?
It is important to know the ways you can support your ageing parents after they have been diagnosed.

“The most important part is for the caregiver to understand what is happening and come to terms with the conditions. Because the elderly with cognitive conditions are not able to understand, they cannot be told or instructed to do anything. Thus, the responsibility is solely on the caregiver,” points out Sinha.

So, what can be done?

Awareness
Sinha suggests that the caregiver must understand that most cognitive conditions in ageing parents is progressive. “Even if you give your 200%, the condition will progress, you must not blame yourself for it. But you can delay the progression by creating a healthy environment.”

Reach out to therapists and counsellors to know the ways to create such a healthy environment.

Be Patient
With progressive neurological conditions, the capability to communicate also deteriorates. “If you have a million words in your vocabulary, your parents might have a handful. So, it is important to pay attention to their needs,” she says.

She suggests adopting the same approach that you do with kids and with your pets. This is when you focus on gestures, body language and mood over language. Due to cognitive disorders, parents experience a loss of language and the only way to communicate and to understand what they are communicating is through these means.

Be Empathetic
The earliest sign of dementia is short-term memory loss. “This means that your parents may not remember what they had or breakfast or if they had breakfast at all. But they will remember their childhood stories. You may be confused if there is at all a memory loss since they remember old stories, and you might think they are doing this on purpose. But this is not the case,” she says.

Create a healthy environment by agreeing with them and listening to their stories. The responsibility of creating a safe environment is totally with you.

There might be times when your parents may do socially unacceptable or non-compliance behaviour. But it is important to understand the triggers and ensure that the triggers do not occur anymore.

Help Them Stay Fit
It is important that they physically stay well, and do not get any infections or don’t suffer a fall. For that, you can use the help of technology like motion sensors. GPS tracker is another way you can keep a check on them. “There is a tendency of wandering off and being unable to find your way back. In these cases, a GPS tracker can help,” she says.

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Late Joe Thompson’s Wife Pregnant Via Frozen Embryo: How Egg Freezing Works

Updated Apr 9, 2026 | 11:01 AM IST

Summary​While egg freezing is possible at various stages of life, experts recommend doing it at an optimal age -- in the late 20s or early 30s when the eggs are of higher quality-- for better outcomes.
Late Joe Thompson’s Wife Pregnant Via Frozen Embryo: How Egg Freezing Works

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Continuing the legacy of football legend Joe Thompson, his wife Chantelle revealed she is pregnant with his baby after IVF treatment using frozen embryos.

Joe Thompson died in 2025 after developing cancer for a third time - beating the illness twice.

But after the former Manchester United star was diagnosed with Hodgkin Lymphoma for a third time, which had spread to his lungs, he died aged 36.

"It just means absolutely everything. I know it's never going to replace Joe obviously. Joe's Joe. But to be able to bring his baby into the world again is beautiful," Chantelle said.

She said Joe had two visions of their family with a baby boy before he died, and he even gave her the name for the baby boy he predicted, and she got pregnant on her first attempt of IVF after he had died.

How Egg Freezing Works

Egg freezing, also known as oocyte cryopreservation, is an option that has gained significant traction in recent years. It offers women the ability to pause their biological clock and preserve the possibility of having children in the future.

Egg freezing takes a woman's unfertilized eggs from her ovaries and stores them at sub-zero temperatures to be utilized later. It is made to enable women to keep their fertility intact, especially if they are not yet ready to have a baby.

Dr. Pavithra M, Obstetrician, Gynecologist, and Infertility Specialist, told HealthandMe that the workup begins with hormone workup and evaluation of various parameters, such as age, body mass index (BMI), and ovarian reserve.

"On the second day of the menstrual cycle, baseline ultrasound scanning is performed to assess the number of follicles; thereafter, various tests of blood are conducted to assess hormone levels. If a woman's parameters are all normal, then she is administered hormonal injections for about 10-12 days."

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It causes ovarian hyperstimulation and multiple mature eggs, monitored through ultrasound scans. A trigger shot is administered once the follicles have reached optimal size to help with final egg maturation. It takes 34-35 hours from the trigger shot, wherein eggs are retrieved by minimally invasive procedures under general anesthesia.

"Using a transvaginal ultrasound probe with a needle, each follicle is punctured, and the follicular fluid is aspirated. The retrieved eggs are then screened for quality before undergoing vitrification—a rapid freezing technique that minimizes ice crystal formation and cellular damage," Dr. Pavithra added. The eggs are then stored in liquid nitrogen tanks for long-term preservation.

While egg freezing is possible at various stages of life, experts recommend doing it at an optimal age -- in the late 20s or early 30s when the eggs are of higher quality-- for better outcomes.

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American Author Annabelle Gurwitch Writes New Memoir On Stage-4 Lung Cancer Diagnosis

Updated Apr 9, 2026 | 09:12 AM IST

SummaryAnnabelle Gurwitch had no symptoms and was not a smoker. She went to get her “persistent little cough” tested for COVID, when a doctor told her that there was something suspicious on her lungs. An X-ray and biopsy confirmed her stage 4 lung cancer.
American Author Annabelle Gurwitch Writes New Memoir On Stage-4 Lung Cancer Diagnosis

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Annabelle Gurwitch, an American author, actress, and television host, has opened up about her lung cancer diagnosis in her new memoir.

In her sixth book, ‘The End of My Life Is Killing Me’, Annabelle Gurwitch offers a satirical take on her journey with stage 4 lung cancer. The best-selling author found out about her cancer status in 2020, when she went for a COVID-19 test.

In the book, Annabelle Gurwitch writes about her life as a "cancer slacker", her divorce, treatment with a targeted therapy that turns off the gene that has gone rogue, radiation, and chemotherapy, all with a humorous take.

