At 28, This Man Is Choosing Euthanasia Over Living With Bipolar Disorder- 'Life Is Absolutely Worth Living But Mine Is Entirely Unbearable'

Updated Mar 15, 2025 | 06:00 PM IST

SummaryOn his bipolar disorder journey, a 28-year-old Ghanaian man shares his experience and decision to choose assisted death in the Netherlands prompting a much-needed conversation about mental health struggles and how some people are in a cyclic treatment resistance.
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This is the story of Joseph, a 28-year-old man who's made a very difficult choice. On December 2024, Joseph Awuah-Darko shared the difficult decision of choosing euthanasia on Instagram. He's not physically sick, but he's been battling a severe mental illness called bipolar disorder for many years. He's tried many treatments, but nothing has helped him feel better. He feels like the pain of his illness is too much to bear. He's shared his story publicly to help people understand what he's going through and to show how serious mental illness can be. Joseph shared a post that explained why he is making this decision, in the caption of the post he shared, “I am not saying that life (as a phenomenon) isn’t worth living. It ABSOLUTELY is. What I am saying is that the mental weight of MINE has become entirely unbearable.”

Joseph has bipolar disorder, which means his moods swing very high and very low. He's had this illness for a long time, and it makes his life very difficult. On his Instagram, he has shared his journey with bipolar, he explained that he tried many different medicines and therapies, but they haven't worked. He feels constant pain and suffering because of his illness. He's reached a point where he feels like he can't go on anymore. He's been open about his struggles on social media, hoping to raise awareness about mental health. He wants people to understand how much he suffers and why he's made this decision.

Euthanasia in the Netherlands

Government of the Netherlands explain that in the Netherlands, it's legal for a doctor to help someone end their life if they meet certain conditions. This is called euthanasia. Joseph has applied for this because he feels his mental illness is causing him unbearable suffering. There are rules and procedures that doctors must follow. They have to make sure the person understands their decision and that there are no other options. The process can take a long time, sometimes years. Joseph believes that having the option of a peaceful and dignified death is important. He wants to have control over how his life ends.

The Last Supper Project

When Joseph shared his decision, people had many different reactions. Some people understood and supported him. Others were sad and hoped he would change his mind. He even received some negative comments. But he also received many kind messages, including invitations to have dinner. This inspired him to start "The Last Supper Project," where he travels and shares meals with strangers. In the caption he explained, “‘The Last Supper Project’ is based on the Harvard Study of Adult Development which speaks to the importance of quality relationships and community as the greatest predictor for happiness. And I feel connecting this way around food as a great unifying vessel could be beautiful.”

The Last Supper Project is one of the longest studies, lasting for more than 80 years, done on adult development. In an Author Speaks edition of McKinsey & Company, the study’s director Robert Waldinger explained the study wanted to know what helps people have happy and healthy lives, even if they had problems when they were young. Most studies only looked at what goes wrong, but this one wanted to know what goes right. The study emphasizes that it is never too late for positive changes. People often believe they are too old or incapable of forming good relationships. They may think happiness is out of reach. However, the study has observed individuals who found happiness unexpectedly.

Joseph wants to connect with people and enjoy these moments while he waits for his euthanasia request to be approved. He sees these dinners as a way to find joy and connection in his final chapter. He still has bad days, but he finds comfort in these shared experiences.

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Women Heart Symptoms Could Differ From Men, Explains Expert

Updated Feb 14, 2026 | 08:11 PM IST

SummaryHeart disease is the leading cause of death in women, yet symptoms often differ from men and go unnoticed. Experts urge greater awareness of hormonal changes, reproductive aging, and earlier screening to prevent avoidable deaths.
Women Heart Symptoms Could Differ From Men, Explains Expert

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On February 13, Canadians across the country mark Wear Red Canada Day, a reminder that heart disease remains the leading cause of death for women. Yet despite the scale of the problem, many women still do not recognize their risk or their symptoms.

“We’re learning more and more each day about how heart disease uniquely affects women,” said nurse practitioner and researcher Rachel Ollivier in an interview with CTV News. She emphasized that awareness is still lagging, both among patients and within health-care systems.

According to the World Health Organization, cardiovascular disease accounts for roughly one in three deaths among women globally. In Canada, heart disease and stroke continue to be leading causes of death among women, and women are less likely than men to receive timely diagnosis or treatment.

Symptoms Can Look Different

Chest pain remains the most common heart attack symptom in both men and women. But Ollivier explained that women’s symptoms can often be subtler or feel different.

“For women, they often uniquely experience chest pain that seems like more of a discomfort or a tightness in the chest,” she said. Some women may feel pain in the left arm or jaw, unusual fatigue, nausea, vomiting, or discomfort between the shoulder blades.

