Some days my brain is like a storm, thoughts moving faster than I can keep up. A small mistake becomes an catastrophe, an offhand remark becomes a soul-deep fear. I turn around and around, analyzing each word, every move, every potentiality. But then, I discovered recently this easy 20-second hack which was actually pretty straightforward but made a tremendous difference in the negative thinking. Quickly [sitting my hand on my heart and reminding myself, I am enough. Even just that small hesitation interrupts the madness. My breath slows, my shoulders ease, and for a moment, the hurricane calms. This practice over time has become my anchor, reminding me that I am not thoughts—I am so much more.

Researchers at the University of California, Berkeley, have discovered that it doesn't need to take long to practice self-compassion to be beneficial. The study, published in the Behaviour Research and Therapy journal, revealed that performing a 20-second self-compassion touch, such as putting a hand on your heart or belly, can greatly reduce levels of stress and anxiety.

According to psychology researcher Eli Susman, who co-authored the study, a group of 135 college students was asked to dedicate just 20 seconds a day to affirm themselves with kind and positive thoughts while engaging in a self-compassionate touch. The results were striking: those who consistently practiced this simple technique over a month experienced notable improvements in mood, self-compassion, and emotional resilience, while stress hormone levels decreased.

Why 20 Seconds of Self-Compassion Works

1. Decrease in Cortisol Levels

The stress hormone cortisol is the cause of much of the physical and emotional damage chronic stress inflicts on the body. The researchers discovered that a mere 20 seconds of self-compassionate touch resulted in a measurable drop in cortisol, allowing people to recover from stress more rapidly.

2. Better Emotional Well-Being

By practicing positive self-affirmation and empathetic touch, study participants reported greater emotional equanimity and reduced reactivity to stressful challenges.

3. A Simple, Accessible Practice

Unlike many conventional mindfulness practices that might demand lengthy meditation sessions, this micropractice requires only 20 seconds, rendering it simple to fit into daily activities, be it at home, the workplace, or even during public transport rides.

How to Practice Self-Compassionate Touch

This exercise is very easy and can be done anywhere. Here's how you can adapt it to your daily life:

Step 1: Recognize Your Emotions

Close your eyes and reflect on a recent experience that made you feel stressed, unworthy, or critical of yourself. Notice the sensations in your body as you reflect on this episode.

Step 2: Practice a Soothing Touch

Put one hand on your heart and the other on your belly. If this doesn't feel comfortable to you, you can experiment with other ways of self-compassionate touching, including:

Stroking the back of your neck

Rubbing a place on your palm with your thumb

Hugging yourself lightly by holding your arms in across your chest

Step 3: Breathe Deeply and Give Yourself Kindness

Take a slow, deep breath in. Feel the warmth and gentle pressure of your hands. As you exhale, focus on releasing tension. Now, in your mind, repeat self-compassionate affirmations such as:

“I am kind to myself.”

“I am not my mistakes.”

“I give myself room and comfort.”

“I celebrate my uniqueness.”

“I take this time to appreciate who I am.”

Step 4: Finish with a Sense of Gratitude

Open your eyes after 20 seconds and simply take a moment to admire yourself for taking the time to do this practice. You can repeat it as many times as you need throughout the day.

Susman calls this approach a "micropractice"—a tiny but effective habit that enhances mental health without taking up much time. These practices are based on classic mindfulness and meditation practices but are tailored to fit today's busy lives.

While the research was conducted with college students, the findings have applications for individuals of all ages. Whether you are a working professional with a packed schedule, a parent with numerous responsibilities, or an individual dealing with anxiety, adding a 20-second self-compassion exercise to your daily routine can be a convenient and effective method for managing stress and developing resilience.

Making It a Daily Habit

The secret to reaping the rewards of self-compassionate touch is consistency. Below are some ways to incorporate it into your daily life:

Begin your day by practicing self-compassion in bed before rising.

Utilize it as a fast tool during stressful situations at work or school.

Unwind by doing this micropractice before bedtime to relax.

May merely 20 seconds a day cause you to desist from spinning? The short answer, per the most up-to-date science, is that yes, it can. Micropractices for self-compassion provide a straightforward, research-supported means for lessening distress, enhancing emotional resilience, and cultivating a friendlier relationship with oneself.

In a world where stress and worry are escalating, this simple practice is a good reminder that simple, purposeful acts of care for ourselves have the ability to create tremendous transformations in our mindset. Why not give it a try for one month, you might find a surprising transformation.

As we brace ourselves for another bout of winter, we can’t help but feel wary about the changes the dip in temperature brings on our mood and mental well-being. You are not imagining winter depression when you start to feel sudden loss of joy.

