Some days my brain is like a storm, thoughts moving faster than I can keep up. A small mistake becomes an catastrophe, an offhand remark becomes a soul-deep fear. I turn around and around, analyzing each word, every move, every potentiality. But then, I discovered recently this easy 20-second hack which was actually pretty straightforward but made a tremendous difference in the negative thinking. Quickly [sitting my hand on my heart and reminding myself, I am enough. Even just that small hesitation interrupts the madness. My breath slows, my shoulders ease, and for a moment, the hurricane calms. This practice over time has become my anchor, reminding me that I am not thoughts—I am so much more.

Researchers at the University of California, Berkeley, have discovered that it doesn't need to take long to practice self-compassion to be beneficial. The study, published in the Behaviour Research and Therapy journal, revealed that performing a 20-second self-compassion touch, such as putting a hand on your heart or belly, can greatly reduce levels of stress and anxiety.

According to psychology researcher Eli Susman, who co-authored the study, a group of 135 college students was asked to dedicate just 20 seconds a day to affirm themselves with kind and positive thoughts while engaging in a self-compassionate touch. The results were striking: those who consistently practiced this simple technique over a month experienced notable improvements in mood, self-compassion, and emotional resilience, while stress hormone levels decreased.

Why 20 Seconds of Self-Compassion Works

1. Decrease in Cortisol Levels

The stress hormone cortisol is the cause of much of the physical and emotional damage chronic stress inflicts on the body. The researchers discovered that a mere 20 seconds of self-compassionate touch resulted in a measurable drop in cortisol, allowing people to recover from stress more rapidly.

2. Better Emotional Well-Being

By practicing positive self-affirmation and empathetic touch, study participants reported greater emotional equanimity and reduced reactivity to stressful challenges.

3. A Simple, Accessible Practice

Unlike many conventional mindfulness practices that might demand lengthy meditation sessions, this micropractice requires only 20 seconds, rendering it simple to fit into daily activities, be it at home, the workplace, or even during public transport rides.

How to Practice Self-Compassionate Touch

This exercise is very easy and can be done anywhere. Here's how you can adapt it to your daily life:

Step 1: Recognize Your Emotions

Close your eyes and reflect on a recent experience that made you feel stressed, unworthy, or critical of yourself. Notice the sensations in your body as you reflect on this episode.

Step 2: Practice a Soothing Touch

Put one hand on your heart and the other on your belly. If this doesn't feel comfortable to you, you can experiment with other ways of self-compassionate touching, including:

Stroking the back of your neck

Rubbing a place on your palm with your thumb

Hugging yourself lightly by holding your arms in across your chest

Step 3: Breathe Deeply and Give Yourself Kindness

Take a slow, deep breath in. Feel the warmth and gentle pressure of your hands. As you exhale, focus on releasing tension. Now, in your mind, repeat self-compassionate affirmations such as:

“I am kind to myself.”

“I am not my mistakes.”

“I give myself room and comfort.”

“I celebrate my uniqueness.”

“I take this time to appreciate who I am.”

Step 4: Finish with a Sense of Gratitude

Open your eyes after 20 seconds and simply take a moment to admire yourself for taking the time to do this practice. You can repeat it as many times as you need throughout the day.

Susman calls this approach a "micropractice"—a tiny but effective habit that enhances mental health without taking up much time. These practices are based on classic mindfulness and meditation practices but are tailored to fit today's busy lives.

While the research was conducted with college students, the findings have applications for individuals of all ages. Whether you are a working professional with a packed schedule, a parent with numerous responsibilities, or an individual dealing with anxiety, adding a 20-second self-compassion exercise to your daily routine can be a convenient and effective method for managing stress and developing resilience.

Making It a Daily Habit

The secret to reaping the rewards of self-compassionate touch is consistency. Below are some ways to incorporate it into your daily life:

Begin your day by practicing self-compassion in bed before rising.

Utilize it as a fast tool during stressful situations at work or school.

Unwind by doing this micropractice before bedtime to relax.

May merely 20 seconds a day cause you to desist from spinning? The short answer, per the most up-to-date science, is that yes, it can. Micropractices for self-compassion provide a straightforward, research-supported means for lessening distress, enhancing emotional resilience, and cultivating a friendlier relationship with oneself.

In a world where stress and worry are escalating, this simple practice is a good reminder that simple, purposeful acts of care for ourselves have the ability to create tremendous transformations in our mindset. Why not give it a try for one month, you might find a surprising transformation.

