Some days my brain is like a storm, thoughts moving faster than I can keep up. A small mistake becomes an catastrophe, an offhand remark becomes a soul-deep fear. I turn around and around, analyzing each word, every move, every potentiality. But then, I discovered recently this easy 20-second hack which was actually pretty straightforward but made a tremendous difference in the negative thinking. Quickly [sitting my hand on my heart and reminding myself, I am enough. Even just that small hesitation interrupts the madness. My breath slows, my shoulders ease, and for a moment, the hurricane calms. This practice over time has become my anchor, reminding me that I am not thoughts—I am so much more.

Researchers at the University of California, Berkeley, have discovered that it doesn't need to take long to practice self-compassion to be beneficial. The study, published in the Behaviour Research and Therapy journal, revealed that performing a 20-second self-compassion touch, such as putting a hand on your heart or belly, can greatly reduce levels of stress and anxiety.

According to psychology researcher Eli Susman, who co-authored the study, a group of 135 college students was asked to dedicate just 20 seconds a day to affirm themselves with kind and positive thoughts while engaging in a self-compassionate touch. The results were striking: those who consistently practiced this simple technique over a month experienced notable improvements in mood, self-compassion, and emotional resilience, while stress hormone levels decreased.

Why 20 Seconds of Self-Compassion Works

1. Decrease in Cortisol Levels

The stress hormone cortisol is the cause of much of the physical and emotional damage chronic stress inflicts on the body. The researchers discovered that a mere 20 seconds of self-compassionate touch resulted in a measurable drop in cortisol, allowing people to recover from stress more rapidly.

2. Better Emotional Well-Being

By practicing positive self-affirmation and empathetic touch, study participants reported greater emotional equanimity and reduced reactivity to stressful challenges.

3. A Simple, Accessible Practice

Unlike many conventional mindfulness practices that might demand lengthy meditation sessions, this micropractice requires only 20 seconds, rendering it simple to fit into daily activities, be it at home, the workplace, or even during public transport rides.

How to Practice Self-Compassionate Touch

This exercise is very easy and can be done anywhere. Here's how you can adapt it to your daily life:

Step 1: Recognize Your Emotions

Close your eyes and reflect on a recent experience that made you feel stressed, unworthy, or critical of yourself. Notice the sensations in your body as you reflect on this episode.

Step 2: Practice a Soothing Touch

Put one hand on your heart and the other on your belly. If this doesn't feel comfortable to you, you can experiment with other ways of self-compassionate touching, including:

Stroking the back of your neck

Rubbing a place on your palm with your thumb

Hugging yourself lightly by holding your arms in across your chest

Step 3: Breathe Deeply and Give Yourself Kindness

Take a slow, deep breath in. Feel the warmth and gentle pressure of your hands. As you exhale, focus on releasing tension. Now, in your mind, repeat self-compassionate affirmations such as:

“I am kind to myself.”

“I am not my mistakes.”

“I give myself room and comfort.”

“I celebrate my uniqueness.”

“I take this time to appreciate who I am.”

Step 4: Finish with a Sense of Gratitude

Open your eyes after 20 seconds and simply take a moment to admire yourself for taking the time to do this practice. You can repeat it as many times as you need throughout the day.

Susman calls this approach a "micropractice"—a tiny but effective habit that enhances mental health without taking up much time. These practices are based on classic mindfulness and meditation practices but are tailored to fit today's busy lives.

While the research was conducted with college students, the findings have applications for individuals of all ages. Whether you are a working professional with a packed schedule, a parent with numerous responsibilities, or an individual dealing with anxiety, adding a 20-second self-compassion exercise to your daily routine can be a convenient and effective method for managing stress and developing resilience.

Making It a Daily Habit

The secret to reaping the rewards of self-compassionate touch is consistency. Below are some ways to incorporate it into your daily life:

Begin your day by practicing self-compassion in bed before rising.

Utilize it as a fast tool during stressful situations at work or school.

Unwind by doing this micropractice before bedtime to relax.

May merely 20 seconds a day cause you to desist from spinning? The short answer, per the most up-to-date science, is that yes, it can. Micropractices for self-compassion provide a straightforward, research-supported means for lessening distress, enhancing emotional resilience, and cultivating a friendlier relationship with oneself.

In a world where stress and worry are escalating, this simple practice is a good reminder that simple, purposeful acts of care for ourselves have the ability to create tremendous transformations in our mindset. Why not give it a try for one month, you might find a surprising transformation.

Indian jewelery designer Saba Ali Khan, daughter of veteran actress Sharmila Tagore and cricketer Mansoor Ali Khan Pataudi, has opened up about her brain tumor diagnosis at the age of 27.

Speaking on her sister, actress Soha Ali Khan’s podcast, Saba recalled that her diagnosis came as a surprise, without common warning signs such as headaches or vision loss.