Seasonal depression is more than feeling gloomy. You may no longer enjoy the activities you once relished, like listening to music, exercising or meeting friends. This isn’t just another effect of winter. Experts have designated a term for it: anhedonia.

Anhedonia refers to the loss of pleasure or interest in something you once enjoyed. It is one of the symptoms of depression, including seasonal affective disorder (SAD). Unlike sadness, anhedonia can render someone feeling disconnected with or indifferent towards things they once enjoyed.

A person experiencing anhedonia may still participate in activities they enjoy but will no longer reap emotional rewards from it.

“Anhedonia is not the kind of sadness where you’re feeling down but still have moments of enjoyment,” Dr Deeksha Kalra, Associate Consultant, Psychiatry, Artemis Hospital, Gurugram, explained to HealthandMe.

Dr Samant Darshi, Consultant Psychiatrist and Neuromodulation Expert at Yatharth Hospitals, told us, “While sadness entails the state of feeling unhappy about something, anhedonia pertains to the lack of enjoyment.”

Dr Kalra said, during SAD, anhedonia may be experienced during the affected season like winter.

“This can happen at the same time as low mood, but it can also be one of the clearest symptoms. In SAD, these changes are usually present during the affected season and resolve with the resolution of the depressive episode. So anhedonia is about muted pleasure, not just feeling sad,” Dr Kalra explains.

Effects Of Winter On Pleasure And Motivation

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Changes that come with SAD, a type of depressive phase, usually pertains to specific seasons, like mostly winter. Due to less duration of daylight, the body’s internal clock, known as circadian rhythm, may get affected. Along with circadian rhythm, poor diet, irregular sleep pattern and limited physical activity can also contribute to SAD.

This could cause one to feel difficult to initiative activities they enjoy as they no longer feel motivated, affecting the brain reward system.

“Seasonal affective disorder (SAD) causes disturbance of mood, sleep, energy, and motivation. Activities which were pleasurable before become less rewarding because of this. The changes in daylight hours may affect the body clock or the physiological processes related to mood control. The decrease in energy and motivation makes doing the activity even harder and less pleasurable,” said Dr Darshi.

Dr Kalra explains that there are a lot of phases to experiencing ‘enjoyment’. It involves identifying something rewarding, anticipating it, experiencing pleasure and learning from the experience. Depression can affect all these phases, making previously enjoyable activities feel less rewarding.

“Brain networks including the striatum and nucleus accumbens, contribute to the valuation of rewarding experiences and the motivation of behavior. When their responses are dulled and something that was once naturally rewarding may not have the same emotional resonance,” she says.

Dopamine’s Role In SAD

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Dopamine is a neurotransmitter in the brain responsible for motivation, rewards, learning, and directing behaviour as per goals. When we talk about SAD and anhedonia, dopamine comes into the picture as it is related to motivation and rewards.

Dr Kalra explained, “Dopamine is involved in motivation, reward anticipation, learning and determining the value of pursuing something. That’s why dopamine has been looked at when researchers have investigated anhedonia and low motivation.”

But doctors say that anhedonia is not characterised by shortage of dopamine. According to research, SAD has been reported to affect dopamine signalling, including lower dopamine transporter availability in the striatum during symptomatic depression.

Dr Darshi also emphasises that dopamine is only a part of the process.

He said, “Studies concerning depression and anhedonia indicate that changes in the activity of dopamine result in the decrease in motivation and reward sensitivity. However, anhedonia encompasses many brain processes.”

SAD And Anticipatory Pleasure

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Anhedonia makes one indifferent by directly affecting the anticipatory pleasure mechanism. Anticipatory pleasure is the excitement one feels before an event. Consummatory pleasure is the enjoyment experienced while the event is in progress.

“Anhedonia can affect the anticipatory pleasure you feel when you look forward to something and the consummatory pleasure you experience when it actually happens. Someone might know that a favorite meal, holiday or meeting with friends should be enjoyable but feel little excitement beforehand. The pleasure might also feel weaker than expected when the event happens,” Dr Kalra explains.

Not Everyone May Experience Same SAD Symptoms

Everyone with SAD experiences anhedonia in different ways. While some may lose interest and pleasure, others may withdraw socially, sleep excessively, eat more, feeling more tired among other symptoms.

“SAD doesn’t affect everybody in exactly the same way any more than depression is a single biological process. Different people can experience different combinations of changes in mood regulation, circadian rhythms, sleep, appetite and energy and reward processing,” says Dr Kalra.

She also said that multiple symptoms may interact. For example, poor sleep could result into daytime sluggishness, making energetic activities less tempting.

