Some days my brain is like a storm, thoughts moving faster than I can keep up. A small mistake becomes an catastrophe, an offhand remark becomes a soul-deep fear. I turn around and around, analyzing each word, every move, every potentiality. But then, I discovered recently this easy 20-second hack which was actually pretty straightforward but made a tremendous difference in the negative thinking. Quickly [sitting my hand on my heart and reminding myself, I am enough. Even just that small hesitation interrupts the madness. My breath slows, my shoulders ease, and for a moment, the hurricane calms. This practice over time has become my anchor, reminding me that I am not thoughts—I am so much more.

Researchers at the University of California, Berkeley, have discovered that it doesn't need to take long to practice self-compassion to be beneficial. The study, published in the Behaviour Research and Therapy journal, revealed that performing a 20-second self-compassion touch, such as putting a hand on your heart or belly, can greatly reduce levels of stress and anxiety.

According to psychology researcher Eli Susman, who co-authored the study, a group of 135 college students was asked to dedicate just 20 seconds a day to affirm themselves with kind and positive thoughts while engaging in a self-compassionate touch. The results were striking: those who consistently practiced this simple technique over a month experienced notable improvements in mood, self-compassion, and emotional resilience, while stress hormone levels decreased.

Why 20 Seconds of Self-Compassion Works

1. Decrease in Cortisol Levels

The stress hormone cortisol is the cause of much of the physical and emotional damage chronic stress inflicts on the body. The researchers discovered that a mere 20 seconds of self-compassionate touch resulted in a measurable drop in cortisol, allowing people to recover from stress more rapidly.

2. Better Emotional Well-Being

By practicing positive self-affirmation and empathetic touch, study participants reported greater emotional equanimity and reduced reactivity to stressful challenges.

3. A Simple, Accessible Practice

Unlike many conventional mindfulness practices that might demand lengthy meditation sessions, this micropractice requires only 20 seconds, rendering it simple to fit into daily activities, be it at home, the workplace, or even during public transport rides.

How to Practice Self-Compassionate Touch

This exercise is very easy and can be done anywhere. Here's how you can adapt it to your daily life:

Step 1: Recognize Your Emotions

Close your eyes and reflect on a recent experience that made you feel stressed, unworthy, or critical of yourself. Notice the sensations in your body as you reflect on this episode.

Step 2: Practice a Soothing Touch

Put one hand on your heart and the other on your belly. If this doesn't feel comfortable to you, you can experiment with other ways of self-compassionate touching, including:

Stroking the back of your neck

Rubbing a place on your palm with your thumb

Hugging yourself lightly by holding your arms in across your chest

Step 3: Breathe Deeply and Give Yourself Kindness

Take a slow, deep breath in. Feel the warmth and gentle pressure of your hands. As you exhale, focus on releasing tension. Now, in your mind, repeat self-compassionate affirmations such as:

“I am kind to myself.”

“I am not my mistakes.”

“I give myself room and comfort.”

“I celebrate my uniqueness.”

“I take this time to appreciate who I am.”

Step 4: Finish with a Sense of Gratitude

Open your eyes after 20 seconds and simply take a moment to admire yourself for taking the time to do this practice. You can repeat it as many times as you need throughout the day.

Susman calls this approach a "micropractice"—a tiny but effective habit that enhances mental health without taking up much time. These practices are based on classic mindfulness and meditation practices but are tailored to fit today's busy lives.

While the research was conducted with college students, the findings have applications for individuals of all ages. Whether you are a working professional with a packed schedule, a parent with numerous responsibilities, or an individual dealing with anxiety, adding a 20-second self-compassion exercise to your daily routine can be a convenient and effective method for managing stress and developing resilience.

Making It a Daily Habit

The secret to reaping the rewards of self-compassionate touch is consistency. Below are some ways to incorporate it into your daily life:

Begin your day by practicing self-compassion in bed before rising.

Utilize it as a fast tool during stressful situations at work or school.

Unwind by doing this micropractice before bedtime to relax.

May merely 20 seconds a day cause you to desist from spinning? The short answer, per the most up-to-date science, is that yes, it can. Micropractices for self-compassion provide a straightforward, research-supported means for lessening distress, enhancing emotional resilience, and cultivating a friendlier relationship with oneself.

In a world where stress and worry are escalating, this simple practice is a good reminder that simple, purposeful acts of care for ourselves have the ability to create tremendous transformations in our mindset. Why not give it a try for one month, you might find a surprising transformation.

When we think of perimenopause, irregular periods, hot flashes and mood changes usually come to mind. But the transition to menopause is not limited to the menstrual cycle. Behind the scenes, changing ovarian hormones—particularly fluctuating and eventually declining estrogen—can influence body composition, insulin sensitivity, cholesterol levels, bone health and cardiovascular risk.

For many women, these metabolic changes begin years before their final menstrual period.

Why does weight suddenly behave differently?

