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This is the story of Joseph, a 28-year-old man who's made a very difficult choice. On December 2024, Joseph Awuah-Darko shared the difficult decision of choosing euthanasia on Instagram. He's not physically sick, but he's been battling a severe mental illness called bipolar disorder for many years. He's tried many treatments, but nothing has helped him feel better. He feels like the pain of his illness is too much to bear. He's shared his story publicly to help people understand what he's going through and to show how serious mental illness can be. Joseph shared a post that explained why he is making this decision, in the caption of the post he shared, “I am not saying that life (as a phenomenon) isn’t worth living. It ABSOLUTELY is. What I am saying is that the mental weight of MINE has become entirely unbearable.”
Joseph has bipolar disorder, which means his moods swing very high and very low. He's had this illness for a long time, and it makes his life very difficult. On his Instagram, he has shared his journey with bipolar, he explained that he tried many different medicines and therapies, but they haven't worked. He feels constant pain and suffering because of his illness. He's reached a point where he feels like he can't go on anymore. He's been open about his struggles on social media, hoping to raise awareness about mental health. He wants people to understand how much he suffers and why he's made this decision.
Government of the Netherlands explain that in the Netherlands, it's legal for a doctor to help someone end their life if they meet certain conditions. This is called euthanasia. Joseph has applied for this because he feels his mental illness is causing him unbearable suffering. There are rules and procedures that doctors must follow. They have to make sure the person understands their decision and that there are no other options. The process can take a long time, sometimes years. Joseph believes that having the option of a peaceful and dignified death is important. He wants to have control over how his life ends.
When Joseph shared his decision, people had many different reactions. Some people understood and supported him. Others were sad and hoped he would change his mind. He even received some negative comments. But he also received many kind messages, including invitations to have dinner. This inspired him to start "The Last Supper Project," where he travels and shares meals with strangers. In the caption he explained, “‘The Last Supper Project’ is based on the Harvard Study of Adult Development which speaks to the importance of quality relationships and community as the greatest predictor for happiness. And I feel connecting this way around food as a great unifying vessel could be beautiful.”
The Last Supper Project is one of the longest studies, lasting for more than 80 years, done on adult development. In an Author Speaks edition of McKinsey & Company, the study’s director Robert Waldinger explained the study wanted to know what helps people have happy and healthy lives, even if they had problems when they were young. Most studies only looked at what goes wrong, but this one wanted to know what goes right. The study emphasizes that it is never too late for positive changes. People often believe they are too old or incapable of forming good relationships. They may think happiness is out of reach. However, the study has observed individuals who found happiness unexpectedly.
Joseph wants to connect with people and enjoy these moments while he waits for his euthanasia request to be approved. He sees these dinners as a way to find joy and connection in his final chapter. He still has bad days, but he finds comfort in these shared experiences.
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While entrepreneurs debate 70-hour workweeks and professionals continue to slog through long working hours under relentless productivity pressures, basic health needs often take a back seat. The consequences may not be immediately visible, but the body's vital organs quietly bear the burden.
Among them, the kidneys are particularly vulnerable. Poor hydration, irregular eating habits, excessive caffeine intake, lack of sleep, and chronic stress can gradually damage kidney function without causing noticeable symptoms, potentially leading to serious health consequences over time, said experts on the occasion of World Kidney Cancer Day 2026.
World Kidney Cancer Day is observed annually on the third Thursday of June. Spearheaded by the International Kidney Cancer Coalition, the day raises global awareness about the disease, highlights risk factors, and advocates for early detection and patient support.
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The kidneys play a vital role in filtering waste from the blood, regulating blood pressure, maintaining fluid balance, and supporting overall metabolic function.
Speaking to HealthandMe, Dr. L K Jha, Principal Director – Nephrology & Renal Transplant at Yashoda Medicity, pointed out habits such as eating out frequently, inadequate hydration, excessive caffeine consumption, insufficient sleep, and chronic stress that have become routine parts of the workday.
While these behaviors may seem manageable in the short term, they can have significant consequences for kidney health over time. They are also associated with an increased risk of hypertension, obesity, and diabetes, conditions that can gradually impair kidney function. These are also the primary drivers of chronic kidney disease and a significant risk factor for certain kidney cancers.
Dr. Jha emphasized that "kidney diseases are particularly concerning because they often remain asymptomatic until substantial damage has already occurred."
He noted that prioritizing hydration, routine health checkups, regular physical activity, and stress reduction is not only important for maintaining good health but also an investment in long-term well-being and workplace performance.
Dr. Saurabh Shukla, Senior Consultant – Nephrology at Paras Health Gurugram, told HealthandMe that the "fast-paced corporate culture is inadvertently contributing to a growing health crisis, with kidney health emerging as one of its major casualties."
He pointed out that kidney-related conditions often progress silently, with few warning signs appearing until serious damage has occurred. Long hours spent sitting, constant workplace pressure, irregular meal schedules, and dependence on caffeine rather than water are quietly affecting the health of working professionals.
He also highlighted habitual dehydration, high-sodium processed foods, and delayed medical checkups as additional concerns.
From a clinical perspective, Dr. Shukla stressed that early detection is crucial.
"While symptoms such as blood in the urine, persistent lower back pain, unexplained fatigue, or swelling in the legs require prompt medical attention, many kidney conditions are identified incidentally during routine screenings," he said.
The experts underscored that protecting kidney health does not necessarily require drastic lifestyle changes. They suggested simple measures such as:
Dr. Shukla also emphasized the role of employers, suggesting that corporations should implement wellness programs that encourage healthier habits among employees.