I've spent over three decades treating heart disease, and in that time, I've seen the same misunderstanding come up again and again, across different patients, different generations, different backgrounds. It's the one that delays diagnosis more than any other. Ask most people what menopause changes, and they'll talk about hot flashes, mood swings, or sleep. Ask me, and I'll tell you it changes something just as important: a woman's heart.

I believe menopause should be treated as a cardiovascular milestone, not just a reproductive one. We talk to women a great deal about bone density, hormonal symptoms, and fertility. We talk far less about what's happening quietly inside their arteries during this same period. That gap in the conversation is costing us early diagnoses. In some cases, it's costing lives.

How Estrogen Protects The Heart?

To understand why, it helps to look at what protects a woman's heart in the first place. For most of her reproductive years, estrogen acts almost like a quiet guardian in the background, keeping the endothelium — the inner lining of blood vessels — working well, and supporting the release of nitric oxide, which helps arteries stay relaxed and open. This is a big reason heart attacks are fairly uncommon in women before menopause, compared to men of a similar age.

Menopause takes that buffer away, slowly, not all at once. The shift usually starts during perimenopause, often well before periods actually stop. LDL, the harmful cholesterol, tends to rise; HDL, the protective kind, often falls. Blood pressure that used to be easy to control starts creeping higher. Arteries stiffen, insulin resistance sets in, and fat tends to shift toward the belly, carrying its own inflammatory effect on blood vessels. None of this feels dramatic on any single day. It just builds, quietly, year after year — enough that by ten to fifteen years past menopause, a woman's heart risk has often caught up to, and sometimes overtaken, a man's of the same age.

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Ageing & Menopause: A Double Impact

Some argue this is simply age catching up, and that menopause gets blamed unfairly. There's truth in that — age alone stiffens arteries in everyone. But in my experience, losing estrogen compresses those changes into a much shorter stretch of time. It isn't one factor or the other; it's ageing, sped up by a hormonal shift arriving right in the middle of life.

That said, menopause alone doesn't determine a woman's future with heart disease. It sets the stage, but daily habits decide how the story plays out. Smoking, inactivity, weight around the middle, a diet heavy in processed food, unchecked blood pressure and blood sugar, chronic stress, poor sleep, and skipped check-ups all add their share. The reassuring part is that nearly everything on that list can be changed. I've watched patients shift their own trajectory with fairly ordinary steps — walking regularly, eating simply, sleeping better, getting basic tests done once a year.

Also read: Mood Swings, Anxiety & Brain Fog During Menopause? Expert Recommends Looking Beyond Hot Flashes

Heart Symptoms Women Should Never Ignore

What troubles me most in practice is how often real cardiac symptoms get mistaken for "just menopause." Chest pressure rather than sharp pain. New breathlessness during simple activity. Fatigue that doesn't lift with rest. Pain in the jaw, upper back, or between the shoulder blades instead of the classic left-arm pain. Palpitations that don't settle. A few months ago, a woman in her early fifties came to me convinced she had acidity — tightness in the chest, breathlessness on stairs, an occasional fluttering heartbeat. An angiogram showed a significant coronary blockage. "I thought heart problems were a man's disease," she told me. I hear some version of that sentence often, and it worries me every time.

My advice to patients is simple: perimenopause is the right time for an honest conversation with a doctor about the heart, not after something has gone wrong. That means a blood pressure check, a proper lipid profile, blood sugar and HbA1c testing, and a baseline ECG — with an echocardiogram, stress test, or coronary calcium score for those with added risk factors.

Menopause changes a great deal about a woman's body. Her heart is one of those things, whether she's thinking about it or not. Don't wait for a scare to start the conversation. Start it now, while there's still so much you can do.

For decades, many cancer patients in India have lived with a frightening belief — that a biopsy can make cancer spread. This misconception continues to delay diagnosis, often costing patients the opportunity for timely treatment. This is one of the most common fears I encounter in clinic.

Almost every week, someone tells me, 'Doctor, if you cut it, it will spread.' Families repeat it, neighbors reinforce it, and patients postpone the test. Actually, this concern is linked to a genuine scientific phenomenon known as needle-tract seeding. These phenomena suggest that a few tumor cells may be displaced along the path of the biopsy needle.

However, this event is extremely uncommon and should not be confused with cancer spreading. Seeding is not the same as spreading. A few displaced cells sitting in a needle track are not a metastasis.

Published studies estimate the risk of needle-tract seeding to be extremely low. A 2015 systematic review reported the overall incidence to be below one percent, while more recent reviews, including a 2024 analysis of breast needle biopsy, found no evidence that diagnostic biopsies increase cancer recurrence or reduce long-term survival.

