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Some days my brain is like a storm, thoughts moving faster than I can keep up. A small mistake becomes an catastrophe, an offhand remark becomes a soul-deep fear. I turn around and around, analyzing each word, every move, every potentiality. But then, I discovered recently this easy 20-second hack which was actually pretty straightforward but made a tremendous difference in the negative thinking. Quickly [sitting my hand on my heart and reminding myself, I am enough. Even just that small hesitation interrupts the madness. My breath slows, my shoulders ease, and for a moment, the hurricane calms. This practice over time has become my anchor, reminding me that I am not thoughts—I am so much more.
Researchers at the University of California, Berkeley, have discovered that it doesn't need to take long to practice self-compassion to be beneficial. The study, published in the Behaviour Research and Therapy journal, revealed that performing a 20-second self-compassion touch, such as putting a hand on your heart or belly, can greatly reduce levels of stress and anxiety.
According to psychology researcher Eli Susman, who co-authored the study, a group of 135 college students was asked to dedicate just 20 seconds a day to affirm themselves with kind and positive thoughts while engaging in a self-compassionate touch. The results were striking: those who consistently practiced this simple technique over a month experienced notable improvements in mood, self-compassion, and emotional resilience, while stress hormone levels decreased.
Why 20 Seconds of Self-Compassion Works
1. Decrease in Cortisol Levels
The stress hormone cortisol is the cause of much of the physical and emotional damage chronic stress inflicts on the body. The researchers discovered that a mere 20 seconds of self-compassionate touch resulted in a measurable drop in cortisol, allowing people to recover from stress more rapidly.
2. Better Emotional Well-Being
By practicing positive self-affirmation and empathetic touch, study participants reported greater emotional equanimity and reduced reactivity to stressful challenges.
3. A Simple, Accessible Practice
Unlike many conventional mindfulness practices that might demand lengthy meditation sessions, this micropractice requires only 20 seconds, rendering it simple to fit into daily activities, be it at home, the workplace, or even during public transport rides.
How to Practice Self-Compassionate Touch
This exercise is very easy and can be done anywhere. Here's how you can adapt it to your daily life:
Step 1: Recognize Your Emotions
Close your eyes and reflect on a recent experience that made you feel stressed, unworthy, or critical of yourself. Notice the sensations in your body as you reflect on this episode.
Step 2: Practice a Soothing Touch
Put one hand on your heart and the other on your belly. If this doesn't feel comfortable to you, you can experiment with other ways of self-compassionate touching, including:
Stroking the back of your neck
Rubbing a place on your palm with your thumb
Hugging yourself lightly by holding your arms in across your chest
Step 3: Breathe Deeply and Give Yourself Kindness
Take a slow, deep breath in. Feel the warmth and gentle pressure of your hands. As you exhale, focus on releasing tension. Now, in your mind, repeat self-compassionate affirmations such as:
“I am kind to myself.”
“I am not my mistakes.”
“I give myself room and comfort.”
“I celebrate my uniqueness.”
“I take this time to appreciate who I am.”
Step 4: Finish with a Sense of Gratitude
Open your eyes after 20 seconds and simply take a moment to admire yourself for taking the time to do this practice. You can repeat it as many times as you need throughout the day.
Susman calls this approach a "micropractice"—a tiny but effective habit that enhances mental health without taking up much time. These practices are based on classic mindfulness and meditation practices but are tailored to fit today's busy lives.
While the research was conducted with college students, the findings have applications for individuals of all ages. Whether you are a working professional with a packed schedule, a parent with numerous responsibilities, or an individual dealing with anxiety, adding a 20-second self-compassion exercise to your daily routine can be a convenient and effective method for managing stress and developing resilience.
Making It a Daily Habit
The secret to reaping the rewards of self-compassionate touch is consistency. Below are some ways to incorporate it into your daily life:
Begin your day by practicing self-compassion in bed before rising.
Utilize it as a fast tool during stressful situations at work or school.
Unwind by doing this micropractice before bedtime to relax.
May merely 20 seconds a day cause you to desist from spinning? The short answer, per the most up-to-date science, is that yes, it can. Micropractices for self-compassion provide a straightforward, research-supported means for lessening distress, enhancing emotional resilience, and cultivating a friendlier relationship with oneself.
In a world where stress and worry are escalating, this simple practice is a good reminder that simple, purposeful acts of care for ourselves have the ability to create tremendous transformations in our mindset. Why not give it a try for one month, you might find a surprising transformation.
