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Some days my brain is like a storm, thoughts moving faster than I can keep up. A small mistake becomes an catastrophe, an offhand remark becomes a soul-deep fear. I turn around and around, analyzing each word, every move, every potentiality. But then, I discovered recently this easy 20-second hack which was actually pretty straightforward but made a tremendous difference in the negative thinking. Quickly [sitting my hand on my heart and reminding myself, I am enough. Even just that small hesitation interrupts the madness. My breath slows, my shoulders ease, and for a moment, the hurricane calms. This practice over time has become my anchor, reminding me that I am not thoughts—I am so much more.
Researchers at the University of California, Berkeley, have discovered that it doesn't need to take long to practice self-compassion to be beneficial. The study, published in the Behaviour Research and Therapy journal, revealed that performing a 20-second self-compassion touch, such as putting a hand on your heart or belly, can greatly reduce levels of stress and anxiety.
According to psychology researcher Eli Susman, who co-authored the study, a group of 135 college students was asked to dedicate just 20 seconds a day to affirm themselves with kind and positive thoughts while engaging in a self-compassionate touch. The results were striking: those who consistently practiced this simple technique over a month experienced notable improvements in mood, self-compassion, and emotional resilience, while stress hormone levels decreased.
Why 20 Seconds of Self-Compassion Works
1. Decrease in Cortisol Levels
The stress hormone cortisol is the cause of much of the physical and emotional damage chronic stress inflicts on the body. The researchers discovered that a mere 20 seconds of self-compassionate touch resulted in a measurable drop in cortisol, allowing people to recover from stress more rapidly.
2. Better Emotional Well-Being
By practicing positive self-affirmation and empathetic touch, study participants reported greater emotional equanimity and reduced reactivity to stressful challenges.
3. A Simple, Accessible Practice
Unlike many conventional mindfulness practices that might demand lengthy meditation sessions, this micropractice requires only 20 seconds, rendering it simple to fit into daily activities, be it at home, the workplace, or even during public transport rides.
How to Practice Self-Compassionate Touch
This exercise is very easy and can be done anywhere. Here's how you can adapt it to your daily life:
Step 1: Recognize Your Emotions
Close your eyes and reflect on a recent experience that made you feel stressed, unworthy, or critical of yourself. Notice the sensations in your body as you reflect on this episode.
Step 2: Practice a Soothing Touch
Put one hand on your heart and the other on your belly. If this doesn't feel comfortable to you, you can experiment with other ways of self-compassionate touching, including:
Stroking the back of your neck
Rubbing a place on your palm with your thumb
Hugging yourself lightly by holding your arms in across your chest
Step 3: Breathe Deeply and Give Yourself Kindness
Take a slow, deep breath in. Feel the warmth and gentle pressure of your hands. As you exhale, focus on releasing tension. Now, in your mind, repeat self-compassionate affirmations such as:
“I am kind to myself.”
“I am not my mistakes.”
“I give myself room and comfort.”
“I celebrate my uniqueness.”
“I take this time to appreciate who I am.”
Step 4: Finish with a Sense of Gratitude
Open your eyes after 20 seconds and simply take a moment to admire yourself for taking the time to do this practice. You can repeat it as many times as you need throughout the day.
Susman calls this approach a "micropractice"—a tiny but effective habit that enhances mental health without taking up much time. These practices are based on classic mindfulness and meditation practices but are tailored to fit today's busy lives.
While the research was conducted with college students, the findings have applications for individuals of all ages. Whether you are a working professional with a packed schedule, a parent with numerous responsibilities, or an individual dealing with anxiety, adding a 20-second self-compassion exercise to your daily routine can be a convenient and effective method for managing stress and developing resilience.
Making It a Daily Habit
The secret to reaping the rewards of self-compassionate touch is consistency. Below are some ways to incorporate it into your daily life:
Begin your day by practicing self-compassion in bed before rising.
Utilize it as a fast tool during stressful situations at work or school.
Unwind by doing this micropractice before bedtime to relax.
May merely 20 seconds a day cause you to desist from spinning? The short answer, per the most up-to-date science, is that yes, it can. Micropractices for self-compassion provide a straightforward, research-supported means for lessening distress, enhancing emotional resilience, and cultivating a friendlier relationship with oneself.
In a world where stress and worry are escalating, this simple practice is a good reminder that simple, purposeful acts of care for ourselves have the ability to create tremendous transformations in our mindset. Why not give it a try for one month, you might find a surprising transformation.
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Scientists have found that a single dose of the shingles vaccine may do more than protect against the painful viral infection. It may also help slow biological ageing in older adults. Researchers from the University of Southern California say the vaccine, commonly given to seniors, could have benefits beyond shingles prevention. The findings come from a study involving over 3,800 people, which showed that vaccinated individuals had fewer signs of biological ageing and lower inflammation levels than those who had not received the shot.
