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Some days my brain is like a storm, thoughts moving faster than I can keep up. A small mistake becomes an catastrophe, an offhand remark becomes a soul-deep fear. I turn around and around, analyzing each word, every move, every potentiality. But then, I discovered recently this easy 20-second hack which was actually pretty straightforward but made a tremendous difference in the negative thinking. Quickly [sitting my hand on my heart and reminding myself, I am enough. Even just that small hesitation interrupts the madness. My breath slows, my shoulders ease, and for a moment, the hurricane calms. This practice over time has become my anchor, reminding me that I am not thoughts—I am so much more.
Researchers at the University of California, Berkeley, have discovered that it doesn't need to take long to practice self-compassion to be beneficial. The study, published in the Behaviour Research and Therapy journal, revealed that performing a 20-second self-compassion touch, such as putting a hand on your heart or belly, can greatly reduce levels of stress and anxiety.
According to psychology researcher Eli Susman, who co-authored the study, a group of 135 college students was asked to dedicate just 20 seconds a day to affirm themselves with kind and positive thoughts while engaging in a self-compassionate touch. The results were striking: those who consistently practiced this simple technique over a month experienced notable improvements in mood, self-compassion, and emotional resilience, while stress hormone levels decreased.
Why 20 Seconds of Self-Compassion Works
1. Decrease in Cortisol Levels
The stress hormone cortisol is the cause of much of the physical and emotional damage chronic stress inflicts on the body. The researchers discovered that a mere 20 seconds of self-compassionate touch resulted in a measurable drop in cortisol, allowing people to recover from stress more rapidly.
2. Better Emotional Well-Being
By practicing positive self-affirmation and empathetic touch, study participants reported greater emotional equanimity and reduced reactivity to stressful challenges.
3. A Simple, Accessible Practice
Unlike many conventional mindfulness practices that might demand lengthy meditation sessions, this micropractice requires only 20 seconds, rendering it simple to fit into daily activities, be it at home, the workplace, or even during public transport rides.
How to Practice Self-Compassionate Touch
This exercise is very easy and can be done anywhere. Here's how you can adapt it to your daily life:
Step 1: Recognize Your Emotions
Close your eyes and reflect on a recent experience that made you feel stressed, unworthy, or critical of yourself. Notice the sensations in your body as you reflect on this episode.
Step 2: Practice a Soothing Touch
Put one hand on your heart and the other on your belly. If this doesn't feel comfortable to you, you can experiment with other ways of self-compassionate touching, including:
Stroking the back of your neck
Rubbing a place on your palm with your thumb
Hugging yourself lightly by holding your arms in across your chest
Step 3: Breathe Deeply and Give Yourself Kindness
Take a slow, deep breath in. Feel the warmth and gentle pressure of your hands. As you exhale, focus on releasing tension. Now, in your mind, repeat self-compassionate affirmations such as:
“I am kind to myself.”
“I am not my mistakes.”
“I give myself room and comfort.”
“I celebrate my uniqueness.”
“I take this time to appreciate who I am.”
Step 4: Finish with a Sense of Gratitude
Open your eyes after 20 seconds and simply take a moment to admire yourself for taking the time to do this practice. You can repeat it as many times as you need throughout the day.
Susman calls this approach a "micropractice"—a tiny but effective habit that enhances mental health without taking up much time. These practices are based on classic mindfulness and meditation practices but are tailored to fit today's busy lives.
While the research was conducted with college students, the findings have applications for individuals of all ages. Whether you are a working professional with a packed schedule, a parent with numerous responsibilities, or an individual dealing with anxiety, adding a 20-second self-compassion exercise to your daily routine can be a convenient and effective method for managing stress and developing resilience.
Making It a Daily Habit
The secret to reaping the rewards of self-compassionate touch is consistency. Below are some ways to incorporate it into your daily life:
Begin your day by practicing self-compassion in bed before rising.
Utilize it as a fast tool during stressful situations at work or school.
Unwind by doing this micropractice before bedtime to relax.
May merely 20 seconds a day cause you to desist from spinning? The short answer, per the most up-to-date science, is that yes, it can. Micropractices for self-compassion provide a straightforward, research-supported means for lessening distress, enhancing emotional resilience, and cultivating a friendlier relationship with oneself.
In a world where stress and worry are escalating, this simple practice is a good reminder that simple, purposeful acts of care for ourselves have the ability to create tremendous transformations in our mindset. Why not give it a try for one month, you might find a surprising transformation.
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While once considered an old-age disease, experts are now seeing kidney damage in people in their 30s and 40s. The prevalence of CKD in India has jumped significantly, moving from about 11 percent from 2011-17 to over 16 percent from 2018-23 among those aged 15 and above.