In high-stress work environments, he noted, prioritizing kidney health is becoming increasingly important.
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Men often carry the responsibility for their families. They work hard and manage professional pressures to provide the best for their loved ones. Yet, many men tend to neglect their own health, the one thing that makes everything else possible.
Across age groups, men often seek medical attention only when the problem becomes severe or when symptoms become impossible to ignore. The most unfortunate thing regarding health is that many health conditions develop silently for years before showing signs. Taking care of yourselves is not selfish; it is essential. After all, the healthier you are, the better equipped you are to support your family, pursue your goals, and enjoy a fulfilling life for years to come.
One of the best ways to keep an eye on your health is by scheduling regular health screenings. Many conditions, including High BP, Diabetes, high cholesterol, liver disease, and kidney disorders, may not cause noticeable symptoms in the early stages. Annual health checkups can help identify potential problems way before they become serious.
Depending on age and family history, men should also discuss appropriate cancer screenings. Early detection leads to simpler treatment and better outcomes. Make preventive health checkups a routine. Just as a vehicle performs better with regular servicing, your body also needs regular monitoring.
Maintaining muscle mass is equally important for men as they age. Muscle plays a vital role in supporting metabolism. Even though it is important for improving insulin sensitivity, protecting bone health, and maintaining strength. You don’t need rigorous exercise daily.
Strength training two to four days a week is sufficient. It may also help support healthy testosterone levels and reduce the risk of chronic conditions like type 2 diabetes and heart disease. The best thing is that strength training doesn’t require spending hours in a gym. Consistency matters far more than perfection.
We often say that ‘sound mind in a sound body’. This is even true vice versa. Many men feel pressure to appear strong all the time, which can make things difficult. Stress, anxiety, and depression can affect anyone. Persistent fatigue, irritability, difficulty concentrating, or disrupted sleep may be warning signs.
Keep an eye on such changes. Discussion is not a sign of weakness. Talk to trusted family members, friends, or mental health professionals. It can make a significant difference.
Quality sleep is one of the most powerful tools for maintaining good health. Generally, adults need between seven and nine hours of sleep each night. It helps the body to repair tissues, regulates hormones, and supports brain function.
Poor sleep is linked to weight gain, increased stress, and weakened immune function. If your morning is often tiring or you are struggling with insomnia, then discuss it with your healthcare professional. Limit screen time before bed and avoid excessive caffeine late in the day. It can help improve sleep quality.
Heart disease remains one of the leading health risks for men worldwide. The good news is that many cardiovascular risk factors are largely preventable. A healthy weight, physical activity, and a balanced diet can significantly improve heart health.
Avoiding tobacco products and limiting alcohol consumption is also helpful. Add vegetables, fruits, lean proteins, whole grains, and healthy fats to your daily diet. Such a diet can support both heart and overall well-being. Daily brisk walk can help improve BP, cholesterol levels, and cardiovascular fitness.
(By Dr Shivam Sharma, Internal Medicine, Shalby International Hospitals, Gurugram)
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Fever is one of the body's most common warning signals. In most cases, particularly among children, it is caused by a simple infection and resolves within a few days. However, when fever keeps returning repeatedly, follows a pattern, or occurs alongside other concerning symptoms, it may signal an underlying health condition that requires medical attention.
Dr. Hemalata Arora, Director of Internal Medicine at Nanavati Max Super Speciality Hospital, Mumbai, told HealthandMe that a recurring fever refers to repeated episodes of elevated body temperature that are separated by days, weeks, or even months during which a person feels completely well.
While recurrent fevers can sometimes result from common viral infections, especially in children exposed to school environments, daycare settings, or seasonal illnesses, persistent or unexplained episodes warrant further investigation.
The expert stated that understanding the pattern of fever is often one of the most important clues in determining the cause.
Dr. Diksha Goyal, Consultant in Internal Medicine at Marengo Asia Hospitals, Gurugram, told HealthandMe that a recurrent fever can occur when body temperature rises to 38°C or higher and reappears after improving or occurs intermittently over time.
Several medical conditions may cause recurring fever, including:
1. Chronic Infections such as tuberculosis (TB), urinary tract infections
2. Autoimmune Diseases
3. Immune System Disorders
4. Cancers, particularly blood-related cancers
5. Certain Viral Infections
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While recurrent fever is not always dangerous, the experts emphasize that certain accompanying symptoms require prompt medical evaluation.
Dr. Arora notes that urgent attention is needed if recurring fever is associated with:
Dr. Goyal added that persistent cough, swollen lymph nodes, and unexplained body pain can also indicate an underlying condition requiring medical treatment.
These symptoms may point toward serious infections, immune system disorders, blood-related diseases, cancers, or inflammatory conditions in which the body's defense system triggers repeated inflammation without a clear infection.
Another important warning sign is a fever that continues to recur despite treatment. According to Dr. Arora, repeated courses of antibiotics without a confirmed diagnosis should raise concern. In some cases, medications themselves can trigger fever, making a detailed medication history an important part of the evaluation.
The goal is not to panic but to seek timely medical assessment. Check for swollen lymph nodes, rashes, signs of infection, or evidence of systemic inflammation.
The experts noted that early medical evaluation can help identify the underlying cause, prevent complications, and ensure appropriate treatment. With timely diagnosis and proper management, many causes of recurrent fever can be effectively treated, allowing individuals to maintain their health and daily activities.
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