Shingles is a viral condition known for causing a painful, blistering rash. It can appear on different parts of the body but usually shows up as a band of blisters running along one side of the torso. The infection is caused by the varicella-zoster virus, the same virus responsible for chickenpox. Even after recovery from chickenpox, the virus remains dormant in the body and can reactivate years later as shingles, according to the Cleveland Clinic.
While shingles is not usually life-threatening, it can be extremely uncomfortable. Vaccination significantly reduces the risk of developing shingles. Starting treatment early can shorten the duration of the illness and lower the risk of complications. One of the most common complications is postherpetic neuralgia, a condition where nerve pain continues long after the rash has healed.
A recent study by the University of Southern California suggests that the shingles vaccine recommended for older adults may help slow down ageing at a biological level, in addition to preventing infection. “While more research is needed to confirm and expand on these results … our findings add to growing evidence that vaccines may support healthy ageing, not just prevent short-term illness,” said Eileen Crimmins, a co-author of the study, in a statement. To explore this further, Crimmins and her team focused on people who had received the shingles vaccine.
Although chickenpox is now uncommon in children, with cases dropping by over 97 percent since the vaccine became part of routine childhood immunisation in 1995, more than 95 percent of adults in the US were infected before that change, according to the CDC. At present, around one million Americans develop shingles every year.
Health authorities recommend that adults aged 50 and above receive two doses of the shingles vaccine. This not only lowers the risk of infection but also reduces the chances of postherpetic neuralgia, a lingering nerve pain that can persist for months or even years after the rash disappears.
The researchers analysed data from more than 3,800 adults aged 70 and older, using information from the nationally representative US Health and Retirement Study. Blood samples were examined to assess seven different indicators of biological ageing.
Unlike chronological age, which simply counts years lived, biological ageing reflects how well the body’s organs and systems are functioning over time.
Results showed that vaccinated participants had noticeably lower levels of inflammation, a key factor linked to age-related conditions such as heart disease, frailty, and cognitive decline.
“By reducing this ongoing inflammation, possibly by stopping reactivation of the shingles virus, the vaccine may help support healthier ageing,” explained Jung Ki Kim, the study’s lead author.
“Although the exact biological processes are still unclear, the vaccine’s ability to lower inflammation makes it a promising tool in broader efforts to slow age-related decline and improve resilience,” she added.
The study also found that vaccinated individuals experienced slower changes in how genes are switched on and off, and in how genetic instructions are translated into proteins. These processes are known as epigenetic and transcriptomic ageing and are considered important markers of biological ageing.
When all seven ageing measures were combined into a single biological ageing score, those who had received the vaccine showed slower ageing overall compared with people who had not been vaccinated.
An image collage containing three visuals shows a gloved hand drawing blood into a tube, a longevity test kit with a swab and vial placed on an orange surface, and a screenshot of longevity test results displaying a bar chart of 117 biomarkers and a biological age of 29.3 years, which is 13.5 years younger than the actual age.
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The findings build on earlier research that has linked adult vaccinations, including shingles and flu shots, to a lower risk of dementia and other neurodegenerative conditions such as Parkinson’s disease.
“This research strengthens the idea that vaccines may help promote healthy ageing by influencing biological systems beyond infection control,” said Kim, who is also a research associate professor of gerontology at USC.
Importantly, the benefits appeared to last. Even participants who had received the shingles vaccine four or more years before their blood samples were taken still showed slower epigenetic, transcriptomic, and overall biological ageing compared to those who had not been vaccinated.
“These results suggest that shingles vaccination affects key processes associated with ageing,” said Crimmins, who is a USC University Professor and AARP Professor of Gerontology.
If future research confirms these findings, it could offer Americans another reason to get vaccinated and help improve vaccination rates, which remain low. Despite a rise during the pandemic period, only 30.1 percent of eligible Americans had received the shingles vaccine as of 2022.
The study highlights the potential for common vaccines to do more than prevent disease. They could play a significant role in promoting resilience, lowering inflammation, and supporting healthier ageing, especially in older adults.
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Experts have urged people to keep an eye on their fingernails, as unusual changes might point to underlying health problems. According to specialists, certain nail colours could indicate the risk of severe illnesses. While some changes may be harmless, specific colour alterations could require medical attention. The American Academy of Dermatology Association (AAD) has outlined concerning nail symptoms on its website.
The organisation stated: "Have you noticed a change to any of your nails lately? A change in colour, texture, or shape can be harmless, but it can also be a sign of disease. If you notice any of the following changes to a fingernail or toenail, it's time to see a board-certified dermatologist."
