At 28, This Man Is Choosing Euthanasia Over Living With Bipolar Disorder- 'Life Is Absolutely Worth Living But Mine Is Entirely Unbearable'

Updated Mar 15, 2025 | 06:00 PM IST

SummaryOn his bipolar disorder journey, a 28-year-old Ghanaian man shares his experience and decision to choose assisted death in the Netherlands prompting a much-needed conversation about mental health struggles and how some people are in a cyclic treatment resistance.
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This is the story of Joseph, a 28-year-old man who's made a very difficult choice. On December 2024, Joseph Awuah-Darko shared the difficult decision of choosing euthanasia on Instagram. He's not physically sick, but he's been battling a severe mental illness called bipolar disorder for many years. He's tried many treatments, but nothing has helped him feel better. He feels like the pain of his illness is too much to bear. He's shared his story publicly to help people understand what he's going through and to show how serious mental illness can be. Joseph shared a post that explained why he is making this decision, in the caption of the post he shared, “I am not saying that life (as a phenomenon) isn’t worth living. It ABSOLUTELY is. What I am saying is that the mental weight of MINE has become entirely unbearable.”

Joseph has bipolar disorder, which means his moods swing very high and very low. He's had this illness for a long time, and it makes his life very difficult. On his Instagram, he has shared his journey with bipolar, he explained that he tried many different medicines and therapies, but they haven't worked. He feels constant pain and suffering because of his illness. He's reached a point where he feels like he can't go on anymore. He's been open about his struggles on social media, hoping to raise awareness about mental health. He wants people to understand how much he suffers and why he's made this decision.

Euthanasia in the Netherlands

Government of the Netherlands explain that in the Netherlands, it's legal for a doctor to help someone end their life if they meet certain conditions. This is called euthanasia. Joseph has applied for this because he feels his mental illness is causing him unbearable suffering. There are rules and procedures that doctors must follow. They have to make sure the person understands their decision and that there are no other options. The process can take a long time, sometimes years. Joseph believes that having the option of a peaceful and dignified death is important. He wants to have control over how his life ends.

The Last Supper Project

When Joseph shared his decision, people had many different reactions. Some people understood and supported him. Others were sad and hoped he would change his mind. He even received some negative comments. But he also received many kind messages, including invitations to have dinner. This inspired him to start "The Last Supper Project," where he travels and shares meals with strangers. In the caption he explained, “‘The Last Supper Project’ is based on the Harvard Study of Adult Development which speaks to the importance of quality relationships and community as the greatest predictor for happiness. And I feel connecting this way around food as a great unifying vessel could be beautiful.”

The Last Supper Project is one of the longest studies, lasting for more than 80 years, done on adult development. In an Author Speaks edition of McKinsey & Company, the study’s director Robert Waldinger explained the study wanted to know what helps people have happy and healthy lives, even if they had problems when they were young. Most studies only looked at what goes wrong, but this one wanted to know what goes right. The study emphasizes that it is never too late for positive changes. People often believe they are too old or incapable of forming good relationships. They may think happiness is out of reach. However, the study has observed individuals who found happiness unexpectedly.

Joseph wants to connect with people and enjoy these moments while he waits for his euthanasia request to be approved. He sees these dinners as a way to find joy and connection in his final chapter. He still has bad days, but he finds comfort in these shared experiences.

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Breast Cancer Signs That Do Not Feel Like Cancer, Explain Doctors

Updated Feb 4, 2026 | 03:11 PM IST

SummaryBreast cancer remains the most common cancer among Indian women, yet many overlook early warning signs beyond lumps. Experts highlight subtle symptoms like nipple changes, skin texture differences, breast asymmetry and persistent pain, stressing awareness and timely screening to improve early detection and treatment outcomes.
Breast Cancer Signs That Do Not Feel Like Cancer, Explain Doctors

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On World Cancer Day 2026, we at Health and Me is focussing on the most common cancer among women in India. Breast Cancer, which accounts for over 216,000 new cases every year, as per the 2022 data. This means, 28.2 per cent of female cancers are attributed to breast cancer. What is more tragic is that one woman is diagnosed with breast cancer every four minutes, and one dies every eight minutes in the country.