Dr Darshi explained, “Individuals with SAD have different presentations since biology, genetics, circadian rhythm, and psychology are unique for each person. Some individuals have disturbances in reward and motivation, whereas others have sleep disturbances or carbohydrate cravings, or even fatigue. Symptoms might be overlapping and are a reflection of various underlying mechanisms.”

Female breast cancer was the most commonly diagnosed cancer among women in India in 2024, with an estimated 237,231 new cases and 96,100 deaths, according to the International Agency for Research on Cancer (IARC).

Despite the importance of early detection, screening uptake remains low. Experts say India needs better access to screening and approaches tailored to age, breast density and individual risk.

Dr. Sandeep Nayak, Chairman of Oncology at MACS-Renova Oncology Institute, KIMS Hospital, Bengaluru, told HealthandMe that population-wide screening remains a distant goal, with opportunistic screening still the norm.

“Because of this, applying blanket Western guidelines is ineffective. We need a pragmatic, age-stratified approach to imaging: utilizing breast ultrasound (USG) for women aged 35 to 45—where dense breast tissue severely limits mammogram sensitivity—and reserving routine mammography for women above 50, where tissue density decreases and diagnostic yield peaks,” he said.

Why Is Breast Cancer Still Diagnosed Late in India?

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“The alarming epidemiological paradox is that while our incidence is a third of Western nations, our death rate already surpasses theirs. The issue is not that this cancer has an aggressive biology in India; it is the timeline of discovery,” said Dr. Navin Gnanasekaran, Head of Clinical Services, Radiology and Interventional Radiology for the Apollo Group Chennai Region.

Dr. Gnanasekaran said more than 60% of breast cancers in the United States are diagnosed while still localized, with five-year survival exceeding 90%. In India, many cases are detected after the cancer has spread beyond the breast, contributing to a five-year survival rate of 66.4%, he said.

India introduced population-based screening for common noncommunicable diseases in 2016 under the National Program for Prevention and Control of Cancer, Diabetes, Cardiovascular Diseases and Stroke (NPCDCS), launched in 2010. The program includes breast cancer screening among women aged 30 and above.

However, National Family Health Survey-5 (NFHS-5) data show that only 0.9% of women aged 30–49 had ever undergone a breast examination for cancer detection. Dr. Gnanasekaran placed the median age of breast cancer onset in India at around 45.

Should Mammograms Start at 40—or Later?

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Experts differ when routine mammography should begin and whether breast density should influence imaging choices.

Dr. Gnanasekaran recommended digital mammography every two years for women aged 40–60. He proposed linking screening reminders to Ayushman Bharat Health Account (ABHA) IDs, deploying mobile mammography units in rural areas and using validated artificial intelligence (AI) to help interpret scans.

Dr. Nayak recommended ultrasound for women aged 35–45 and routine mammography for those above 50.

Dense breast tissue can make some cancers harder to detect on mammograms. Women at high genetic risk, including those with BRCA mutations or a strong family history, may need earlier surveillance, potentially including contrast-enhanced breast MRI in their late 20s or early 30s, depending on individual risk.

Dr. Gnanasekaran stressed that screening must be supported by accessible diagnostic and treatment services, including timely biopsies.

Is Mammography Safe, and Can It Miss Cancer?

Mammography can miss some cancers, particularly in women with dense breasts. Ultrasound may be added for dense breasts or specific concerns, while MRI is generally used for women at higher risk or in selected situations.

Dr. Garvit Chitkara, Associate Director of Breast Surgical Oncology and Oncoplasty at Nanavati Max Institute of Cancer Care, Mumbai, said the radiation risk from mammography is low, while false-positive results can lead to additional tests.

“At the recommended intervals, mammography does not meaningfully raise your cancer risk. The more real downsides are occasional false alarms that lead to extra tests, which is a reason to have it done at a good centre and discuss any call-back with your doctor,” he told HealthandMe.

A normal mammogram should not be used to dismiss a persistent lump or other breast symptoms. Women experiencing changes should seek medical evaluation even if their most recent screening result was normal.

Which Breast Changes Should You Never Ignore?

Many breast lumps are benign, including cysts and fibroadenomas, but touch alone cannot reliably distinguish a harmless lump from cancer.

“Any new lump, or a lump that is changing in size or feel, should be examined by a doctor. A quick check usually settles it and gives you peace of mind,” Dr. Chitkara said.

Persistent redness, itching or skin thickening, breast dimpling, puckering, an orange-peel texture, nipple retraction or unusual nipple discharge should also be evaluated.

Early breast cancer is often painless. Women should not wait for pain before seeking medical attention.

Molly, a head nurse at a leading city hospital, was diagnosed with breast cancer. Chemotherapy and surgery helped her overcome the disease, but 26 years later, it resurfaced during a routine examination. By then, the experience had faded from the minds of many, including her family.

