At 28, This Man Is Choosing Euthanasia Over Living With Bipolar Disorder- 'Life Is Absolutely Worth Living But Mine Is Entirely Unbearable'

Updated Mar 15, 2025 | 06:00 PM IST

SummaryOn his bipolar disorder journey, a 28-year-old Ghanaian man shares his experience and decision to choose assisted death in the Netherlands prompting a much-needed conversation about mental health struggles and how some people are in a cyclic treatment resistance.
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This is the story of Joseph, a 28-year-old man who's made a very difficult choice. On December 2024, Joseph Awuah-Darko shared the difficult decision of choosing euthanasia on Instagram. He's not physically sick, but he's been battling a severe mental illness called bipolar disorder for many years. He's tried many treatments, but nothing has helped him feel better. He feels like the pain of his illness is too much to bear. He's shared his story publicly to help people understand what he's going through and to show how serious mental illness can be. Joseph shared a post that explained why he is making this decision, in the caption of the post he shared, “I am not saying that life (as a phenomenon) isn’t worth living. It ABSOLUTELY is. What I am saying is that the mental weight of MINE has become entirely unbearable.”

Joseph has bipolar disorder, which means his moods swing very high and very low. He's had this illness for a long time, and it makes his life very difficult. On his Instagram, he has shared his journey with bipolar, he explained that he tried many different medicines and therapies, but they haven't worked. He feels constant pain and suffering because of his illness. He's reached a point where he feels like he can't go on anymore. He's been open about his struggles on social media, hoping to raise awareness about mental health. He wants people to understand how much he suffers and why he's made this decision.

Euthanasia in the Netherlands

Government of the Netherlands explain that in the Netherlands, it's legal for a doctor to help someone end their life if they meet certain conditions. This is called euthanasia. Joseph has applied for this because he feels his mental illness is causing him unbearable suffering. There are rules and procedures that doctors must follow. They have to make sure the person understands their decision and that there are no other options. The process can take a long time, sometimes years. Joseph believes that having the option of a peaceful and dignified death is important. He wants to have control over how his life ends.

The Last Supper Project

When Joseph shared his decision, people had many different reactions. Some people understood and supported him. Others were sad and hoped he would change his mind. He even received some negative comments. But he also received many kind messages, including invitations to have dinner. This inspired him to start "The Last Supper Project," where he travels and shares meals with strangers. In the caption he explained, “‘The Last Supper Project’ is based on the Harvard Study of Adult Development which speaks to the importance of quality relationships and community as the greatest predictor for happiness. And I feel connecting this way around food as a great unifying vessel could be beautiful.”

The Last Supper Project is one of the longest studies, lasting for more than 80 years, done on adult development. In an Author Speaks edition of McKinsey & Company, the study’s director Robert Waldinger explained the study wanted to know what helps people have happy and healthy lives, even if they had problems when they were young. Most studies only looked at what goes wrong, but this one wanted to know what goes right. The study emphasizes that it is never too late for positive changes. People often believe they are too old or incapable of forming good relationships. They may think happiness is out of reach. However, the study has observed individuals who found happiness unexpectedly.

Joseph wants to connect with people and enjoy these moments while he waits for his euthanasia request to be approved. He sees these dinners as a way to find joy and connection in his final chapter. He still has bad days, but he finds comfort in these shared experiences.

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Beyond the Hype: What Patients Should Really Know Before Choosing Robotic Surgery

Updated Aug 12, 2026 | 11:13 AM IST

SummaryRobotic surgery offers greater precision and minimally invasive benefits, but patients should understand its risks, limitations, costs, alternatives, and the surgeon’s expertise before making a decision.
Beyond the Hype: What Patients Should Really Know Before Choosing Robotic Surgery

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Robotic surgery has rapidly become one of the most talked-about advances in modern medicine. Yet, for many patients, the technology remains misunderstood.

The first thing to know is that the robot does not perform the operation. Every movement is directed by the surgeon. The robotic platform translates the surgeon’s hand movements into highly precise, tremor-filtered movements inside the body while providing magnified three-dimensional vision and greater instrument dexterity.

The real question, therefore, is not whether robotic surgery is better. It is whether it is the right choice for a particular patient, procedure and surgeon.

Where Robotic Surgery Can Make A Difference?

For many routine operations, conventional laparoscopy may achieve equally good outcomes. Technology should support clinical judgment, not replace it.

