At 28, This Man Is Choosing Euthanasia Over Living With Bipolar Disorder- 'Life Is Absolutely Worth Living But Mine Is Entirely Unbearable'

Updated Mar 15, 2025 | 06:00 PM IST

SummaryOn his bipolar disorder journey, a 28-year-old Ghanaian man shares his experience and decision to choose assisted death in the Netherlands prompting a much-needed conversation about mental health struggles and how some people are in a cyclic treatment resistance.
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This is the story of Joseph, a 28-year-old man who's made a very difficult choice. On December 2024, Joseph Awuah-Darko shared the difficult decision of choosing euthanasia on Instagram. He's not physically sick, but he's been battling a severe mental illness called bipolar disorder for many years. He's tried many treatments, but nothing has helped him feel better. He feels like the pain of his illness is too much to bear. He's shared his story publicly to help people understand what he's going through and to show how serious mental illness can be. Joseph shared a post that explained why he is making this decision, in the caption of the post he shared, “I am not saying that life (as a phenomenon) isn’t worth living. It ABSOLUTELY is. What I am saying is that the mental weight of MINE has become entirely unbearable.”

Joseph has bipolar disorder, which means his moods swing very high and very low. He's had this illness for a long time, and it makes his life very difficult. On his Instagram, he has shared his journey with bipolar, he explained that he tried many different medicines and therapies, but they haven't worked. He feels constant pain and suffering because of his illness. He's reached a point where he feels like he can't go on anymore. He's been open about his struggles on social media, hoping to raise awareness about mental health. He wants people to understand how much he suffers and why he's made this decision.

Euthanasia in the Netherlands

Government of the Netherlands explain that in the Netherlands, it's legal for a doctor to help someone end their life if they meet certain conditions. This is called euthanasia. Joseph has applied for this because he feels his mental illness is causing him unbearable suffering. There are rules and procedures that doctors must follow. They have to make sure the person understands their decision and that there are no other options. The process can take a long time, sometimes years. Joseph believes that having the option of a peaceful and dignified death is important. He wants to have control over how his life ends.

The Last Supper Project

When Joseph shared his decision, people had many different reactions. Some people understood and supported him. Others were sad and hoped he would change his mind. He even received some negative comments. But he also received many kind messages, including invitations to have dinner. This inspired him to start "The Last Supper Project," where he travels and shares meals with strangers. In the caption he explained, “‘The Last Supper Project’ is based on the Harvard Study of Adult Development which speaks to the importance of quality relationships and community as the greatest predictor for happiness. And I feel connecting this way around food as a great unifying vessel could be beautiful.”

The Last Supper Project is one of the longest studies, lasting for more than 80 years, done on adult development. In an Author Speaks edition of McKinsey & Company, the study’s director Robert Waldinger explained the study wanted to know what helps people have happy and healthy lives, even if they had problems when they were young. Most studies only looked at what goes wrong, but this one wanted to know what goes right. The study emphasizes that it is never too late for positive changes. People often believe they are too old or incapable of forming good relationships. They may think happiness is out of reach. However, the study has observed individuals who found happiness unexpectedly.

Joseph wants to connect with people and enjoy these moments while he waits for his euthanasia request to be approved. He sees these dinners as a way to find joy and connection in his final chapter. He still has bad days, but he finds comfort in these shared experiences.

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28-Year-Old US Man Sees Cat’s Features On Human Faces After Brain Surgery: What Is Prosopometamorphopsia?

Updated Nov 11, 2026 | 12:00 AM IST

SummaryA 28-year-old US man developed a rare visual disorder after brain surgery, causing him to see his pet cat’s features on human faces. The condition, known as prosopometamorphopsia (PMO), affects more people than previously recognised, with some mistakenly diagnosed with psychiatric disorders.
28-Year-Old US Man Sees Cat’s Features On Human Faces After Brain Surgery: What Is Prosopometamorphopsia?

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In a bizarre medical case, a 28-year-old US man began seeing his pet cat Luna’s features on human faces after brain surgery. These included almond-shaped eye sockets enlarged pupils and stripes.

If Karl sees Luna first thing in the morning, he continues to see her features on human faces throughout the day, whether in person or online.

However, if he wakes up looking at a human face, he may see that person’s pupils and eye shape on other people’s faces and even on his cat.

According to a case report published in the journal Cortex, Karl experiences a form of palinopsia, in which something seen earlier persists or reappears in subsequent perception. In his case, this causes facial distortions known as prosopometamorphopsia (PMO).

How Did The Condition Begin?

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Karl, who lives in the northeastern US, has experienced the condition for two years. It began after surgery to remove part of his right temporal lobe to treat an arteriovenous malformation (AVM), an abnormal tangle of blood vessels connecting arteries and veins that can cause bleeding in the brain.

The right temporal lobe plays an important role in face processing.

"This case of Karl seeing his cat's features in human faces and vice versa demonstrates that individual features can be pulled from memory and influence our ongoing perception," said lead author Brad Duchaine, professor and chair of psychological and brain sciences and principal investigator of the Social Perception Lab at Dartmouth.

