At 28, This Man Is Choosing Euthanasia Over Living With Bipolar Disorder- 'Life Is Absolutely Worth Living But Mine Is Entirely Unbearable'

Updated Mar 15, 2025 | 06:00 PM IST

SummaryOn his bipolar disorder journey, a 28-year-old Ghanaian man shares his experience and decision to choose assisted death in the Netherlands prompting a much-needed conversation about mental health struggles and how some people are in a cyclic treatment resistance.
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This is the story of Joseph, a 28-year-old man who's made a very difficult choice. On December 2024, Joseph Awuah-Darko shared the difficult decision of choosing euthanasia on Instagram. He's not physically sick, but he's been battling a severe mental illness called bipolar disorder for many years. He's tried many treatments, but nothing has helped him feel better. He feels like the pain of his illness is too much to bear. He's shared his story publicly to help people understand what he's going through and to show how serious mental illness can be. Joseph shared a post that explained why he is making this decision, in the caption of the post he shared, “I am not saying that life (as a phenomenon) isn’t worth living. It ABSOLUTELY is. What I am saying is that the mental weight of MINE has become entirely unbearable.”

Joseph has bipolar disorder, which means his moods swing very high and very low. He's had this illness for a long time, and it makes his life very difficult. On his Instagram, he has shared his journey with bipolar, he explained that he tried many different medicines and therapies, but they haven't worked. He feels constant pain and suffering because of his illness. He's reached a point where he feels like he can't go on anymore. He's been open about his struggles on social media, hoping to raise awareness about mental health. He wants people to understand how much he suffers and why he's made this decision.

Euthanasia in the Netherlands

Government of the Netherlands explain that in the Netherlands, it's legal for a doctor to help someone end their life if they meet certain conditions. This is called euthanasia. Joseph has applied for this because he feels his mental illness is causing him unbearable suffering. There are rules and procedures that doctors must follow. They have to make sure the person understands their decision and that there are no other options. The process can take a long time, sometimes years. Joseph believes that having the option of a peaceful and dignified death is important. He wants to have control over how his life ends.

The Last Supper Project

When Joseph shared his decision, people had many different reactions. Some people understood and supported him. Others were sad and hoped he would change his mind. He even received some negative comments. But he also received many kind messages, including invitations to have dinner. This inspired him to start "The Last Supper Project," where he travels and shares meals with strangers. In the caption he explained, “‘The Last Supper Project’ is based on the Harvard Study of Adult Development which speaks to the importance of quality relationships and community as the greatest predictor for happiness. And I feel connecting this way around food as a great unifying vessel could be beautiful.”

The Last Supper Project is one of the longest studies, lasting for more than 80 years, done on adult development. In an Author Speaks edition of McKinsey & Company, the study’s director Robert Waldinger explained the study wanted to know what helps people have happy and healthy lives, even if they had problems when they were young. Most studies only looked at what goes wrong, but this one wanted to know what goes right. The study emphasizes that it is never too late for positive changes. People often believe they are too old or incapable of forming good relationships. They may think happiness is out of reach. However, the study has observed individuals who found happiness unexpectedly.

Joseph wants to connect with people and enjoy these moments while he waits for his euthanasia request to be approved. He sees these dinners as a way to find joy and connection in his final chapter. He still has bad days, but he finds comfort in these shared experiences.

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Mood Swings, Anxiety & Brain Fog During Menopause? Expert Recommends Looking Beyond Hot Flashes

Updated Jul 19, 2026 | 07:00 PM IST

SummaryPerimenopause and menopause cause a number of symptoms beyond hot flashes. Doctors advise not ignoring mental health signs like anxiety, mood swings and brain fog due to hormonal changes.
Mood Swings, Anxiety & Brain Fog During Menopause? Expert Recommends Looking Beyond Hot Flashes

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People think of menopause as just hot flashes and irregular periods, but menopause is more than that.