Kidneys are remarkably efficient that they can lose a vast majority of their function without causing any pain or noticeable symptoms. By the time physical warning signs such as foot swelling or fatigue appear, the underlying damage has already reached an advanced stage.
To catch issues early, the article recommends three standard tests:
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As people across the globe observe World Kidney Day, experts are sounding the alarm over the dangerous everyday habits that are worsening your kidney function and paving the way for the development of chronic conditions.
Dr Neha Bhandari, Senior Consultant, Pediatric Nephrology, Aakash Healthcare exclusively tells Healthandme: "Kidneys are very crucial in ensuring that the body maintains its internal equilibrium by filtering wastes, fluid regulation, electrolytes regulation, and in the process of assisting in blood pressure regulation as well.
"Nevertheless, a number of general living habits that have developed as part of contemporary everyday activity such as high painkiller use, large intake of processed foods and progressively sedentary lifestyles have the potential of slowly damaging the kidney functions. Since the damage of the kidneys frequently happens without any symptoms, and has no symptoms in severe cases, such simple habits can become a serious problem in the long-term, without any treatment."
Dr A K Jayaraj, MBBS, MS (Gen Surgery), MCH (Urology) at Apollo Spectra Hospital, Chennai also told this publication: "From the painkillers people take to relieve pain to the food they eat and the lifestyle they lead, there are a number of factors that can affect the functioning of these small but powerful organs.
"Focusing on these three factors helps keep these internal filters running smoothly by supporting clear blood flow, steady blood pressure, and balanced energy levels."
Here are the habits you need to keep an eye out for to protect your kidneys:
"Pain killers, such as non-steroidal anti-inflammatory drugs (NSAIDs), are known to constrict the blood vessels that lead to the kidneys. Constricted blood vessels limit the ability of the kidneys to filter blood, and frequent use of painkillers in the long run may lead to scarring or chronic diseases in the kidneys. It is always better to use the lowest
dose possible and look for other alternatives to pain killers, such as physical therapy, bed rest or heat packs."
Moreover, Dr Bhandari added: "In the long run, the continuous intake of these kinds of medicines can cause long-term kidney damage to the person, particularly those who are already predisposed to other conditions like diabetes, high blood pressure, and dehydration or people who already have kidney disease. Overdosing with painkillers may also cause a situation called analgesic nephropathy which involves progressive renal damage and functional weakness of the kidney as a result of constant exposure to the drugs."
"What a person eats directly affects how hard their kidneys have to work. Modern processed foods are often a "triple threat" because of their high levels of salt, sugar, and chemical additives.
While doctors around the world note that having an active lifestyle can do wonders for both mental and physical health, Dr Bhandari highlights the dangers of not incorporating a workout in your routine.
She tells Healthandme: "Lack of exercise leads to weight gain, poor metabolic health, insulin resistance, and blood pressure all of which are great risk factors of kidney disease. The immobility also impacts circulation and general cardiovascular health, which in turn indirectly impacts on the effectiveness of the kidney functionality needs as adequate blood flow is needed to make the kidney processes effectively.
"Those who work long hours sitting with little physical activity during the time can gradually be a contributor to the disease conditions, which increases the damage to kidneys without thinking of the side effects of the disease in the long term.
"Indirect contribution can also be made by hydration habits. Most people replaced water with sweet drinks or caffeinated ones or soft drinks, which may lead to metabolic disorders and an overload of the kidney. Proper filtration and aiding in the excretion of toxins and metabolic waste into the body is facilitated by the adequate water intake."
"Weight gain and high blood sugar are the primary causes of kidney failure. Daily exercise, such as a 30-minute walk every day, helps the body regulate blood sugar well and maintain healthy blood pressure at all times. This, in turn, does not overwork the kidneys and allows them to perform at optimal capacity," Dr Jayaraj advised.
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Often referred as a "silent killer," Chronic Kidney Disease (CKD) is a progressive and irreversible condition where the kidneys gradually lose their ability to filter waste and excess fluids from the blood. When the kidneys fail, waste builds up to high levels in your blood, potentially leading to complications like heart disease or stroke.
Recent data from The Lancet and the Global Burden of Disease study reveals that out of nearly 14 crore Indians living with CKD, nearly 40 percent of diabetic patients and 40 percent of those with long-standing hypertension are at risk of developing CKD.
As CKD frequently shows no symptoms until nearly 90 percent of kidney function is already gone, Dr. Visweswar Reddy, Senior Consultant in Nephrology at SRM Prime Hospital, shares early signs everyone should look out for.
He noted that one of the biggest challenges with kidney disease is that symptoms often appear very late said “Unfortunately, most of these symptoms appear only when more than 90 per cent of kidney function has already been lost.”
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