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Rubbing your eyes is a common habit, often triggered by itching, dryness or tiredness. However, frequent and vigorous rubbing can damage the cornea and increase the risk of keratoconus, a progressive condition that causes it to thin and bulge outward, experts warn.
World Keratoconus Day is observed every year on November 10 to raise awareness about the condition.
Early diagnosis is important to slow its progression. Frequent changes in spectacle prescriptions or deteriorating vision should prompt an eye examination.
Frequent or aggressive eye rubbing can put mechanical stress on the cornea, potentially weakening its structure and worsening existing eye conditions.
Speaking to HealthandMe, Dr Janhvi Mehta, Consultant Ophthalmologist, Jaslok Hospital and Research Centre, Mumbai, said, "Frequent or vigorous eye rubbing can damage the cornea, particularly by contributing to keratoconus. It can also cause corneal epithelial injury and worsen existing ocular allergy."
Repeated rubbing can:
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Dr Mahipal Singh Sachdev, Chairman and Managing Director, Centre for Sight Group of Hospitals, explained that excessive rubbing puts pressure on the cornea and can damage its collagen structure.
"The cornea might become thinner than usual or its shape may become uneven, leading to impaired vision. Hence, people should avoid the habit of rubbing their eyes," he told HealthandMe.
Children with allergies, especially allergic conjunctivitis, may be more vulnerable to keratoconus because of frequent eye rubbing.
Allergies can cause persistent itching, redness, watering, and discomfort, encouraging children to rub their eyes repeatedly. The resulting mechanical stress may contribute to the development or progression of keratoconus in susceptible individuals.
The experts urged parents to watch for excessive rubbing and changes in their children's vision. Timely allergy treatment and regular eye examinations can help identify potential problems early.
Other risk factors for keratoconus include:
However, not everyone who frequently rubs their eyes develops keratoconus.
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Dr Janhvi noted that keratoconus commonly begins during adolescence or early adulthood but may remain undiagnosed until vision deteriorates.
Its early symptoms can resemble common refractive errors such as myopia. Children and young adults may experience mild blurring or require frequent changes in their spectacle prescriptions, which can be mistaken for routine vision changes.
The condition can also progress gradually and initially affect only one eye, making changes harder to recognise. Routine eye examinations may not always detect early keratoconus without specialised corneal assessment, Dr. Mahipal said.
Warning signs to watch for include:
Increasing astigmatism despite repeated spectacle corrections is an important warning sign that warrants further evaluation.
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Preventing excessive eye rubbing and managing its underlying causes can help reduce avoidable stress on the cornea.
1. Break the eye-rubbing habit
2. Treat underlying allergies
If itching triggers eye rubbing, consult an ophthalmologist about appropriate treatment. Options may include topical antihistamine or mast-cell stabiliser drops, such as olopatadine or ketotifen.
Other measures include:
3. Reduce exposure to environmental triggers
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Come Saturday morning, many people have just one thing on their mind: catching up on sleep. After a week of early mornings, office deadlines, late-night screen time and household responsibilities, the weekend feels like the perfect opportunity to stay in bed for a few extra hours. Some people even sleep until noon, believing that the extra rest will make up for all those late nights. But is it really possible to undo five days of poor sleep in just two days?
Unfortunately, the brain doesn't work that way. Sleeping longer over the weekend can certainly help you feel less tired, but it cannot completely compensate for a week of inadequate sleep.
Sleep is much more than physical rest. It is when the brain gets down to some of its most important work. Memories are processed, information gathered during the day is organised, and the brain gets an opportunity to recover from constant activity. When we repeatedly cut short our sleep, these processes can suffer.
Think about how you feel after several nights of going to bed late. You may find yourself forgetting small things, struggling to concentrate during meetings or becoming unusually irritable over minor issues. These are some of the ways sleep deprivation can affect everyday functioning.
Sleeping for a few extra hours over the weekend can ease some of this fatigue. You may feel more alert and find it easier to concentrate. However, feeling refreshed is not necessarily the same as being fully recovered. Certain effects of repeated sleep restriction, particularly on attention and reaction time, can take longer to resolve.
There is another side to this weekend habit that people rarely consider. If you sleep at 11 pm during the week but stay awake until 2 or 3 am on Friday and Saturday, your body's internal clock can get disrupted.