While, we all know that finding a lump is the red flag, there are other signs that women often miss that delays their detection. Health experts are increasingly warning that this narrow understanding may be delaying early diagnosis for many patients. New medical insights suggest that several lesser-known changes in breast tissue, skin and nipple appearance may signal cancer but often go unnoticed or get dismissed as harmless hormonal changes.

Read: More Than A Diagnosis: Cancer Survivors Share The Small Wins That Helped Them Heal

Breast Cancer Is Not Just A Lump

Data from a consumer survey commissioned by The Ohio State University Comprehensive Cancer Center shows that 93 percent of adults identify a lump as a symptom of breast cancer. But fewer than half are aware of several other warning signs that could appear much earlier.

Breast Cancer: get it checked by a doctor

Experts warn that this knowledge gap can be risky because not all breast cancers form lumps that are easily felt. Breast medical oncologist Ashley Pariser explains that screening mammography remains the most effective tool for detecting breast cancer at its earliest and most treatable stages. She adds that being familiar with the normal look and feel of one’s breast tissue helps people detect subtle changes faster and seek timely medical care.

Pariser notes that many breast changes can occur due to aging or childbirth. Still, she stresses that breast cancer can present in multiple ways, making it important for individuals to report unusual symptoms without delay.

Signs That Should Not Be Ignored

Breast Cancer Signs You Should Not Ignore

According to Dr Kanchan Kaur, Oncoplastic Breast Surgery Specialist, structural changes in the breast are among the most overlooked early warning signs. She highlights that while lumps are common indicators, deformations in breast shape such as flattening, indentation or dimpling should not be ignored.

Read: AI Detects More Breast Cancer Cases in Landmark Swedish Study

Dr Kaur also points out that an unusual increase or decrease in breast size, particularly when it affects only one breast, and sudden changes in breast symmetry may signal an underlying issue. She advises that these signs warrant clinical evaluation even if they appear painless or gradual.

Another concerning sign is skin texture change. She explains that a reddish, pitted texture resembling the surface of an orange or a marble-like area under the skin can indicate deeper tissue abnormalities. Any area of the breast that looks or feels noticeably different from surrounding tissue should be assessed by a doctor.

Nipple Changes Can Be Early Red Flags

Both research findings and clinical observations highlight nipple changes as key indicators that are often missed. Survey results from Ohio State University show that only about one-third of respondents recognized nipple inversion or retraction as a symptom of breast cancer.

Dr Kaur notes that nipples can provide early clues about breast disease. Symptoms such as newly inverted nipples, dimpling around the nipple, scaly red rashes, burning or itching, and ulceration should prompt medical attention.

Read: Oncologists Warns Of The Cancer Rising Among Women in India

Clear or bloody nipple discharge that is unrelated to pregnancy or breastfeeding is another warning sign. While discharge can occur due to benign causes, experts recommend prompt evaluation to rule out cancer.

Specialists at Moffitt Cancer Center caution that symptoms such as breast tenderness, swelling or changes in fullness are often mistaken for routine hormonal fluctuations. Because these symptoms frequently overlap with premenstrual changes, many women delay consulting a specialist.

Experts from the center advise that persistent breast pain, swelling or unusual fullness that does not resolve within a few days should be medically evaluated. They emphasize that sudden nipple inversion, discharge or skin texture changes require immediate attention.

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World Cancer Day 2026: India’s 10 Most Common Cancers, Explains Doctor

Updated Feb 4, 2026 | 01:38 PM IST

SummaryOn World Cancer Day, Dr Puneet Gupta highlights India’s ten most common cancers, their warning signs, and prevention strategies. He stresses lifestyle changes, vaccination, and screening for early detection, noting that recognizing symptoms early can significantly improve treatment outcomes and long-term survival.
World Cancer Day 2026: India’s 10 Most Common Cancers, Explains Doctor

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Cancer trends in India are changing rapidly, driven by lifestyle patterns, environmental exposure, infections, and limited access to early healthcare in some regions. According to Dr Puneet Gupta, Chairman of Oncology Services at Asian Hospital, understanding early warning signs and adopting preventive habits can significantly improve survival outcomes.