Dr. Mazda K. Turel, the neurosurgeon who treated her at Wockhardt Hospitals, Mumbai, told HealthandMe that people with brain tumors can be “walking, talking and functioning normally” despite having a potentially serious tumor. He explained why tumors can go unnoticed and which symptoms warrant medical attention.

How Saba Ali Khan Discovered Her Brain Tumor

Saba recalled fainting while out with a friend. After losing consciousness a second time, she took around 20–25 minutes to regain consciousness.

An MRI revealed a shadow in the third ventricle of her brain. Doctors initially diagnosed a colloid cyst, a rare, non-cancerous growth.

Six months later, she underwent surgery and was diagnosed with pilocytic astrocytoma, a slow-growing, generally low-grade tumor of the brain or spinal cord.

Also read: Survival In Aggressive Brain Tumors Improves By Up To 50% in India, Say Doctors

Why Brain Tumours Go Undetected In Young Adults

“Brain tumors don’t check your age before making an appearance,” Dr. Turel said. “In young adults, symptoms are often dismissed as stress, migraines, fatigue or lack of sleep. Some tumors grow slowly, allowing the brain to adapt remarkably well.”

“The brain has an extraordinary ability to compensate, especially when a tumor grows slowly or develops in a relatively silent area,” he explained.

Early signs may include persistent headaches, subtle personality changes, difficulty concentrating, blurred vision and unexplained seizures. Other clues include forgetting familiar words, unexplained irritability, occasional imbalance and brief episodes of staring or losing awareness.

Sometimes, family members notice changes before the patient does. Dr. Turel illustrated the difference between ordinary forgetfulness and a potentially concerning change: “If you forget keys, that is OK, but if you forget what the keys are for,” it is a sign to get checked.

“The problem is that these symptoms are common, but their persistence or progression is what deserves attention,” he told HealthandMe.

How Tumor Location Affects Symptoms

Read More: Can 'Eye Strain' Lead To Brain Cancer? Experts Explain

Symptoms often depend more on where a tumor is located than on its size, Dr. Turel explained.

• Frontal lobe: Changes in personality or judgement.
• Temporal lobe: Memory problems or unusual seizures.
• Visual pathways: Blurred or double vision.
• Cerebellum: Problems with balance and coordination.

“New speech difficulties, weakness, unexplained seizures or progressive cognitive changes should never be casually dismissed,” he warned.

Brain Tumor Or Migraine: When Should A Headache Worry You?

Migraines usually follow a recognizable pattern and may involve nausea or sensitivity to light and sound, Dr. Turel said.

Tumor-related headaches are more concerning when they are new, progressively worsening, different from previous headaches or accompanied by neurological changes. They may be worse in the morning or with coughing and straining, although this is not always the case.

A persistent headache that progressively worsens, wakes someone from sleep or occurs with vomiting, visual changes or neurological symptoms warrants medical evaluation.

"A sudden, explosive headache that reaches maximum intensity within seconds—a thunderclap headache—is a medical emergency," the neurosurgeon said, noting that it can occur while "walking, talking and functioning normally"

It may indicate bleeding around the brain from a ruptured aneurysm rather than a tumor. Sudden weakness, confusion, loss of consciousness or a first seizure also require emergency assessment.

“Most headaches are not caused by brain tumors, and a headache alone rarely indicates one. The key is not to panic about every headache, but to recognize when an old familiar headache begins behaving like a stranger,” Dr. Turel said.

When was the last time you stood in a queue without looking at your phone? Or had a cup of tea without scrolling through messages? Or sat in a car, waiting for someone, without opening Instagram simply because there was nothing else to do?

Try it today. Put your phone away for 10 minutes and do absolutely nothing with it. It sounds easy. For many of us, it isn't. The first thing you may notice is not peace, but restlessness. You may wonder if someone has messaged you. You may feel like checking the news, looking at the time or opening an app without even knowing why.

As a neurologist, I find this interesting because it tells us something about how we have trained our attention. Our phones have become so closely woven into everyday life that we often reach for them before we even realize we are bored.

The problem isn't the phone. It's the constant need for stimulation. There is nothing inherently wrong with using a smartphone. We use it to work, communicate, navigate, learn and stay connected.

The problem begins when every small gap in our day has to be filled.

Waiting for the lift? Check the phone.

Waiting for your coffee? Scroll.

Watching television? Check messages.

Feeling slightly bored? Open an app.

Our brains are naturally drawn towards novelty. A notification, a new message or a fresh video gives our attention something new to respond to. When this happens repeatedly, checking the phone can become almost automatic.

That is why I sometimes ask patients not only how much time they spend on their phones, but how often they feel the need to check them. Those are two very different questions.

What Happens When The Screen Goes Away?

The first few minutes may feel surprisingly busy inside your head. An unfinished conversation may come to mind. So might tomorrow's meeting, a pending task or something that has been worrying you. You may also find yourself simply daydreaming.