Based on this advice, AAD specialists recommend watching for these nail colours:
They explained: "Nail colour changes can sometimes reflect conditions inside the body. Certain shades may serve as warning signs for specific diseases."
The AAD points out that nails turning white may be a sign of liver disease or diabetes. In liver disease, this is particularly likely in people with cirrhosis, the most advanced stage of the condition.
However, nails can naturally become whiter with age. Still, it is recommended to have any noticeable changes checked by a healthcare professional.
Nails that appear half pink and half white may indicate kidney problems. The AAD describes this pattern as “a white colour on the upper part of one or more nails and a normal to reddish-brown colour below.”
Yellow Nails: Could Signal Lung or Circulatory Issues
Yellowing of the nails may be linked to lung disease and could reflect problems in the circulatory or lymphatic systems.
"When these systems don’t function properly, fluid can accumulate in the soft tissues beneath the skin, causing nails to turn yellow," explains the Cleveland Clinic. That said, yellow nails can also result from fungal infections or smoking.
The AAD warns that a new or changing dark streak under a nail could indicate cancer, particularly melanoma, which is the most dangerous form of skin cancer. The NHS also advises seeing a GP if “you have a dark area under a nail that has not been caused by an injury.”
Noticing a dark patch beneath your nail may point to skin cancer. Experts recommend visiting a GP as soon as possible if this occurs.
Additional nail colours that may indicate health issues, according to the AAD, include:
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Many in their late 30s and early 40s find themselves Googling weird stuff, including 'why am I having a tingling feelin in my arm?' 'why do I feel like something is brushing across my arm?', and more. This is what many call a phantom feeling arm, which means there is nothing actually tickling, but you feel it anyway. Medically, it is known as paresthesia, a tingling feeling or numb sensation, usually what people refer to as the pins and needles sensation. This is caused by temporary pressure on a nerve or any underlying nerve damage issue.
If you look up anything like that, many women claimed, it instantly shows: perimenopause.
Despite an increased awareness around it, perimenopause and menopause still remain a taboo. In a survey, it was found that 54 per cent of women were concerned about the uncertainty they are about to face in their perimenopause and menopause period.
Menopause is not just hot flashes, it is much more than that. Dr Mahima Gulati, an endocrinologist at UConn Health points out symptoms like gaining weight despite "doing everything right", brain fog, aching joints, sleepless nights, exhausting days, and depleted energy. She says "These symptoms are real. This is not something women are imagining, and it is not just aging. There are real biological changes happening, and women deserve evidence based care and support as they move through them."
Before going into the solution, let us first understand what these term really mean.
Perimenopause: It is the period when a menstruator transitions to menopause, or when the period stops permanently. This phase is characterized by fluctuating hormone levels, irregular periods, which could be shorter, longer, heavier, or lighter, hot flashes, sleep problems and mood changes.
Menopause: This is the natural, permanent end of menstruation defined as 12 consecutive months without a period. This typically occurs between ages 45 to 55.
“For women to sit in a room and realize they are not alone is incredibly therapeutic. Connection itself reduces the burden of chronic conditions,” points out Dr Gulati.
The doctor points out that women often learn from each others’ experience and this is why social connections are extremely important in this time.
Sleep problems are one of the most common and exhausting symptoms of perimenopause and menopause. Hormonal changes can disrupt deep sleep, causing women to wake up in the early hours, deal with night sweats, and struggle to fall back asleep. When this happens regularly, it leads to severe energy drain, not just tiredness.
To improve sleep, Gulati focuses on simple, practical habits. These include keeping a regular sleep schedule, avoiding caffeine and alcohol in the evening, reducing screen time after 7 p.m., keeping phones out of the bedroom, and practicing calming activities like yoga or meditation. Drinking enough water during the day can also help regulate body temperature at night and reduce hot flashes.

Instead of trying to eliminate stress, which is often unrealistic, Gulati encourages women to change how they respond to it. Stress is treated as a signal to reassess priorities, set boundaries, and ask for support when needed. This shift helps build resilience and prevents burnout.
Physical activity becomes especially important in midlife, but it’s not just about workouts. Strength training helps protect muscles and bones, while regular movement throughout the day, balance exercises, and flexibility work support long-term health. Reducing long sitting hours is just as important as planned exercise.
Gulati also advises cutting back on alcohol and avoiding tobacco. After menopause, alcohol can worsen sleep, increase belly fat, and raise the risk of conditions like breast cancer and osteoporosis. Limiting late-night screen use can further improve sleep quality.
Nutrition is another key focus. Rather than aiming for perfection, Gulati encourages small, steady improvements like eating more vegetables and protein, staying hydrated, and choosing foods that may ease menopausal symptoms. The goal is better energy, sleep, and overall health, not just weight loss.
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