Lung Cancer: A Stealthy Disease, Says Annabelle Gurwitch

Notably, the American actress had no symptoms and was not a smoker. She went to get her “persistent little cough” tested for COVID, when a doctor told her that there was something suspicious on her lungs.

Soon after, an X-ray and a biopsy confirmed her diagnosis of stage 4 cancer.

Annabelle Gurwitch called lung cancer a “stealthy disease" as, other than her little cough, she exercised every day and felt like she was in really good health.

“You know, you can be asymptomatic with Stage 4 lung cancer because lung cancer is a really stealthy disease, and this is why it's such a big killer, still the No. 1 cause of cancer deaths, because some lung cancers, like the one I have, are not recognized by the immune system," Annabelle Gurwitch told NPR.

"So my body didn't know that it was - anything was happening, which is, I mean, I was going to regular doctor's appointments. And this is why it's often diagnosed at a late stage, and such a big killer because it's not diagnosed at an earlier stage,” she added.

Also read: Early-Stage Lung Cancer Surgery Safe, Effective Even After 80, Reveals Lancet Study

Can Non-Smokers Get Lung Cancer?

Contrary to long-held assumptions, a significant proportion of lung cancer cases now occur in people with no history of smoking. The American Cancer Society reports that approximately 10-20 percent of lung cancers in the U.S are found in non-smokers, often attributed to genetic mutations like EGFR, environmental exposures, or radon gas.

These cases are more common in women, younger adults, and individuals of East Asian descent, but they can affect anyone.

Also read: New AIIMS Study To Probe How PM2.5 Is Surging Lung Cancer Risk In India

Early Signs and Symptoms to Look Out For

Lung cancer symptoms can mimic less serious conditions, which is why they’re often dismissed or misdiagnosed. If you experience the following symptoms persistently, don’t ignore them—regardless of your age or smoking history:

  • Chest pain or discomfort
  • Unexplained shortness of breath
  • Persistent cough or wheezing
  • Shoulder, back, or rib pain
  • Fatigue or sudden weight loss
  • Blood in sputum (though not always present).

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Doctors Share Preventable Risk Factors That Can Land You in the Emergency Ward

Updated Apr 9, 2026 | 02:00 AM IST

SummaryIgnoring symptoms like a persistent stomachache or a nagging cough can allow a condition to worsen over time, eventually leading to an emergency.
Doctors Share Preventable Risk Factors That Can Land You in the Emergency Ward

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A visit to the emergency ward (ER) of a hospital can definitely feel scary, and you want every reason to avoid ending up there as a patient. From broken bones to life-threatening emergencies, it’s a place filled with urgency, uncertainty, and intense emotions. Imagine what doctors and other health workers face every day.

However, while many cases are unavoidable, there are several that can be completely prevented, said doctors, while sharing a few. These include:

  • Symptoms ignored for long
From persistent pain to unusual fatigue to breathlessness, to unexplained weight loss, many people silently face these and tend to overlook. For some of its fear, for others it may be responsibilities.

However, ignoring symptoms like a persistent stomachache or a nagging cough can allow a condition to worsen over time, eventually leading to an emergency.

“People say, ‘It’s pretty mild. I’m not worried about it,’” Dr. Evelyn Huang, an emergency-room physician with Orlando Health, was quoted as saying to Time.

“Days become weeks, weeks become months, and months can even become years, and by the time they're seeing me, these things have progressed so far that they’re now something dangerous.”

Seeking timely medical advice and not delaying checkups can help prevent complications and avoid unnecessary ER visits, the expert said.

  • Drowning
It is the leading cause of death in children ages 1 through 4—and one of the most preventable.

Dr. Cheyenne Falat, assistant medical director of the adult emergency department at University of Maryland Medical Center stated that every time a patient comes ER with a drowning case, he hears the same story.

“I would have been watching them, but I thought the babysitter was watching them. I thought my spouse was watching them. I thought their grandparents were watching them.”

The doctor recommended instead starting swimming lessons as early as possible. She also urged for fences with childproof gates near pools.

  • Falling
Another common reason to end up in ER includes falling off ladders, resulting in fractures, deep cuts, or head injuries.

  • Frostbite and hypothermia
Cold injuries like frostbite (when body tissues actually freeze) and hypothermia (a dangerous drop in core body temperature that can slow, and eventually stop, the body’s vital functions) can also create medical emergencies.

People often don’t realize how quickly conditions can turn.

“They think, ‘I won’t be at risk for hypothermia because it's a little warmer during the day,’” said Falat. “Then they sweat,” which can leave their clothing damp and their bodies more vulnerable once temperatures drop.

Heat-related illnesses include mild dehydration to heat exhaustion and, in the most extreme cases, heat stroke, which can be deadly.

  • Choking during sex
Dr. Jeff Yoo, an emergency specialist, noted about injuries during consensual choking during sex, which researchers have recently described as "prevalent" among young people in the US, the report said.

Recently, for example, he treated a young woman who came to the ER with neck pain, a hoarse voice, and bruising; she assured Yoo that she had wanted her partner to choke her. “I’m not judging anyone who enjoys this, but it's way more dangerous than people think,” he said.

  • Party drug

A harmless party drug -- gamma-hydroxybutyric acid, or GHB -- can also turn life-threatening. It is a clear, odorless substance sometimes called “liquid ecstasy.”

While in small amounts, it can make people feel relaxed or euphoric, but when taken in overdose, it can lead to unconscious and breathing difficulties. “It’s one of the most awful sights,” Yoo said , adding that in severe cases, some patients need to be put on a ventilator to survive.

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