“Cancer patterns in India are the results of multiple factors ranging from lifestyle, environmental exposure, infections and access to timely care,” Dr Gupta explained, adding that early symptoms can appear months or even years before the disease reaches advanced stages.

Breast Cancer: The Most Common Cancer In Women

Dr Gupta noted that breast cancer is frequently seen in women, especially after the age of 40. He highlighted that the disease often develops silently and without pain.

He explained that warning signs may include lumps in the breast or under the arm, changes in breast shape, skin dimpling, inward turning of the nipple, or unusual discharge. “Do not ignore these changes,” he cautioned. Regular self-examination, along with timely imaging tests such as mammography, ultrasound, or MRI, can help detect breast cancer early.

Cervical Cancer: Strongly Linked To HPV Infection

Cervical cancer mainly affects women between 30 and 60 years. Dr Gupta emphasised that HPV infection remains the leading risk factor. Early symptoms can include abnormal vaginal bleeding, bleeding after intercourse, or persistent pelvic pain, although early stages often remain symptom-free.

He stressed that routine Pap smear screening and HPV vaccination play a crucial role in prevention and early diagnosis.

Lung Cancer: Rising Risk Beyond Smoking

While lung cancer remains more common in men, Dr Gupta pointed out that cases among women are rising as well. Smoking is the primary cause, but exposure to fine particulate air pollution (PM2.5) also contributes to the risk.

He warned that persistent cough, chest pain, breathing difficulty, unexplained weight loss, or coughing blood require immediate medical evaluation, particularly in people with a history of tobacco use.

Oral Cancer: A Major Concern In India

Oral cancer remains widespread due to tobacco, gutka, areca nut consumption, and HPV infection. Dr Gupta explained that long-lasting mouth ulcers, red or white patches inside the mouth, jaw stiffness, or swallowing difficulty are early red flags. Regular dental and oral examinations can help detect early cancerous changes.

Colorectal Cancer: Lifestyle-Linked Risks

According to Dr Gupta, colorectal cancer is increasingly being diagnosed in adults around 40 years of age. Sedentary lifestyles, low-fiber diets, and excessive red meat intake are major contributing factors.

He said symptoms such as blood in stool, persistent bowel habit changes, abdominal pain, or unexplained anaemia should not be overlooked. Early screening and genetic testing in high-risk individuals can significantly improve outcomes.

Stomach Cancer: Often Shows Subtle Symptoms

Dr Gupta explained that stomach cancer may initially present as indigestion, early fullness, nausea, or unexplained weight loss. It is often associated with long-term Helicobacter pylori infection, smoking, and salt-heavy diets. Persistent digestive discomfort warrants medical attention.

Prostate Cancer: Common But Often Slow Growing

Prostate cancer typically affects men above 50 and usually progresses gradually. Dr Gupta noted that difficulty urinating and frequent nighttime urination are common early symptoms. Regular check-ups help detect the disease before complications arise.

Esophageal Cancer: Linked To Lifestyle And Nutrition

Tobacco use, alcohol consumption, poor nutrition, and iron deficiency increase the risk of esophageal cancer. Dr Gupta advised that swallowing difficulty, chest discomfort, or unexplained weight loss should prompt evaluation through tests like endoscopy or barium swallow.

Ovarian Cancer: Often Missed Due To Vague Symptoms

Dr Gupta explained that ovarian cancer frequently goes undetected due to non-specific symptoms such as bloating, abdominal discomfort, or early satiety. Women with persistent symptoms, particularly those with a family history of breast or ovarian cancer, should seek medical evaluation.

Liver Cancer: Screening Is Crucial For High-Risk Groups

Liver cancer often develops in individuals with chronic liver disease. Symptoms such as jaundice, abdominal swelling, or persistent pain usually appear late. Dr Gupta stressed that hepatitis vaccination and screening among high-risk groups are vital for prevention.

Lifestyle Changes And Screening Can Reduce Risk

Dr Gupta emphasized that although cancer cannot be completely prevented, a significant proportion of cases are linked to modifiable risk factors. Avoiding tobacco, maintaining a healthy weight, consuming balanced nutrition, managing stress, and staying physically active can lower risk.