A common concern during perimenopause is: “I haven’t changed my diet, so why am I gaining weight around my abdomen?”

Ageing itself contributes to gradual loss of muscle mass and changes in energy expenditure. At the same time, the menopausal transition is associated with a shift in fat distribution, with a greater tendency to accumulate visceral or abdominal fat.

This matters because visceral fat is metabolically active. An increase in abdominal fat can be associated with insulin resistance, abnormal cholesterol levels and a higher risk of metabolic disease. So, the change in waist circumference may sometimes tell us more about metabolic health than the number on the weighing scale alone.

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Blood sugars may raise up too

Estrogen interacts with several pathways involved in glucose and fat metabolism. During midlife, changes in body composition, reduced physical activity, sleep disturbance and hormonal changes can collectively make insulin sensitivity less favourable.

This does not mean every woman going through perimenopause will develop diabetes. However, women who already have risk factors—such as overweight or obesity, prediabetes, a history of gestational diabetes or a strong family history of type 2 diabetes—should be particularly mindful.

Cholesterol and heart health deserve attention

The menopausal transition can also be accompanied by unfavourable changes in the lipid profile, including changes in LDL cholesterol. Cardiovascular risk increases with age, and menopause is an important time to reassess risk factors such as blood pressure, glucose, cholesterol, smoking, physical activity and body composition.

Women often spend years focusing on reproductive health while overlooking these equally important metabolic markers.

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Muscles and bones need attention as well

Midlife is also an important period for protecting muscle and bone. Declining estrogen after menopause accelerates bone loss, while ageing contributes to loss of muscle mass.

Resistance training therefore becomes especially valuable. Adequate protein intake, regular weight-bearing exercise, sufficient calcium and vitamin D, good sleep and avoiding smoking can support healthier ageing.

What should women do?

Perimenopause should not be viewed as a disease, nor should every symptom or kilogram gained in midlife automatically be blamed on hormones. Instead, it is an opportunity for a metabolic health check.

Women should discuss appropriate screening for blood pressure, blood glucose or HbA1c, lipid profile, weight and waist circumference monitoring , DEXA scan for bone health, depending on their individual risk factors.

Most importantly, don’t wait for menopause to start thinking about metabolic health. The perimenopausal years can be an important window to build muscle, improve fitness, optimise nutrition and identify metabolic risk early.

Perimenopause is more than a change in periods—it is a transition in whole-body health. Understanding these changes early can help women enter the next phase of life stronger, healthier and better prepared.

(By Dr. Seema Daksh, MBBS, MD (Internal Medicine), DM (Endocrinology), Consultant Endocrinologist,Kailash Hospital, Greater Noida)

Loud habitual snoring is often dismissed as a nuisance or simply a part of sleeping. For some people, it may be an early warning sign of obstructive sleep apnoea, a condition in which breathing repeatedly slows or stops during sleep. When left unaddressed, sleep apnoea can quietly strain the heart and blood vessels, increasing the risk of blood pressure, irregular heart rhythms, heart attack and stroke.

Snoring happens when relaxed tissues in the throat vibrate as air moves through a narrowed airway. Not everyone who snores has a problem and occasional snoring is common. However loud and regular snoring, especially when a bed partner notices pauses in breathing, choking or gasping should not be ignored. It may indicate sleep apnoea, where the airway collapses repeatedly during sleep.

Each time breathing stops, oxygen levels drop. The brain briefly wakes the body up to restart breathing. Most people do not remember these interruptions but their body feels the effects. Over time, this cycle can disturb sleep, raise blood pressure, increase inflammation and put pressure on the cardiovascular system.

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Risk factor & symptoms

Sleep apnoea is increasingly recognised as a risk factor for stroke. It can worsen hypertension. Contribute to atrial fibrillation, an irregular heartbeat that raises the likelihood of a stroke. The concern becomes greater in people who already have conditions such as diabetes, obesity, high cholesterol or a family history of heart disease.

For them, untreated sleep apnoea may add to the strain on the heart and blood vessels. A landmark study by the All India Institute of Medical Sciences (AIIMS) New Delhi estimates that roughly 104 million Indians suffer from Obstructive Sleep Apnea (OSA), with about 47 million cases classified as moderate to severe.

There are also signs that should prompt a conversation with a doctor. Waking up unrefreshed despite spending hours in bed, feeling excessively sleepy during the day, experiencing morning headaches, and struggling to concentrate or becoming unusually irritable can all be linked to poor-quality sleep caused by sleep apnoea. If snoring is accompanied by any of these symptoms a sleep study may be recommended to confirm whether it is snoring or a more serious breathing disorder.

Remedies

The reassuring part is that sleep apnoea is treatable. Depending on its cause and severity, doctors may suggest weight management where relevant, avoiding alcohol and sedatives close to bedtime, treating congestion, changing sleep position, using an oral appliance or undergoing CPAP therapy, which keeps the airway open during sleep.