We often assume that a quiet mind should mean an empty mind. It doesn't. When there is no constant stream of information coming from outside, the mind naturally moves towards memories, plans, emotions and thoughts that have been sitting in the background.

That isn't necessarily overthinking. It is part of normal mental activity. Sometimes we are so quick to distract ourselves that we don't give ourselves the opportunity to notice what we are actually thinking or feeling.

What Should Concern Us Is Fragmented Attention

There is another part of this conversation that gets overlooked. We often talk about screen time, but the way we use our screens matters too. Imagine someone working on an important task but checking WhatsApp every few minutes, responding to an email, looking at a notification and then returning to the original task. Even if the total phone usage doesn't look alarming, their attention has been repeatedly pulled away.

Over time, this can make uninterrupted concentration feel uncomfortable.

So instead of asking only, “How many hours am I on my phone?”, perhaps we should occasionally ask, “How often am I allowing my attention to be interrupted?”

Try The 10-minute Test

You don't need to give up your phone or spend an hour meditating. Start small.

Have your morning tea without a screen. Sit on the balcony. Take a short walk without headphones. Wait for five or 10 minutes without automatically reaching into your pocket.

Don't try to stop your thoughts. Just notice them. You may discover that you are more restless than you expected. Or perhaps you will find that your mind settles after a few minutes.

Either way, that is useful information. Mental wellbeing isn't only about learning how to manage stress when it becomes overwhelming. It is also about creating small pockets of time in which the brain isn't constantly being asked to consume, respond and move on.

In a world that has made every spare minute scrollable, being comfortable with a little silence may be a surprisingly valuable habit for the brain.

(Dr Neha Pandita, Senior Consultant Neurologist and Unit Head, Clinical Lead - Parkinson's disease & Movement Disorders, Fortis Hospital, Noida)

For someone who has been hospitalized with heart failure, going home from the hospital can feel like a turning point. The breathlessness may have eased, the swelling may have reduced, and normalcy returns slowly. But feeling better does not mean that the condition has been cured. However, heart failure is a chronic and progressive condition in which the heart is unable to pump blood effectively enough to meet the body's needs.

The course of heart failure can include periods when patients feel stable and periods when their condition worsens. A worsening episode may require hospitalization or additional treatment, but even after the immediate episode has been stabilized and the patient is discharged, the underlying heart failure remains. The months following discharge from the hospital are a crucial period, when continued treatment, follow-up and attention to changes in symptoms can make a meaningful difference.

Why The Risk Remains After Discharge

People who have recently experienced a heart failure episode are at higher risk of their condition worsening again. The period after discharge should therefore not be viewed simply as a return to normal life, but as a phase when continued monitoring, follow-up and treatment remain important.

The risk is reflected in the outcomes after discharge. Within one year, studies have reported a heart failure readmission rate of nearly 30%, while all-cause mortality was 37%. This highlights why the months following hospitalization require particular attention, even when symptoms have improved.

A heart failure hospitalisation is also an important marker of future outcomes. In patients with recurrent multiple heart failure hospitalizations, the risk of cardiovascular death and all-cause mortality is six times higher in patients with four or more heart failure hospitalisations compared with patients with no heart failure hospitalizations.

This makes preventing another worsening episode an important part of long-term heart failure management.

For example, a patient may return home after treatment feeling less breathless and able to resume a daily routine. If, after some time, the same person begins to struggle with a regular walk, develops increasing ankle swelling, or takes longer to recover from everyday activity, these changes should not be ignored. They may indicate that heart failure is worsening again and should prompt a timely conversation with the doctor.

Continued Care Can Help Reduce Future Risk

Recognizing this period of increased vulnerability is not intended to create fear, but to encourage timely care. Patients should take their medicines exactly as prescribed and keep their follow-up appointments. Patients and their families should also be aware of the warning signs that indicate the condition may be worsening. This includes symptoms such as breathlessness; swelling of the legs or ankles; reduced ability to exercise; lack of appetite; nausea; increased heart rate; weight gain from fluid build-up; dizziness; or lightheadedness.

If familiar symptoms return, become more frequent or severe, or begin to affect everyday activities, the doctor should be consulted promptly. Regular follow-ups also provide an opportunity to assess whether the condition remains stable and treatment continues to meet the patient's needs.

Even when patients are stable with current treatment, the risk of hospitalization or serious cardiovascular outcomes can remain. Timely and appropriate treatment, including newer therapeutic approaches where suitable, can help reduce this risk.

Hospitalization following heart failure should not be seen as an episode to recover from, but as a reminder of the need for continued care in the months to follow. Patients and families who understand the warning signs, stay consistent with treatment and follow-up, and consult with the doctor regularly are better placed to manage the risk.

By Dr KV Srikanth, Consultant Interventional Cardiologist, KIMS Hospital, Electronic City, Bengaluru