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Some days my brain is like a storm, thoughts moving faster than I can keep up. A small mistake becomes an catastrophe, an offhand remark becomes a soul-deep fear. I turn around and around, analyzing each word, every move, every potentiality. But then, I discovered recently this easy 20-second hack which was actually pretty straightforward but made a tremendous difference in the negative thinking. Quickly [sitting my hand on my heart and reminding myself, I am enough. Even just that small hesitation interrupts the madness. My breath slows, my shoulders ease, and for a moment, the hurricane calms. This practice over time has become my anchor, reminding me that I am not thoughts—I am so much more.
Researchers at the University of California, Berkeley, have discovered that it doesn't need to take long to practice self-compassion to be beneficial. The study, published in the Behaviour Research and Therapy journal, revealed that performing a 20-second self-compassion touch, such as putting a hand on your heart or belly, can greatly reduce levels of stress and anxiety.
According to psychology researcher Eli Susman, who co-authored the study, a group of 135 college students was asked to dedicate just 20 seconds a day to affirm themselves with kind and positive thoughts while engaging in a self-compassionate touch. The results were striking: those who consistently practiced this simple technique over a month experienced notable improvements in mood, self-compassion, and emotional resilience, while stress hormone levels decreased.
Why 20 Seconds of Self-Compassion Works
1. Decrease in Cortisol Levels
The stress hormone cortisol is the cause of much of the physical and emotional damage chronic stress inflicts on the body. The researchers discovered that a mere 20 seconds of self-compassionate touch resulted in a measurable drop in cortisol, allowing people to recover from stress more rapidly.
2. Better Emotional Well-Being
By practicing positive self-affirmation and empathetic touch, study participants reported greater emotional equanimity and reduced reactivity to stressful challenges.
3. A Simple, Accessible Practice
Unlike many conventional mindfulness practices that might demand lengthy meditation sessions, this micropractice requires only 20 seconds, rendering it simple to fit into daily activities, be it at home, the workplace, or even during public transport rides.
How to Practice Self-Compassionate Touch
This exercise is very easy and can be done anywhere. Here's how you can adapt it to your daily life:
Step 1: Recognize Your Emotions
Close your eyes and reflect on a recent experience that made you feel stressed, unworthy, or critical of yourself. Notice the sensations in your body as you reflect on this episode.
Step 2: Practice a Soothing Touch
Put one hand on your heart and the other on your belly. If this doesn't feel comfortable to you, you can experiment with other ways of self-compassionate touching, including:
Stroking the back of your neck
Rubbing a place on your palm with your thumb
Hugging yourself lightly by holding your arms in across your chest
Step 3: Breathe Deeply and Give Yourself Kindness
Take a slow, deep breath in. Feel the warmth and gentle pressure of your hands. As you exhale, focus on releasing tension. Now, in your mind, repeat self-compassionate affirmations such as:
“I am kind to myself.”
“I am not my mistakes.”
“I give myself room and comfort.”
“I celebrate my uniqueness.”
“I take this time to appreciate who I am.”
Step 4: Finish with a Sense of Gratitude
Open your eyes after 20 seconds and simply take a moment to admire yourself for taking the time to do this practice. You can repeat it as many times as you need throughout the day.
Susman calls this approach a "micropractice"—a tiny but effective habit that enhances mental health without taking up much time. These practices are based on classic mindfulness and meditation practices but are tailored to fit today's busy lives.
While the research was conducted with college students, the findings have applications for individuals of all ages. Whether you are a working professional with a packed schedule, a parent with numerous responsibilities, or an individual dealing with anxiety, adding a 20-second self-compassion exercise to your daily routine can be a convenient and effective method for managing stress and developing resilience.
Making It a Daily Habit
The secret to reaping the rewards of self-compassionate touch is consistency. Below are some ways to incorporate it into your daily life:
Begin your day by practicing self-compassion in bed before rising.