Because these symptoms can be less specific, they are sometimes dismissed as stress, anxiety, indigestion, or exhaustion. Social factors also play a role. Women often juggle multiple responsibilities at home and work, and may delay seeking care. In some cases, their concerns may also be minimized within health-care settings.

Medical differences matter too. Women typically have smaller hearts and arteries, and plaque buildup behaves differently compared to men. Conditions such as spontaneous coronary artery dissection and microvascular dysfunction are seen more commonly in women, making diagnosis more complex.

Hormones and the Hidden Risk Window

Beyond symptoms, experts are urging greater recognition of the role hormones play in lifelong heart health.

“Endogenous estrogen is cardio protective,” Ollivier explained. As women enter the perimenopausal transition, estrogen levels fluctuate and gradually decline, and that protection is lost. This shift can lead to higher cholesterol levels and changes in fat distribution, increasing cardiovascular risk, particularly between the ages of 40 and 60.

Colleen Norris, a nursing professor at the University of Alberta and research lead of the CKHui LHHW Women’s Heart Health Research Collaborative who wrote on Yahoo Canada, believes the conversation needs to go even deeper.

She argues that ovaries have long been viewed only through the lens of reproduction. “The ovaries are not just reproductive organs. They are architects of women’s health across the lifespan,” she noted. Estrogen influences the heart and blood vessels, but also the brain, bones, kidneys, metabolism, and immune function.

Most women are never told that ovarian reserve and estrogen levels begin declining in their late 30s. By the time noticeable symptoms appear, biological changes may have already been underway for years.

Menopause itself is just one day, Norris explained. The larger reproductive transition surrounding it is what significantly increases vulnerability to chronic disease. Yet the health-care system often waits until disease develops before intervening.

Moving From Awareness to Action

Both experts stress that education is critical. Women with conditions such as polycystic ovary syndrome, pregnancy complications like preeclampsia or gestational diabetes, and those entering midlife should be particularly mindful of their cardiovascular risk.

Wear Red Canada Day is meant to spark awareness, but symbols alone are not enough. Experts are calling for better research funding focused on midlife women, improved medical education around ovarian aging, and more proactive screening during the reproductive transition.

Heart disease in women is not inevitable. But recognizing that symptoms can differ, and that hormonal shifts matter, could be lifesaving.

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Unique Symptoms Of Chikungunya The Outbreak In Seychelles And How Long It Lasts

Updated Feb 14, 2026 | 11:08 AM IST

SummaryThe US has issued a Level 2 advisory for Seychelles amid a chikungunya outbreak. The mosquito-borne virus causes fever and severe joint pain, with possible neurological and chronic complications. Travelers are urged to prevent bites and seek care.
Unique Symptoms Of Chikungunya The Outbreak In Seychelles And How Long It Lasts

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Seychelles Chikungunya Virus Outbreak: The United States warned travelers to be careful if they plan to visit the Seychelles islands anytime soon as it is currently undergoing a chikungunya outbreak. As per the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC), a 'Level 2' advisory for the island has been issued and travelers have been asked to 'practice enhanced precautions' if they do plan to visit.

Unique Symptoms Of Chikungunya: What Is The Disease?

Chikungunya is a mosquito-borne viral disease transmitted primarily by Aedes aegypti and Aedes albopictus, the same mosquitoes that spread dengue fever. Symptoms typically appear three to seven days after a bite and include sudden fever, severe joint pain, headache, nausea, fatigue, and rash in about half of cases.

However, there are certain unique symptoms of chikungunya. For instance, unlike a Dengue fever, chikungunya leaves lingering effects along with joint pain and fatigue that lasts up to weeks.

Unique Symptoms of Chikungunya: What Are They?

While common symptoms like high fever often >102 degree F is common there are other symptoms too, which includes:

  • Headache
  • Muscle pain
  • Fatigue
  • Joint Swelling

  • Some unique symptoms of this disease includes neurological complications such as rare instances that could lead to encephalitis or the inflammation of the brain, meningitis, or severe nerve issues like Guillain-Barré syndrome.

  • Ocular symptoms include red eyes like conjunctivitis, eye pain, or temporary vision problems.

  • Unique symptoms could also include bleeding, while it is more common in Dengue, rare bleeding from gums and nose could occur in Chikungunya.

  • Other unique symptoms may include chronic and persistent symptoms like joint pain that does not subside after the initial week and lasts for months or even years.

  • Other symptoms include cardiovascular and respiratory issues and skin manifestation, which could go beyond the common rash. Some patients may experience vasculitis-like skin lesions.

Unique Symptoms of Chikungunya: How Long Does It Last?

Chikungunya symptoms usually occur with in 3 to 7 days after a bite. However, the symptoms could often last long. While fever could subside in a day or two, chronic symptoms especially like joint pain and muscle pain could last for months. Weakness too could persist.

