This is the story of Joseph, a 28-year-old man who's made a very difficult choice. On December 2024, Joseph Awuah-Darko shared the difficult decision of choosing euthanasia on Instagram. He's not physically sick, but he's been battling a severe mental illness called bipolar disorder for many years. He's tried many treatments, but nothing has helped him feel better. He feels like the pain of his illness is too much to bear. He's shared his story publicly to help people understand what he's going through and to show how serious mental illness can be. Joseph shared a post that explained why he is making this decision, in the caption of the post he shared, “I am not saying that life (as a phenomenon) isn’t worth living. It ABSOLUTELY is. What I am saying is that the mental weight of MINE has become entirely unbearable.”

Joseph has bipolar disorder, which means his moods swing very high and very low. He's had this illness for a long time, and it makes his life very difficult. On his Instagram, he has shared his journey with bipolar, he explained that he tried many different medicines and therapies, but they haven't worked. He feels constant pain and suffering because of his illness. He's reached a point where he feels like he can't go on anymore. He's been open about his struggles on social media, hoping to raise awareness about mental health. He wants people to understand how much he suffers and why he's made this decision.

Euthanasia in the Netherlands

Government of the Netherlands explain that in the Netherlands, it's legal for a doctor to help someone end their life if they meet certain conditions. This is called euthanasia. Joseph has applied for this because he feels his mental illness is causing him unbearable suffering. There are rules and procedures that doctors must follow. They have to make sure the person understands their decision and that there are no other options. The process can take a long time, sometimes years. Joseph believes that having the option of a peaceful and dignified death is important. He wants to have control over how his life ends.

The Last Supper Project

When Joseph shared his decision, people had many different reactions. Some people understood and supported him. Others were sad and hoped he would change his mind. He even received some negative comments. But he also received many kind messages, including invitations to have dinner. This inspired him to start "The Last Supper Project," where he travels and shares meals with strangers. In the caption he explained, “‘The Last Supper Project’ is based on the Harvard Study of Adult Development which speaks to the importance of quality relationships and community as the greatest predictor for happiness. And I feel connecting this way around food as a great unifying vessel could be beautiful.”

The Last Supper Project is one of the longest studies, lasting for more than 80 years, done on adult development. In an Author Speaks edition of McKinsey & Company, the study’s director Robert Waldinger explained the study wanted to know what helps people have happy and healthy lives, even if they had problems when they were young. Most studies only looked at what goes wrong, but this one wanted to know what goes right. The study emphasizes that it is never too late for positive changes. People often believe they are too old or incapable of forming good relationships. They may think happiness is out of reach. However, the study has observed individuals who found happiness unexpectedly.

Joseph wants to connect with people and enjoy these moments while he waits for his euthanasia request to be approved. He sees these dinners as a way to find joy and connection in his final chapter. He still has bad days, but he finds comfort in these shared experiences.

I've spent over three decades treating heart disease, and in that time, I've seen the same misunderstanding come up again and again, across different patients, different generations, different backgrounds. It's the one that delays diagnosis more than any other. Ask most people what menopause changes, and they'll talk about hot flashes, mood swings, or sleep. Ask me, and I'll tell you it changes something just as important: a woman's heart.

I believe menopause should be treated as a cardiovascular milestone, not just a reproductive one. We talk to women a great deal about bone density, hormonal symptoms, and fertility. We talk far less about what's happening quietly inside their arteries during this same period. That gap in the conversation is costing us early diagnoses. In some cases, it's costing lives.

How Estrogen Protects The Heart?

To understand why, it helps to look at what protects a woman's heart in the first place. For most of her reproductive years, estrogen acts almost like a quiet guardian in the background, keeping the endothelium — the inner lining of blood vessels — working well, and supporting the release of nitric oxide, which helps arteries stay relaxed and open. This is a big reason heart attacks are fairly uncommon in women before menopause, compared to men of a similar age.

Menopause takes that buffer away, slowly, not all at once. The shift usually starts during perimenopause, often well before periods actually stop. LDL, the harmful cholesterol, tends to rise; HDL, the protective kind, often falls. Blood pressure that used to be easy to control starts creeping higher. Arteries stiffen, insulin resistance sets in, and fat tends to shift toward the belly, carrying its own inflammatory effect on blood vessels. None of this feels dramatic on any single day. It just builds, quietly, year after year — enough that by ten to fifteen years past menopause, a woman's heart risk has often caught up to, and sometimes overtaken, a man's of the same age.

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Ageing & Menopause: A Double Impact

Some argue this is simply age catching up, and that menopause gets blamed unfairly. There's truth in that — age alone stiffens arteries in everyone. But in my experience, losing estrogen compresses those changes into a much shorter stretch of time. It isn't one factor or the other; it's ageing, sped up by a hormonal shift arriving right in the middle of life.

That said, menopause alone doesn't determine a woman's future with heart disease. It sets the stage, but daily habits decide how the story plays out. Smoking, inactivity, weight around the middle, a diet heavy in processed food, unchecked blood pressure and blood sugar, chronic stress, poor sleep, and skipped check-ups all add their share. The reassuring part is that nearly everything on that list can be changed. I've watched patients shift their own trajectory with fairly ordinary steps — walking regularly, eating simply, sleeping better, getting basic tests done once a year.