Patients should also recognise that outcomes depend far more on the experience of the surgical team than on the robotic system itself. Successful robotic surgery requires specialised training, structured credentialing and a coordinated operating theatre team.

Choosing an experienced surgeon can therefore be more important than choosing a hospital simply because it owns a robotic system.

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Making Robotic Surgery More Accessible

Another important development is that robotic surgery is becoming more accessible. Indigenous platforms are helping expand advanced surgical care beyond a handful of metropolitan hospitals by making robotic programmes more viable for a wider range of healthcare institutions.

This gradual decentralisation means patients in Tier II and Tier III cities can increasingly access advanced minimally invasive surgery closer to home, reducing the need to travel long distances for specialised treatment.

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Could Robotic Surgery Work Across Long Distances?

Innovation is also extending beyond the operating room. Robotic telesurgery, demonstrated successfully using Made-in-India robotic platforms, has shown that expert surgeons can operate across vast distances using secure digital networks.

While widespread adoption will require robust infrastructure and regulatory frameworks, the technology represents an important step towards improving access to specialised surgical expertise.

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What Should Patients Ask Their Surgeon?

Patients should look beyond the hype and ask informed questions:

  • Is robotic surgery appropriate for my condition?
  • What experience does my surgeon have with this procedure?
  • What are the expected benefits?
  • What are the limitations and risks?
  • Would conventional laparoscopy or open surgery be equally suitable?

With indigenous platforms helping decentralise robotic surgery, advanced care is becoming more accessible beyond major metros. The technology has also demonstrated the potential of interhospital telesurgery, enabling expert surgeons to operate across distances and potentially helping bridge gaps in access to highly skilled surgical expertise.

Ultimately, the future of surgery will not be shaped by machines alone. It will be shaped by skilled surgeons using intelligent technology to deliver safer, more precise and equitable patient care.

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Why People With Mental Health Conditions Are More Likely To Struggle With Tobacco Addiction

Updated Aug 11, 2026 | 02:08 PM IST

SummaryPeople with mental health conditions may be more vulnerable to tobacco addiction because nicotine can temporarily ease distress, while dependence and withdrawal can worsen symptoms and reinforce smoking.
Why People With Mental Health Conditions Are More Likely To Struggle With Tobacco Addiction

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A cigarette after stress. Chewing tobacco during the day. Smoking to “calm the nerves”

But modern science is forcing us to confront the difficult truth; Tobacco does not treat mental health symptoms, in fact it quietly deepens it.

As Oncologists and physicians, we often see patients who say, “smoking makes them feel normal.” However, in reality, what they are experiencing is nothing more than the temporary relief from nicotine withdrawal not genuine emotional regulation.

Nicotine Creates A Cycle of Temporary Relief And Dependence

When we smoke or chew tobacco, nicotine stimulates dopamine release in the brain, creating a short-lived sense of relaxation or control. But overtime it leads to brain depending on nicotine to achieve the same baseline feeling again and again. The result is a vicious cycle of dependence, irritability, anxiety, and worsening emotional resilience.

Several large studies now show that long-term tobacco use is associated with higher rates of anxiety, depression, sleep issues and substance dependence. A 2023 review published in BMJ found that smoking cessation will result in improvements in both anxiety and depression and an improved mood with benefits comparable to antidepressant treatment in some individuals.

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Tobacco May Worsen Anxiety, Depression And Sleep Problems

This has serious implications for the urban Indian population in regard to the increasing prevalence of mental exhaustion, lack of social support, digital overload, work-related stress and lack of sleep. Tobacco often enters quietly during vulnerable moments of college pressure, workplace stress, loneliness, grief and gradually shifts from “social habit” to psychological crutch.

Although they think they believe in tobacco, many of them use it, thinking that they are using it to cope with their emotional symptoms, when in fact they are making the symptoms worse.

Also, recognize the biology of tobacco use. For example, the use of nicotine will result in long-term changes in how well your body handles emotional stress because of the role of long-term nicotine exposure in altering the system of cortisol regulation and the stress response pathways in neurons. So, with time, it will become harder and harder for a person to control his/her emotional response to stress because his/her body will not be able to do it. Thus, tobacco has a negative influence on the recovery process from emotional responses to stress, rather than a beneficial one.

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How Nicotine Alters The Body’s Stress Response?

Tobacco is a significant preventable risk factor for oral, head and neck, lung, oesophageal, pancreatic and bladder cancers. When many patients arrive at cancer centres, the addiction to tobacco is already set, and it is even more difficult to quit while receiving cancer treatment.