If tumor cells are displaced during a biopsy, they are usually removed when the tumor is surgically excised. In many cases, radiotherapy, systemic treatment and the body's own immune system also eliminate these cells.

In many tier-two and tier-three cities, it takes two to three weeks to reach final report to the treating doctor. During that period, the untreated cancer continues to grow naturally. The patient does not see natural history. He sees cause and effect. The biopsy happened; the lesion grew. The conclusion writes itself — and it is wrong. This delay unintentionally reinforces the misconception that the biopsy triggered the growth, when in reality the cancer was progressing on its own.

At the same time, every tissue injury, including a biopsy, activates the body's wound-healing response, leading to inflammation and new blood vessel formation. Laboratory and animal studies suggest that this temporary inflammatory environment may favor tumor cells. However, these findings have not translated into poorer outcomes for patients. So, the fear is not irrational. It is simply misdirected, and it is mis proportioned.

The diagnosis is not the danger. The delay is. Biopsy helps precision oncology. It helps deciding the treatment approach. Without this we would be treating in the dark.

The consequences of delaying diagnosis are serious. Patients of oral cancer diagnosed while the disease is still localized have a five-year survival rate of nearly 79 per cent. Once the cancer spreads to distant organs, survival drops to around 19 per cent. Unfortunately, nearly two-thirds of oral cancer patients in India are still diagnosed at an advanced stage.

A UK woman has claimed that Wegovy and Mounjaro, the blockbuster GLP-1 weight-loss drugs from Novo Nordisk and Eli Lilly, did not help her lose much weight despite more than a year of treatment.

Karen Lay, 56, from Essex, spent £4,000 on the medications, hoping they would help her slim down from 16 stone (224 pounds). However, after 15 months, she lost less than a stone, despite eating very little.

Lay now says the injections were far from a "magic fix" and credits a structured diet for helping her lose two stone, the Daily Mail reported.

Started Wegovy, Mounjaro Out of 'Sheer Desperation'

Lay began taking Wegovy in late 2023 after trying several diets without success. She remained on the medication for nine months, even though she felt something "wasn't right."

“My appetite reduced slightly at first,” Lay, a financial services worker, was quoted as saying. “But not enough to make a meaningful difference, so I increased the dosage each month.”

After seeing limited results with Wegovy, Lay stopped the medication for four weeks before switching to Mounjaro. She described the transition period as experiencing the "worst food noise" and said she gained more than seven pounds while waiting for the first drug to clear from her system.

Lay then spent six months on Mounjaro but said she was "barely eating" and still failed to achieve the weight loss she expected.

“I only lost seven pounds,” she said. “I realised the injections simply weren't effective for me and something had to change.”

Her doctor eventually advised her to stop taking the medication because they were concerned she was not eating enough, the report said.

Lay said the experience was “emotionally exhausting and honestly quite soul-destroying,” and "deeply disheartening.” Watching others succeed on the drugs made it even harder.

Switched to Diet Instead

After discontinuing the injections, Lay adopted a very low-calorie diet with support from expert nutrition advisers who provided personalized guidance.

“Once the medication was fully out of my system, I began to feel genuinely better,” Lay said, adding that her “energy returned, digestion improved, and the constipation disappeared.”

Within a year, she went from a dress size 18 to size 12, the smallest she had been in 17 years, with her weight falling to 13 stone 5 pounds, the report said.

Non-responders To GLP-1 Drugs

Clinical trials have shown that most people taking these medications experience substantial weight loss.

• Wegovy: Average weight loss of about 21% after 72 weeks.
• Mounjaro: Average weight loss of about 22.5% over a similar period.

Around 2.5 million adults in the UK are estimated to be using weight-loss injections, while hundreds of thousands have signed up for the newly approved Wegovy pill, which was rolled out by the NHS this month.

But some people are 'non-responders', meaning they do not lose a meaningful amount of weight despite treatment. Research earlier this year found that around one in 10 people taking GLP-1 medications are considered non-responders.

Why Weight-Loss Drugs May Not Work For All

Although GLP-1 receptor agonists have delivered remarkable results for many people, they do not work the same way for everyone. Obesity is a complex condition influenced by brain signaling, hormones, genetics, and metabolism, meaning treatment responses can vary significantly. Possible reasons include:

• Genetic and hormonal variability
• Underlying medical conditions
• Unrealistic expectations about weight-loss outcomes

• Switching to another GLP-1 medication
• Using older, approved weight-loss medications
• Structured lifestyle changes involving diet and physical activity
• Comprehensive medical management of obesity tailored to the individual.