Molly is not alone. Filmmaker and author Tahira Kashyap was diagnosed with Stage 0 breast cancer, or ductal carcinoma in situ (DCIS), in 2018. She underwent a mastectomy, followed by systemic therapies and chemotherapy. In 2025, she revealed that her cancer had relapsed after seven years.

“Round 2 for me... I still got this,” she wrote, emphasizing the importance of routine screening and regular mammograms.

In 2024, breast cancer caused an estimated 694,000 deaths and 2.4 million new cases worldwide, making it the most commonly diagnosed cancer among women in 164 of 186 countries.

“The last chemotherapy session or final radiation appointment may mark the end of active breast cancer treatment. But for many women, the fear does not end there. ‘What if the cancer comes back?’ can remain an unsettling companion, even on the happiest days,”

Prof. Jyoti Bajpai, Director – Medical, Precision & Immuno-Oncology, Apollo Hospitals, Mumbai & Western Zone, told HealthandMe.

Despite advances in screening and treatment, completing treatment does not mean an immediate return to normal life. As hospital visits become less frequent, friends and family may assume the hardships are over. But survivorship can mark the beginning of a quieter struggle with fear, uncertainty and adapting to a changed body and mind, added Dr. Randeep Singh, Director and Senior Consultant, Oncology Services, Medical Oncology, Haemato-Oncology & BMT, Narayana Hospital, Gurugram.

The Physical and Financial Burden of Survivorship

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Fatigue, joint pain, menopausal symptoms and changes in body image may persist after treatment, Prof. Jyoti noted. Every ache can trigger anxiety, while follow-up appointments can revive old fears.

Restrictive diets, conflicting advice and misinformation can complicate everyday decisions. The pressure to resume family and professional responsibilities may also leave little room for emotional distress.

An Indian study led by the Kidwai Memorial Institute of Oncology in Karnataka and presented at the 2026 ASCO Annual Meeting found that 43% of breast cancer survivors reported persistent fatigue and reduced physical activity, while 71% reported financial concerns.

The Fear of Recurrence

Dr. Randeep described fear of recurrence as one of the most challenging aspects of survivorship.

“Fear of recurrence is one of the most challenging aspects of survivorship. Survivors still may be concerned about the bumps, aches, and pains they experience that are different from those they are used to. You may start to think of things that cause you fear and anxiety: How can it be that I just have a headache, but how can it be that the cancer has returned?”

Scans, blood tests and follow-up visits can also be emotionally draining.

“There may be worry or stress that is hard to describe to someone who's never been through it before. To a survivor, it can be a reminder of all the things that have happened to her and all the things she fears. This worry is not a weakness. The journey from cancer survivor can alter someone's notion of safety, health and the future.”

Changes in Body Image and Intimacy

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Changes in appearance can affect self-confidence, Dr. Randeep told HealthandMe. Hair may regrow differently, scars may remain, and the loss or reshaping of a breast can change how a woman feels about her body. Physical discomfort, diminished libido or reduced attraction to a partner may also affect intimacy.

“These experiences are so personal. A woman may be thankful to be alive and at the same time mourn the body, energy, or normalcy she had prior to her cancer diagnosis. Both emotions can be experienced at the same time and neither lessens her strength,” he said.

The Loneliness Behind the Smile

During treatment, support may come through phone calls, hospital visits, meals and messages of encouragement. Once treatment ends, that attention can fade as people assume the survivor is fine.

Survivors may also feel pressured to remain positive, particularly when others remind them how fortunate they are to have survived. They may suppress anxiety, sadness or frustration to avoid worrying their families.

Why Support Must Continue After Treatment

Cancer care must extend beyond controlling the disease, said Prof. Jyoti Bajpai, Founder & President-Elect of the Immuno-Oncology Society of India (I-OSI) and Asia Co-Chair of the Society for Immunotherapy of Cancer (SITC).

Alongside appropriate surveillance and management of physical symptoms, women need evidence-based guidance, nutritional support and psychological care. Families must recognize that recovery is individual and that fear of recurrence deserves compassion, not dismissal.

Family and friends, counsellors and breast cancer survivor groups can provide emotional support. Healthy habits, gentle physical activity, adequate rest and honest conversations with healthcare professionals can also help survivors cope. Persistent anxiety, depression or physical symptoms should not be ignored; medical or psychological help should be sought when needed.

Survivorship is a process of rebuilding trust, finding happiness and accepting an uncertain future. The goal is not merely to help women live beyond cancer, but to give them the support, understanding and confidence to live fully again.

“No woman should have to navigate that journey alone,” Dr. Jyoti said.