Unique Symptoms Of Chikungunya: Outbreak In Seychelles Led To US Issuing Travel Advisory

A Level 2 travel advisory has been issued, which means the travelers are expected to practice enhanced precautions as compared to a Level 1 advisory that only asks travelers to practice usual precautions.

In more serious cases, Level 3 advisory is issued that asks travelers to reconsider non-essential travel, whereas a Level 4 advisory asks travelers to avoid all travel.

Read: CDC Travel Advisory Issued For These Islands Amid Chikungunya Outbreak

As CDC issues travel advisory, here is what travelers are expected to do:

  • Travelers are expected to protect themselves by preventing mosquito bites, which includes using insect repellent, wearing long-sleeved shirts and pants, and staying in places where air conditioning or that have screens on the windows and doors
  • The CDC also tells travelers to get vaccinated for those who are visiting the area affected by a chikungunya outbreak
  • If a traveler is pregnant, they are asked to reconsider travel to affected area, especially if they are closed to delivering their baby. Mothers infected around the time of delivery can pass the virus to their baby before or during delivery. Newborns infected in this way or by a mosquito bite are at risk for severe illness, including poor long-term outcomes
  • If someone has a fever, joint pain, headache, muscle pain, joint swelling, or rash during or after the travel, they must seek medical care

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The Science Behind Attachments And Fall-offs In A Relationship, According To Neuroscientist

Updated Feb 14, 2026 | 04:00 AM IST

SummaryNeuroscientist Andrew Huberman explains that adult relationships are shaped by childhood attachment patterns and brain chemistry. Dopamine drives desire, empathy sustains bonds, and behaviors like criticism and contempt can gradually erode connection and long-term relationship stability.
The Science Behind Attachments And Fall-offs In A Relationship, According To Neuroscientist

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Why do some relationships feel effortless and magnetic, while others slowly unravel despite our best intentions? According to neuroscientist Andrew Huberman, the answers lie deep within our early childhood experiences and the intricate wiring of the brain.

In a recent episode of Huberman Lab titled “Essentials: The Science of Love, Desire & Attachment,” Huberman explores how biology and psychology work together to shape the way we connect, commit, and sometimes drift apart. What makes the conversation compelling is how it bridges hard science with very human emotions.

Our First Bonds Shape Our Love Stories

Huberman begins with a powerful idea: the way we love as adults often echoes how we were loved as children.

He refers to the landmark “Strange Situation” experiment by psychologist Mary Ainsworth. In this study, toddlers were briefly separated from their caregivers and then reunited. Researchers closely observed how the children reacted. Some felt secure and soothed upon return. Others were anxious, avoidant, or distressed.

These early attachment patterns, Huberman explains, frequently resurface in adult romantic relationships. A securely attached child may grow into a partner who trusts and communicates well. An anxious child may become someone who fears abandonment. An avoidant child may struggle with emotional closeness.

The hopeful part? These patterns are not destiny. Awareness allows change. Once people recognize their emotional blueprint, they can reshape it.

Love Is Not in One Spot in the Brain

Romantic connection is not housed in a single “love center.” Instead, multiple brain regions activate in sequence to create desire, attraction, empathy, and long term bonding.

Huberman clears up a common myth about dopamine. Many people think of it as the pleasure chemical. In reality, it is more about motivation and pursuit. Dopamine fuels craving and drives us toward a person we find compelling. It is the chemical that makes you check your phone, wait for a message, or feel a rush at the thought of someone.

But desire alone does not sustain love.

For deeper attachment, empathy circuits come into play. The prefrontal cortex and the insula are especially important. The insula helps us sense our internal bodily state, a process known as interoception. It allows us to feel our own emotions while tuning into someone else’s. This shared emotional awareness strengthens bonds.

The Role of “Positive Delusion”

One of the most fascinating ideas Huberman discusses is what he calls “positive delusion.” For long term stability, the brain benefits from believing that your partner is uniquely special. This slight bias, almost a romantic illusion, reinforces commitment.

It is not about ignoring flaws. It is about genuinely feeling that this person, out of billions, holds a singular place in your emotional world. Biologically, this strengthens attachment pathways.

Why Relationships Fall Apart

Huberman also references research from the Gottman Lab at the University of Washington. Decades of data reveal four behaviors that predict relationship breakdown: criticism, defensiveness, stonewalling, and contempt.

Stonewalling happens when one partner emotionally withdraws and stops responding. But the most toxic behavior is contempt. Researchers have described it as acid to a relationship because it corrodes trust and shuts down empathy. Once contempt takes root, the neural circuits that support connection begin to weaken.

In the end, love is both chemistry and choice. Our brains may set the stage, but awareness, empathy, and daily behavior determine whether attachment deepens or quietly falls away.

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