Utilize it as a fast tool during stressful situations at work or school.
Unwind by doing this micropractice before bedtime to relax.
May merely 20 seconds a day cause you to desist from spinning? The short answer, per the most up-to-date science, is that yes, it can. Micropractices for self-compassion provide a straightforward, research-supported means for lessening distress, enhancing emotional resilience, and cultivating a friendlier relationship with oneself.
In a world where stress and worry are escalating, this simple practice is a good reminder that simple, purposeful acts of care for ourselves have the ability to create tremendous transformations in our mindset. Why not give it a try for one month, you might find a surprising transformation.
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Consuming enough water each day plays an important role in keeping the body working as it should. It helps digestion and metabolism, supports temperature control, aids waste removal, and keeps organs and tissues in good condition. Still, whenever blood pressure rises, many people look for quick fixes, and one of the most common questions is whether drinking cold water can calm the numbers.
The idea sounds straightforward, but the body reacts to cold in more layered ways. Knowing how cold water influences the heart and blood vessels can help separate fact from assumption. To understand this better, we spoke with Dr Rajeev Chowdry, Director of Internal Medicine at Yatharth Super Speciality Hospital, Sector 20, Faridabad.
Cold water may bring down blood pressure for a brief period. Drinking chilled water can activate the vagus nerve in some individuals, which slows the heart rate and leads to a short-lived drop in blood pressure. The body also triggers a “diving reflex” when exposed to cold, such as splashing cold water on the face, and this can cause a similar short-term response.
Dr Rajeev explained, “Cold water may lower blood pressure for a small amount of time, but not enough to replace someone’s prescribed treatment for hypertension or to be trusted as a method to manage the condition.” He added that for certain people, cold exposure might have the opposite effect, causing blood vessels to tighten and raising blood pressure instead.
According to Dr Rajeev, some groups are more vulnerable to a rise in blood pressure, added strain on the heart, or other problems linked to sudden cold exposure:
In summary, while water alone will not manage high blood pressure, staying well hydrated supports overall health and may contribute to better long-term blood pressure control. Anyone making changes to their routine should check with a healthcare professional, especially those already dealing with medical conditions or concerns about their blood pressure.
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Air pollution is now recognised as a major trigger for skin problems. Dust, smoke residues, PM2.5 particles, and heavy metals settle on the skin through the day. They weaken the barrier, disturb the skin’s balance, and speed up signs of ageing. People living in crowded, high-traffic areas often notice dullness, pigmentation, breakouts, and sensitivity more than those in cleaner environments.
Two skin specialists helped us understand the early warning signs you should never overlook.
Pollutants oxidise the skin’s natural lipids and damage its protective layer. This makes the face look tired and lifeless even when sleep and nutrition are well balanced. Many people notice a loss of glow on days spent outdoors, especially during peak pollution periods., as per Dr Geeta Grewal, Cosmetologist and Founder of 9Muses Wellness Clinic
Dr Grewal notes that PM2.5 particles slip into pores and mix with sweat and sebum. This leads to blackheads, whiteheads, and congested skin. A rough, bumpy texture is one of the most common pollution-related concerns.
Rising pollution levels increase inflammation and oxidative stress, which disrupts the skin’s microbiome. These changes can bring tiny breakouts, fungal acne-like clusters, or painful pimples. Environmental irritants often act as hidden triggers, especially in urban areas.
Constant oxidative stress encourages the skin to produce more melanin. According to Dr Grewal, this results in dark spots, sun spots appearing sooner, and patchy pigmentation along the cheeks, nose, and forehead. Many people mistake this for sun damage alone, but pollution plays a major role.
If skincare products that once felt comfortable now sting or cause redness, pollution may be weakening your skin barrier. Warning signs include burning, itching, a warm sensation on the skin, or sudden irritation without a clear cause, as per Dr Ameesha Mahajan, Cosmetic Dermatologist and Founder, Eden Skin Clinic.