Perimenopause and menopause can bring a host of emotional and cognitive shifts for many women, including mood swings, anxiety, easily irritated, trouble sleeping, or having what some refer to as “brain fog.”

What Is Perimenopause?

Perimenopause is the period leading up to menopause that can last anywhere from two to eight years. This is when hormonal changes take place, especially a drop in estrogen.

These hormonal changes also impact neurotransmitters like serotonin and dopamine that are essential for mood, memory, sleep and emotional wellness.

Consequently, a woman can suffer from forgetfulness, lack of concentration, mental tiredness, low energy levels, dry skin, loss of libido and less productivity.

Brain Fog During Menopause

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Brain fog can be a frustrating and overwhelming experience during menopause, particularly if a woman is juggling her career, family, ageing parents and personal obligations.

Many women suffer from anxiety symptoms, even if they have no mental health background. Hormonal changes, poor sleep and stress can exacerbate these symptoms.

But not all symptoms are due to the menopause or "normal ageing". Thyroid disorders, vitamin deficiencies, depression and other medical problems can have similar symptoms.

Therefore, if symptoms start to impact life, work, relationships or emotional wellbeing, it is important to seek medical advice and have a proper health check-up.

How To Manage It?

Management is often comprehensive, and may involve lifestyle modifications. Regular exercise, balanced nutrition, stress management and healthy sleep patterns.

In a few instances, you may additionally be suggested to take Menopausal Hormone Therapy (MHT). As more research is done and preparations of lower doses and greater safety, earlier misconceptions about hormone therapy are gradually decreasing.

Medically, women can make a difference in their quality of lives and manage menopause with greater physical, mental and emotional wellness with early recognition and timely intervention.

By Dr. Nidhi Sharma Chauhan, Gynaecologist, Saifee Hospital

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Besides Sunscreen, What Everyday Habits Can Help Reduce Sun Exposure And Skin Damage?

Updated Jul 18, 2026 | 11:00 PM IST

SummarySunscreen is essential, but healthy skin also depends on daily habits like moisturizing, staying hydrated, eating antioxidant-rich foods, protecting yourself with hats and clothing, maintaining gut health, and supporting skin repair.
Besides Sunscreen, What Everyday Habits Can Help Reduce Sun Exposure And Skin Damage?

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Everyone knows that using sunscreen is one of the most important steps for protecting the skin from harmful sun rays, but dermatologists explain that it isn't the only thing you should do to keep your skin healthy. Other daily routines are also important for minimizing sun damage and maintaining healthy skin over time.

Protecting The Skin Barrier

Skin is a protective barrier for the body but constant exposure to the sun, pollution, heat and unhealthy lifestyle habits can make this barrier vulnerable.

Once the skin barrier is damaged, the skin is more susceptible to tanning, pigmentation, dryness, sun ageing and other sun damage.

Moisturising Supports Skin Health

Using a moisturiser every day is a very simple, yet effective habit. A good moisturiser is one that doesn't contain any scents and will support the barrier function of the skin, thereby preventing unwanted water loss from the skin.

Wet and plump skin is resistant to the environment and sun's rays.

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Antioxidants Help Fight Sun Damage

Antioxidants are also a best practice for dermatologists. Antioxidants prevent the damage to skin cells by free radicals created by UV exposure, pollution etc.

This protection can help minimize issues like hyperpigmentation, uneven skin tone and premature ageing. Consuming foods that contain antioxidants (such as fruits, vegetables and nuts) can help keep skin healthy on the inside.

Stay Hydrated For Healthier Skin

Next, hydration is crucial. It's important to keep drinking enough water all day long to keep the skin supple and to allow the skin to repair itself. Moisture also contributes to skin's healing from environmental stress.

Physical Sun Protection Matters

Sun protection is also of great importance. Wearing hats or caps, using umbrellas, and wearing clothing that protects against the sun's rays can minimize direct exposure to the sun.