More Than 250 People Experience Facial Distortions

Karl is not alone. According to Duchaine's lab, more than 250 people experience facial distortions. Many are mistakenly diagnosed with psychiatric problems.

"We have heard from people who have been told that they had a psychiatric problem and, in some cases, have even been put on antipsychotics, when they are in fact just having visual problems," Duchaine said.

Duchaine also cited a 1986 study published in Cortex. It described a woman who saw a poodle sitting on a passenger's lap while riding a bus. She then began seeing the poodle's face on every passenger. The woman had experienced a stroke nine months earlier.

Unlike that case, Karl sees individual facial features transferred between faces rather than entire faces.

How AI Can Help

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Duchaine used a large language model to turn a line drawing of Karl’s experience into a photorealistic image. He then worked with Karl to refine the visuals featured in the report.

AI-generated images can help researchers understand visual distortions and help patients explain their experiences to doctors, friends and family, Duchaine said, adding that he will continue working with Karl to decode more about the condition.

What Is Prosopometamorphopsia?

Prosopometamorphopsia (PMO) is a rare visual condition in which faces or facial features appear distorted due to changes in the brain's face-processing network. The term combines prosopo (Greek for face) and metamorphopsia (perceptual distortion).

People with PMO may see facial features as:

  • Droopy or stretched
  • Larger or smaller than normal
  • Displaced or out of position
  • Distorted in specific parts of the face

Two prominent subtypes are:

  • Full-face PMO: The entire face appears distorted
  • Hemi-PMO: One half of the face appears distorted

Most cases last days or weeks, although some persist for years. Around 75 case reports have so far been published.

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Eye Rubbing May Increase Keratoconus Risk: How This Everyday Habit Can Damage Your Cornea

Updated Nov 10, 2026 | 08:00 PM IST

SummaryFrequent and vigorous eye rubbing can damage the cornea and increase the risk of keratoconus, particularly in children with allergies. The condition can also progress gradually and initially affect only one eye, making changes harder to recognise.
Eye Rubbing May Increase Keratoconus Risk: How This Everyday Habit Can Damage Your Cornea

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Rubbing your eyes is a common habit, often triggered by itching, dryness or tiredness. However, frequent and vigorous rubbing can damage the cornea and increase the risk of keratoconus, a progressive condition that causes it to thin and bulge outward, experts warn.

World Keratoconus Day is observed every year on November 10 to raise awareness about the condition.

Early diagnosis is important to slow its progression. Frequent changes in spectacle prescriptions or deteriorating vision should prompt an eye examination.

Why Should You Avoid Rubbing Your Eyes?

Frequent or aggressive eye rubbing can put mechanical stress on the cornea, potentially weakening its structure and worsening existing eye conditions.

Speaking to HealthandMe, Dr Janhvi Mehta, Consultant Ophthalmologist, Jaslok Hospital and Research Centre, Mumbai, said, "Frequent or vigorous eye rubbing can damage the cornea, particularly by contributing to keratoconus. It can also cause corneal epithelial injury and worsen existing ocular allergy."

Repeated rubbing can:

  • Contribute to corneal thinning and biomechanical weakening.
  • Accelerate keratoconus in susceptible individuals.
  • Cause corneal abrasions and increase the risk of infection.

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Dr Mahipal Singh Sachdev, Chairman and Managing Director, Centre for Sight Group of Hospitals, explained that excessive rubbing puts pressure on the cornea and can damage its collagen structure.

"The cornea might become thinner than usual or its shape may become uneven, leading to impaired vision. Hence, people should avoid the habit of rubbing their eyes," he told HealthandMe.

Why Are Children More At Risk?

Children with allergies, especially allergic conjunctivitis, may be more vulnerable to keratoconus because of frequent eye rubbing.

Allergies can cause persistent itching, redness, watering, and discomfort, encouraging children to rub their eyes repeatedly. The resulting mechanical stress may contribute to the development or progression of keratoconus in susceptible individuals.

The experts urged parents to watch for excessive rubbing and changes in their children's vision. Timely allergy treatment and regular eye examinations can help identify potential problems early.

Other risk factors for keratoconus include:

  • Vernal keratoconjunctivitis (VKC)
  • Atopic eye disease
  • Family history of keratoconus
  • Genetic predisposition
  • Certain connective tissue disorders

However, not everyone who frequently rubs their eyes develops keratoconus.

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Why Is Keratoconus Often Diagnosed Late?

Dr Janhvi noted that keratoconus commonly begins during adolescence or early adulthood but may remain undiagnosed until vision deteriorates.

Its early symptoms can resemble common refractive errors such as myopia. Children and young adults may experience mild blurring or require frequent changes in their spectacle prescriptions, which can be mistaken for routine vision changes.

The condition can also progress gradually and initially affect only one eye, making changes harder to recognise. Routine eye examinations may not always detect early keratoconus without specialised corneal assessment, Dr. Mahipal said.

Warning signs to watch for include:

  • Increasing myopia
  • Progressive or irregular astigmatism
  • Frequent changes in spectacle prescriptions
  • Reduced visual clarity despite corrective lenses
  • Ghosting, glare or double vision in one eye
  • Difficulty driving at night

Increasing astigmatism despite repeated spectacle corrections is an important warning sign that warrants further evaluation.