6. Early Fine Lines and Premature Ageing
Dr Mahajan explains that pollutants trigger free radical damage. This breaks down collagen and elastin, the proteins that keep skin firm and smooth. Over time, it leads to wrinkles, crow’s feet, and mild sagging around the eyes and mouth.
Pollutants strip moisture and damage the barrier, causing tightness and flakiness even in people with oily skin. When the barrier is compromised, moisturisers stop working as well, which worsens dehydration.
People with sensitive skin conditions such as eczema, psoriasis, or rosacea may notice more flare-ups when pollution rises. Dr Mahajan says that constant exposure can lead to rashes, bumps, and patchy irritation that keeps returning.
Avoiding pollution entirely is difficult, but protecting your skin is possible. Strengthen the barrier with antioxidants, sunscreen, gentle cleansers, and weekly detox habits. Watch for the early warning signs mentioned by the experts and act early. A strong skin barrier remains the most reliable way to maintain clear, healthy, and youthful skin despite rising pollution levels.
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Male infertility remains a topic rarely discussed, often overshadowed by social pressures and hesitation. Yet, it contributes to nearly half of all cases where couples struggle to conceive. Among the many causes, varicocele stands out as one of the most silent and underrecognised conditions, affecting a significant number of men in India.
With male reproductive health still a taboo, countless men remain unaware of their condition for years. Fertility tests often reveal the issue only after prolonged delays, adding emotional stress for couples. We got in touch with Dr. Suparna Bhattacharya, Fertility Specialist, Nova IVF Fertility, Kolkata, who told us more about the same.
A varicocele occurs when the veins in the scrotum become enlarged, similar to varicose veins in the legs. These weakened, dilated veins disrupt blood flow to the testicles, causing a gradual rise in temperature that negatively affects sperm production and quality. Most men experience no pain, which is why the condition is often undetected, earning it the label of a “silent” problem. In many cases, it is discovered only during routine infertility evaluations.
Varicocele is particularly concerning because it often goes untreated, leading to more serious reproductive consequences. Dr. Suparna Bhattacharya said, “The condition may not produce noticeable symptoms—no pain, no swelling—yet internally, impaired blood flow and heat buildup gradually reduce sperm count, motility, and quality. Research shows varicocele accounts for a large proportion of male infertility cases, and the condition is largely reversible if identified early.”
A lack of awareness, coupled with the common misconception that infertility is primarily a female issue, often delays evaluation of the male partner. Many men only undergo semen analysis or scrotal ultrasound after significant time has passed.
The encouraging news is that varicocele is one of the few male infertility issues that can be effectively treated with surgery. Varicocelectomy, the most common procedure, involves tying off the affected veins while preserving normal blood flow. This helps cool the scrotum and allows sperm production to return to healthier levels.
Dr. Suparna Bhattacharya told us that post-surgery, many men experience notable improvements in sperm count and motility within six months. For couples, this can mean natural conception without advanced fertility treatments. Correcting varicocele can also improve sperm DNA integrity, enhancing the success rates of procedures like IVF or ICSI.
Not all varicoceles require surgery, especially if mild or asymptomatic. However, undetected or significant varicoceles can progressively impair sperm quality and, in some cases, lead to testicular atrophy. Delayed diagnosis can reduce the likelihood of natural conception as men age.
Men who have been trying to conceive for over a year should undergo a comprehensive fertility check-up. A simple semen analysis and physical examination are often sufficient to detect most varicoceles. “Early intervention is crucial, particularly for those hoping for natural conception or planning to start a family,” said Dr. Suparna Bhattacharya
Promoting awareness about male reproductive health is just as important as educating women on fertility. Varicocele is a silent, yet easily treatable, condition. Timely diagnosis and treatment can restore fertility and reduce the emotional and financial strain on couples. The first step toward healthier, happier families is acknowledging the issue, seeking treatment, and discussing it openly.
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