All these are simple actions that serve as a physical barrier and prevent sunburn and long term damage to the skin, particularly between 10 a.m. and 4 p.m. These simple steps provide a physical barrier and reduce the risk of sunburn and chronic skin damage, particularly in the peak hours of 10 a.m. to 4 p.m.

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Gut Health And Skin Connection

Another focus has been on the connection between gut health and healthy skin, as experts recognize how crucial the role of the gut is in maintaining healthy skin.

Probiotics can potentially improve the gut-skin axis and aid in the healing process and alleviate inflammation in the body. The better the gut environment, the better the skin will be able to recover and the less the exposure to the sun will age the skin.

Collagen May Support Skin Repair

Some people can use collagen supplements as an added benefit. Collagen is involved in supporting the dermis, the skin's structural component. Keeping collagen high can help promote skin repair and healing mechanisms.

Doctors say while sunscreen is important, long-term skin protection can be achieved through a variety of healthy habits, proper nutrition, hydration and physical sun protection measures, which must be followed daily.

Dr. Pravin Banodkar Senior Consultant Dermatologist Saifee Hospital

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6 Everyday Moments When Your Eyes Work Harder Than You Realize

Updated Jul 18, 2026 | 07:00 PM IST

SummaryYour eyes work harder than you realize during everyday activities. Simple habits and regular eye care can help reduce strain and protect vision.
6 Everyday Moments When Your Eyes Work Harder Than You Realize

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We tend to think of our eyes as easy – they just "see", and we go about our day. But the fact is, your eyes are adapting a lot, focusing and straining all the time, far more than you realize. Many of these moments are utterly unremarkable, but they build up gradually into a tiredness, a dryness and a long-term strain.

We see many people who are shocked to find out how hard their eyes had been working long before any symptoms appeared. Here are six common situations that deserve a whole lot more attention – and care – from your eyes.

Staring at Your Phone First Thing in the Morning

Having a quick glance at notifications before even leaving bed requires your eyes to adjust to a small, bright screen in the dark. This quick change puts a load on the eye muscles and can make them tire before your day has really started.

Long Hours in Front of a Computer

Working, studying, and hopping from meeting to meeting: extended hours in front of the screen drastically lower your usual blink rate. Less blinking equals less lubrication, which is why so many people are dry, irritated and have blurry vision by the afternoon.

Driving at Dusk or Night

Night driving is one of the most challenging visual jobs humans undertake, given low light, incoming headlights and the need to constantly change focus between the road, mirrors and dashboard. Your eyes are working tirelessly to shift between bright and dim situations in fractions of a second.

Night driving is one of the most challenging visual jobs humans undertake, given low light, incoming headlights and the need to constantly change focus between the road, mirrors and dashboard. Your eyes are working tirelessly to shift between bright and dim situations in fractions of a second.

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Reading Fine Print

Poorly lit restaurant menus, pharmaceutical labels, or the small text on a contract all demand that you focus hard at close range, frequently in less-than-ideal illumination. As we get older, this type of near-focus strain is very common since our natural ability to focus declines.

Switching Between Multiple Screens

Glancing from your laptop to your phone to a television and back again, it makes your eyes refocus at multiple distances. It is easier, but this continual flipping is more tiring than looking at one screen for the same period of time.

Stepping Out Into Bright Sunlight Into Bright Sunlight

Your eyes work hard to adjust while you move from a dim room into harsh daylight — or vice versa. Over time, repeated exposure to glare without the correct protection (such as sunglasses) can add unneeded strain.

None of these moments feel dramatic on their own, but together, they represent a significant daily workload for your eyes. The good news is that habits such as the 20-20-20 rule, correct lighting, regular blinking and eye check-ups can go a long way in reducing this concealed tension. We believe that awareness is the beginning of healthy eyesight.

If you are suffering frequent eye strain, dryness or fuzzy vision, it may be time to schedule a full eye exam. Your eyes work harder than you realize – let’s give them the attention they deserve.

Dr Mandeep Singh Basu, Ayurvedic Eyecare Expert, Dr Basu Eye Care Centre

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