The message is not to worry about every snore but to take loud snoring seriously particularly when it comes with breathing pauses or daytime tiredness. Early diagnosis can improve sleep, energy and overall quality of life while helping reduce long-term risks to the heart and the brain.

Perimenopause is often described as a transition marked by hot flashes, mood swings and irregular periods. Because these changes are common, many women simply accept them as an inevitable part of ageing. But the years around menopause are also an important turning point for cardiovascular health.

The connection is partly hormonal. As ovarian function changes, oestrogen levels fluctuate and eventually decline. Oestrogen has several favourable effects on the cardiovascular system, including effects on blood vessels, cholesterol metabolism and vascular function. Its decline does not suddenly “cause” heart disease, but it can coincide with changes in blood pressure, cholesterol, body fat, glucose metabolism and vascular health that collectively increase cardiovascular risk.

When Menopause Symptoms Could Signal A Heart Problem

Not every symptom during perimenopause is cardiac. Hot flashes, night sweats, sleep disturbance, anxiety and palpitations are common. However, new, severe or unusual symptoms deserve attention—particularly in women who have cardiovascular risk factors.

Chest discomfort is one symptom that should never automatically be attributed to menopause. Women may experience coronary disease differently from the classic crushing chest pain often described in men. Pressure, tightness, burning or discomfort in the chest, upper abdomen, back, jaw or arms may occur. Breathlessness, unusual fatigue, nausea, sweating or light-headedness can also accompany cardiac problems.

Palpitations And Irregular Heartbeats: When To Seek Help

Similarly, repetitive palpitations should not simply be labelled as hormonal. Perimenopausal fluctuations, stress, poor sleep and hot flashes can increase awareness of the heartbeat, but persistent rapid or irregular heartbeats, particularly when associated with dizziness, fainting, chest discomfort or breathlessness, warrant evaluation.

Increase in Blood pressure is another important warning sign. Hypertension is often silent, and women may discover it incidentally during this period. Repeated elevated readings should be assessed rather than attributed to stress.

Oestrogen influences the endothelium—the inner lining of blood vessels—and contributes to healthy vascular function. During the menopausal transition, hormonal fluctuations and eventual oestrogen decline occur alongside changes in lipid metabolism and body composition.

LDL cholesterol may rise, while HDL and triglyceride patterns can also change. Fat distribution often shifts towards the abdomen, even without a dramatic change in overall body weight. Muscle mass may decline and insulin resistance can increase.

Blood pressure may also rise with age. Sleep disruption, reduced physical activity, stress and changes in diet can further compound these effects.

It is important, however, not to think of menopause as a single switch that suddenly transforms a woman from low-risk to high-risk. Traditional risk factors like obesity, diabetes, smoking etc can increase the risk profile. Menopause is better understood as a period when existing risk factors may become more apparent or begin to accelerate.

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Prevention should begin before menopause

The menopausal transition provides an excellent opportunity for a cardiovascular “health audit.”

Know your numbers. Blood pressure, fasting glucose or HbA1c, lipid profile and weight/waist circumference should be assessed according to individual risk. A woman with diabetes, hypertension, kidney disease, premature menopause or a strong family history of premature coronary disease may require more intensive assessment.

Keep moving. Regular aerobic activity combined with resistance training is particularly valuable. Brisk walking, cycling, swimming or similar activities can be complemented by strength training two or more times a week. Physical activity helps control blood pressure, glucose, weight and cholesterol while preserving muscle mass.

Pay attention to diet. A heart-healthy dietary pattern should emphasise vegetables, fruits, legumes, whole grains, nuts, seeds and appropriate sources of protein, while limiting highly processed foods, excess sugar, refined carbohydrates, trans fats and excessive salt. Alcohol should be limited.

Do not smoke. Smoking substantially increases cardiovascular risk, and stopping at any age provides meaningful benefit.

Protect sleep and manage stress. Insomnia and night sweats are common during perimenopause, but persistent sleep deprivation can adversely affect blood pressure, glucose regulation, appetite and overall cardiovascular health. Treating significant sleep problems is therefore part of cardiovascular prevention—not simply improving.

Menopausal hormone therapy (MHT) should not be viewed as a treatment for preventing heart attacks. Its cardiovascular effects depend on factors such as age, timing relative to menopause, the formulation used, route of administration and a woman’s underlying cardiovascular and thrombotic risk.

For women with troublesome menopausal symptoms, the decision about MHT should therefore be individualised after discussing benefits, risks and alternatives with an appropriately qualified clinician. Hormone therapy should not be started solely for cardiovascular protection.

A new perspective on menopause

Perhaps the most important message is that perimenopause should not be regarded simply as a collection of symptoms to be endured. It is also an opportunity to identify cardiovascular risk.

The hormonal transition is natural. Cardiovascular disease is not inevitable. Recognising this window as an opportunity for prevention can help women enter the postmenopausal years with a healthier heart—and with a clearer understanding that caring for cardiovascular health is an essential part of healthy ageing.