He added that vaccinations against HPV and hepatitis further reduce cancer risk, while regular screening helps detect cancers at pre-cancer or early stages. “Education, prevention and early detection make the difference between late-stage disease and long-term survival,” Dr Gupta concluded.

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Prenatal Vitamins vs Multivitamins: Experts Reveal What Women Need

Updated Feb 3, 2026 | 05:37 PM IST

SummaryWhile you may have seen multiple women, who are not pregnant, taking prenatal vitamins to improve their skin, hair and nail quality, experts say this could be dangerous for your health due to high concentration of folic acid and iron. The typical amount of folic acid for an non-pregnant adult is 400 mcg a day. For iron, the typical daily amount is 8 mg for males and 18 mg for females.
Prenatal Vitamins vs Multivitamins: Experts Reveal What Women Need

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While you may have seen multiple women, who are not pregnant, taking prenatal vitamins to improve their skin, hair and nail quality, experts say you should steer clear and only stick to multivitamins to ensure your body stays healthy all-year round.

Prenatal vitamins are daily supplements for women who are pregnant or trying to get pregnant. These supplements contain the vitamins and minerals you need to support healthy fetal development, according to the Cleveland Clinic.

Dr Rohan Palshetkar, Consultant IVF Specialist, Bloom IVF tells Healthandme: ""Prenatal vitamin should be taken three months at least prior to the pregnancy or basically whenever you begin to start planning the pregnancy, ensure that all your micro nutrients as well as your folic acid levels are up to the normal mark so as to ensure that your baby has a healthy growth"

But when your body doesn't need it, taking supplements could put you at risk over time.

Which Vitamins And Minerals Are Prenatal Vitamins Rich In?

As per the American College of Obstetricians and Gynecologists (ACOG), here are the most important nutrients prenatal vitamins are packed with:

Folic Acid: One of the most important prenatal nutrients, this B vitamin is important as it creates your baby's neural tube. This is the structure that eventually forms brain. As per the US Preventive Services Task Force, folic acid supplements significantly increase the growth of healthy neural tube. The American Academy of Pediatrics also notes that it helps the neural tube to protect from defects by 50 percent.

Iron: It supplies blood and oxygen to the fetus and also helps build the placenta. It also gives the mother extra blood volume that you need throughout pregnancy. Pregnant people are prone to anemia, this is why iron supplementation is a must.

Calcium: The most time spend in uterus for a baby is invested in building their bones and teeth, this is a Herculean task, and requires the mother to have plenty of calcium. If you don't have enough calcium, then your baby will utilise the calcium from your body, which could lead to temporary bone loss.

Certain prenatal supplements also contain other additives such as omega-3 fatty acids.

Why Is It Dangerous To Take Prenatal Vitamins

The main difference between a prenatal vitamin and a multivitamin is the concentration of folic acid and iron.

Ingesting enough folate from food or folic acid from supplements at the start of a pregnancy lowers the risk of certain birth defects. Along with this, iron supplements help the body make the extra blood cells needed during pregnancy.

The amount of folic acid suggested for people who are planning a pregnancy is 400 to 800 micrograms (mcg) a day. The amount of iron needed in pregnancy is 27 milligrams (mg) a day.

The typical amount of folic acid for an non-pregnant adult is 400 mcg a day. For iron, the typical daily amount is 8 mg for males and 18 mg for females.

Taking iron and folic acid at levels higher than the suggested amounts may bump people closer to the upper limit for these nutrients which can raise the risk of health problems.

Taking too much folic acid, especially over 1,000 mcg daily without a doctor's advice, can mask a vitamin B12 deficiency, potentially causing irreversible nerve damage and may lead to side effects such as bitter taste, nausea or sleep problems, with potential links to increased risks in pregnancy like autism or insulin resistance.

Eating too much iron, especially from supplements, can cause acute iron poisoning, leading to severe nausea, vomiting, abdominal pain, diarrhea and bloody stools. Long-term excessive intake causes iron to deposit in tissues, causing iron overload (hemochromatosis) that damages the liver (cirrhosis), heart (failure), and pancreas (diabetes) and may cause a bronze skin color.

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