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How Can You Prevent Corneal Damage?

Preventing excessive eye rubbing and managing its underlying causes can help reduce avoidable stress on the cornea.

1. Break the eye-rubbing habit

  • Avoid pressing or massaging closed eyelids.
  • Use a cold compress when your eyes itch.
  • Avoid rubbing your eyes even through a towel or handkerchief.
  • Keep children's fingernails short to minimise accidental injury.

2. Treat underlying allergies

If itching triggers eye rubbing, consult an ophthalmologist about appropriate treatment. Options may include topical antihistamine or mast-cell stabiliser drops, such as olopatadine or ketotifen.

Other measures include:

  • Using preservative-free artificial tears for irritation
  • Treating associated blepharitis or dry eye
  • Avoiding prolonged use of topical steroid drops without medical supervision

3. Reduce exposure to environmental triggers

  • Avoid dust, smoke and known allergens
  • Wear protective glasses outdoors
  • Avoid direct airflow from air conditioners.

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The Weekend Sleep Catch-Up: Can Two Days of Extra Sleep Undo Five Days of Sleep Deprivation?

Updated Nov 10, 2026 | 02:00 PM IST

SummarySleeping longer over the weekend can certainly help you feel less tired, but it cannot completely compensate for a week of inadequate sleep.
The Weekend Sleep Catch-Up: Can Two Days of Extra Sleep Undo Five Days of Sleep Deprivation?

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Come Saturday morning, many people have just one thing on their mind: catching up on sleep. After a week of early mornings, office deadlines, late-night screen time and household responsibilities, the weekend feels like the perfect opportunity to stay in bed for a few extra hours. Some people even sleep until noon, believing that the extra rest will make up for all those late nights. But is it really possible to undo five days of poor sleep in just two days?

Unfortunately, the brain doesn't work that way. Sleeping longer over the weekend can certainly help you feel less tired, but it cannot completely compensate for a week of inadequate sleep.

Sleep is much more than physical rest. It is when the brain gets down to some of its most important work. Memories are processed, information gathered during the day is organised, and the brain gets an opportunity to recover from constant activity. When we repeatedly cut short our sleep, these processes can suffer.

Why Do We Feel Better After Sleeping In?

Think about how you feel after several nights of going to bed late. You may find yourself forgetting small things, struggling to concentrate during meetings or becoming unusually irritable over minor issues. These are some of the ways sleep deprivation can affect everyday functioning.

Sleeping for a few extra hours over the weekend can ease some of this fatigue. You may feel more alert and find it easier to concentrate. However, feeling refreshed is not necessarily the same as being fully recovered. Certain effects of repeated sleep restriction, particularly on attention and reaction time, can take longer to resolve.

Can Weekend Lie-ins Disturb Your Sleep Cycle?

There is another side to this weekend habit that people rarely consider. If you sleep at 11 pm during the week but stay awake until 2 or 3 am on Friday and Saturday, your body's internal clock can get disrupted.

This internal timing system, called the circadian rhythm, helps regulate when you feel sleepy and when you wake up. Large changes in sleep timings can make it harder to fall asleep on Sunday night. Before you know it, Monday morning arrives and you are back to feeling exhausted.

It becomes a familiar cycle: insufficient sleep during the week, prolonged sleep on weekends and difficulty getting back into a routine.

What Does Repeated Sleep Deprivation Do To The Brain?

One of the biggest areas affected is memory. Sleep plays an important role in consolidating information, which is why a poor night's sleep can make it harder to remember things or absorb new information the following day.

It can also affect emotional regulation. People who regularly sleep less may become more impatient, anxious or sensitive to everyday stress. Their ability to focus and make decisions may also take a hit.

Persistent sleep deprivation has also been associated with metabolic and cardiovascular problems. It is therefore important not to treat poor sleep as an unavoidable part of a demanding work schedule.

What Is A Healthier Way To Catch Up On Sleep?

Rather than depending on Saturday and Sunday to recover, try making small changes to your routine throughout the week.

  • Keep a consistent schedule: Try to go to bed and wake up at roughly the same time every day.
  • Don't compromise on sleep duration: Most adults need around seven to nine hours of sleep each night.
  • Put your phone away before bedtime: Late-night scrolling can keep the mind stimulated and delay sleep.
  • Be mindful of caffeine: That evening cup of coffee may be affecting your ability to fall asleep.
  • Step outdoors in the morning: Natural daylight helps regulate the body's sleep-wake cycle.
  • Pay attention to persistent tiredness: If you wake up exhausted despite getting enough sleep, speak to a doctor. Sleep disorders such as obstructive sleep apnoea may need to be ruled out.
A weekend lie-in once in a while is perfectly understandable, especially after a particularly demanding week. But making it your regular strategy for dealing with sleep deprivation is not ideal.

Your brain needs rest every day, not just when the calendar says it is the weekend. Instead of treating sleep as something you can postpone and recover later, make it a non-negotiable part of your daily routine.

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