This is why it is important to help move the conversation on tobacco beyond cancer. Now, it's more than just a public health issue; it also includes issues of mental health. Individuals experiencing emotional difficulties should not think that they are being judged. They have to learn to find alternative coping strategies, get psychological support early on in their lives, sleep well, exercise, be part of the community, and access timely medical support. The goal of this care is not just to support someone in quitting tobacco, but to provide support for them to stop needing tobacco in order to feel good.

By Dr Amit Chakraborty, Consultant Oncologist, Saifee Hospital, Mumbai

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More Indians Face Twin Burden of Hypertension and Diabetes After 40: Why Preventive Healthcare Is Important

Updated Aug 10, 2026 | 10:00 PM IST

SummaryA recent hospital-based analysis found that hypertension and diabetes frequently occur together. Nearly 5% of adults had both conditions. Their coexistence increased rapidly from around 40, continued rising until approximately 58 and gradually reached nearly 17% by around age 70.
More Indians Face Twin Burden of Hypertension and Diabetes After 40: Why Preventive Healthcare Is Important

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India is facing a growing burden of non-communicable diseases (NCDs), with hypertension and diabetes among the major health concerns.

Experts warned that the risk of both conditions rises after 40, often without noticeable symptoms. Increasing age, weight gain, reduced physical activity, stress, dietary habits, and metabolic changes can all contribute to the risk.

Having hypertension and diabetes together is particularly concerning, as their coexistence can increase the risk of heart disease, stroke, kidney damage, retinopathy, and other complications.

Why Risk Rises After 40?

Dr. Santosh Gupta, Associate Director - CTVS, Paras Health Udaipur, told HealthandMe that several factors contribute to the rising risk after 40.

“After the age of 40, the risk of hypertension and diabetes increases due to factors such as changes in metabolism, reduced physical activity, weight gain, stress and dietary habits. What makes both conditions particularly concerning is that they can develop silently, without noticeable symptoms, while gradually affecting vital organs,” he said.

He added that uncontrolled hypertension can damage the heart, brain, kidneys, and blood vessels, while diabetes can affect the kidneys, eyes, nerves, and cardiovascular system.

"When both conditions occur together, the risk of heart disease, stroke and kidney complications becomes even higher,” Dr. Gupta added.

Because both conditions can remain silent for years, people may have high blood pressure or blood sugar without knowing it.

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Hypertension And Diabetes Often Coexist

A recent hospital-based analysis found that hypertension and diabetes frequently occur together, with their coexistence rising sharply from around age 40 among Indians.

The study, conducted by the Department of Clinical Research and Preventive Health Program at Max Healthcare, analyzed health records of more than 56,000 adults who underwent preventive health check-ups between January 2021 and December 2024.

Nearly 5% of adults had both conditions. Their coexistence increased rapidly from around 40, continued rising until approximately 58 and gradually reached nearly 17% by around age 70.

People with diabetes were nearly four times more likely to have hypertension, while those with hypertension were about 2.5 times more likely to have diabetes.

Dr. Abhaya Indrayan, Biostatistics Consultant, Max Healthcare, said the findings support screening for both conditions rather than assessing them separately.

Why Screening After 40 Matters

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Experts said that preventive healthcare should go beyond checking for individual diseases. Adults over 40 should routinely assess key cardiometabolic risk factors, including blood pressure and blood sugar.

Screening can help detect hypertension, diabetes or prediabetes early, when lifestyle changes and treatment can help prevent or delay complications.

“This is why regular screening after 40 is important, even for individuals who feel completely healthy. A routine blood pressure check, fasting blood glucose or HbA1c test can help identify hypertension, diabetes or prediabetes at an early stage, when timely lifestyle changes and medical intervention can prevent or delay complications,” Dr. Gupta said.

“Screening should not be viewed only as a diagnostic exercise; it is an opportunity to understand one’s health risks and take corrective measures before the disease begins to cause irreversible organ damage,” he added.

How To Lower The Risk

Preventive care also involves addressing modifiable risk factors. Regular physical activity, maintaining a healthy weight, limiting salt, sugar and highly processed foods, getting adequate sleep and avoiding tobacco can help lower the long-term risk.

For those already diagnosed with hypertension or diabetes, regular monitoring and adherence to prescribed treatment are important to reduce the risk of complications.

With the risk of both conditions rising after 40, experts recommend making routine health checks part of regular healthcare—even when there are no obvious symptoms.

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