This internal timing system, called the circadian rhythm, helps regulate when you feel sleepy and when you wake up. Large changes in sleep timings can make it harder to fall asleep on Sunday night. Before you know it, Monday morning arrives and you are back to feeling exhausted.
It becomes a familiar cycle: insufficient sleep during the week, prolonged sleep on weekends and difficulty getting back into a routine.
One of the biggest areas affected is memory. Sleep plays an important role in consolidating information, which is why a poor night's sleep can make it harder to remember things or absorb new information the following day.
It can also affect emotional regulation. People who regularly sleep less may become more impatient, anxious or sensitive to everyday stress. Their ability to focus and make decisions may also take a hit.
Persistent sleep deprivation has also been associated with metabolic and cardiovascular problems. It is therefore important not to treat poor sleep as an unavoidable part of a demanding work schedule.
Rather than depending on Saturday and Sunday to recover, try making small changes to your routine throughout the week.
Your brain needs rest every day, not just when the calendar says it is the weekend. Instead of treating sleep as something you can postpone and recover later, make it a non-negotiable part of your daily routine.
For decades, vaccines have transformed numerous fight against aggressive infectious diseases, saving millions of lives. Still, despite years and years of research proving their effectiveness, there is still significant skepticism surrounding vaccination. One of the most enduring claims is that vaccines, especially the measles, mumps and rubella (MMR) vaccine, can cause autism.
The belief that vaccines can cause autism has been debated for decades, despite a solid body of research failing to establish a link between the two.
In an exclusive interview with HealthandMe on World Immunization Day, Dr. Paul Offit, paediatrician and director of the Vaccine Education Center at Children’s Hospital of Philadelphia and former member of the CDC’s Advisory Committee on Immunization Practices, explained why the vaccine-autism claim is a myth difficult to debunk.
According to Dr Paul Offit, the controversy can be traced back to a 1998 paper that claimed the measles, mumps and rubella (MMR) vaccine caused autism. “I think it was born in that 1998 paper that MMR caused autism,” he said.
He said that the paper did an excellent job at convincing the masses that the adverse events related to vaccines can be long-standing and irreversible, like autism. Offit said the original claim had a lasting effect on public understanding of vaccine safety.
He said, “It’s very hard to unring the bell once you've rung it. I think it's hard to unscare people.”
He said the public-health and academic communities responded by conducting study after study to examine the alleged association. “But vaccines don't cause autism,” Offit said.
He believes that the research conducted after the 1998 paper helped address the concern. He said, “The question has been answered. Most parents of children with autism no longer believe that's the case. So I think that those studies were of value,” he said.
The 1998 paper by Andrew Wakefield and colleagues, which suggested a connection between the MMR vaccine and autism, was later retracted by The Lancet. Subsequent research has not established that MMR vaccination causes autism.
Offit said vaccines had been studied extensively as a possible environmental factor in autism. “Vaccines are probably the best studied environmental factor and that ain't it,” he said.
Dr. Offit said that genetics plays an important role in autism, while several factors related to maternal health and pregnancy have also been associated with the condition. He said, “About 80% of autism is genetic.”
He added, “There are a number of sort of factors regarding maternal health, regarding maternal drugs, infections during pregnancy that are associated with autism.”
His comments highlight the need to understand autism through research into its different possible causes rather than focusing on vaccines. To which, Offit said that the vaccine-autism controversy has affected essential autism research.
When asked whether vaccine debates were diverting resources from research into autism causes and diagnosis, he pointed to the work of Alison Singer at the Autism Science Foundation and said there were several promising areas of investigation.
However, he criticised anti-vaccine groups for continuing to use autism as part of their arguments against vaccination. “I think that anti-vaccine groups have sadly taken the autism story hostage,” he said.
He argued that this had reduced the attention and resources that could go towards more promising areas of autism research. “So they hurt children with autism in the end,” he said.
When asked what new evidence could make him reconsider his position on vaccines and autism, Offit said he would be open to changing his mind if a particular standard of scientific evidence were met.
“If there was an excellent retrospective study that controlled for things like healthcare seeking behavior, socioeconomic background, medical background, maternal health, et cetera, that was published in an excellent scientific journal and reproduced, then I'm willing to change my mind,” he said.
He added that a study would have to account for factors that could influence the results and be independently reproduced. “But until then, you're just hearing a lot of conspiracy theory and hand-waving,” he said.
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