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Heart Symptoms Women Should Never Ignore

What troubles me most in practice is how often real cardiac symptoms get mistaken for "just menopause." Chest pressure rather than sharp pain. New breathlessness during simple activity. Fatigue that doesn't lift with rest. Pain in the jaw, upper back, or between the shoulder blades instead of the classic left-arm pain. Palpitations that don't settle. A few months ago, a woman in her early fifties came to me convinced she had acidity — tightness in the chest, breathlessness on stairs, an occasional fluttering heartbeat. An angiogram showed a significant coronary blockage. "I thought heart problems were a man's disease," she told me. I hear some version of that sentence often, and it worries me every time.

My advice to patients is simple: perimenopause is the right time for an honest conversation with a doctor about the heart, not after something has gone wrong. That means a blood pressure check, a proper lipid profile, blood sugar and HbA1c testing, and a baseline ECG — with an echocardiogram, stress test, or coronary calcium score for those with added risk factors.

Menopause changes a great deal about a woman's body. Her heart is one of those things, whether she's thinking about it or not. Don't wait for a scare to start the conversation. Start it now, while there's still so much you can do.

For decades, many cancer patients in India have lived with a frightening belief — that a biopsy can make cancer spread. This misconception continues to delay diagnosis, often costing patients the opportunity for timely treatment. This is one of the most common fears I encounter in clinic.

Almost every week, someone tells me, 'Doctor, if you cut it, it will spread.' Families repeat it, neighbors reinforce it, and patients postpone the test. Actually, this concern is linked to a genuine scientific phenomenon known as needle-tract seeding. These phenomena suggest that a few tumor cells may be displaced along the path of the biopsy needle.

However, this event is extremely uncommon and should not be confused with cancer spreading. Seeding is not the same as spreading. A few displaced cells sitting in a needle track are not a metastasis.

Published studies estimate the risk of needle-tract seeding to be extremely low. A 2015 systematic review reported the overall incidence to be below one percent, while more recent reviews, including a 2024 analysis of breast needle biopsy, found no evidence that diagnostic biopsies increase cancer recurrence or reduce long-term survival.

If tumor cells are displaced during a biopsy, they are usually removed when the tumor is surgically excised. In many cases, radiotherapy, systemic treatment and the body's own immune system also eliminate these cells.

In many tier-two and tier-three cities, it takes two to three weeks to reach final report to the treating doctor. During that period, the untreated cancer continues to grow naturally. The patient does not see natural history. He sees cause and effect. The biopsy happened; the lesion grew. The conclusion writes itself — and it is wrong. This delay unintentionally reinforces the misconception that the biopsy triggered the growth, when in reality the cancer was progressing on its own.

At the same time, every tissue injury, including a biopsy, activates the body's wound-healing response, leading to inflammation and new blood vessel formation. Laboratory and animal studies suggest that this temporary inflammatory environment may favor tumor cells. However, these findings have not translated into poorer outcomes for patients. So, the fear is not irrational. It is simply misdirected, and it is mis proportioned.

The diagnosis is not the danger. The delay is. Biopsy helps precision oncology. It helps deciding the treatment approach. Without this we would be treating in the dark.

The consequences of delaying diagnosis are serious. Patients of oral cancer diagnosed while the disease is still localized have a five-year survival rate of nearly 79 per cent. Once the cancer spreads to distant organs, survival drops to around 19 per cent. Unfortunately, nearly two-thirds of oral cancer patients in India are still diagnosed at an advanced stage.

A UK woman has claimed that Wegovy and Mounjaro, the blockbuster GLP-1 weight-loss drugs from Novo Nordisk and Eli Lilly, did not help her lose much weight despite more than a year of treatment.

Karen Lay, 56, from Essex, spent £4,000 on the medications, hoping they would help her slim down from 16 stone (224 pounds). However, after 15 months, she lost less than a stone, despite eating very little.

Lay now says the injections were far from a "magic fix" and credits a structured diet for helping her lose two stone, the Daily Mail reported.

Started Wegovy, Mounjaro Out of 'Sheer Desperation'

Lay began taking Wegovy in late 2023 after trying several diets without success. She remained on the medication for nine months, even though she felt something "wasn't right."

“My appetite reduced slightly at first,” Lay, a financial services worker, was quoted as saying. “But not enough to make a meaningful difference, so I increased the dosage each month.”

After seeing limited results with Wegovy, Lay stopped the medication for four weeks before switching to Mounjaro. She described the transition period as experiencing the "worst food noise" and said she gained more than seven pounds while waiting for the first drug to clear from her system.

Lay then spent six months on Mounjaro but said she was "barely eating" and still failed to achieve the weight loss she expected.

“I only lost seven pounds,” she said. “I realised the injections simply weren't effective for me and something had to change.”

Her doctor eventually advised her to stop taking the medication because they were concerned she was not eating enough, the report said.

Lay said the experience was “emotionally exhausting and honestly quite soul-destroying,” and "deeply disheartening.” Watching others succeed on the drugs made it even harder.

Switched to Diet Instead

After discontinuing the injections, Lay adopted a very low-calorie diet with support from expert nutrition advisers who provided personalized guidance.

“Once the medication was fully out of my system, I began to feel genuinely better,” Lay said, adding that her “energy returned, digestion improved, and the constipation disappeared.”

Within a year, she went from a dress size 18 to size 12, the smallest she had been in 17 years, with her weight falling to 13 stone 5 pounds, the report said.

Non-responders To GLP-1 Drugs

Clinical trials have shown that most people taking these medications experience substantial weight loss.

• Wegovy: Average weight loss of about 21% after 72 weeks.
• Mounjaro: Average weight loss of about 22.5% over a similar period.

Around 2.5 million adults in the UK are estimated to be using weight-loss injections, while hundreds of thousands have signed up for the newly approved Wegovy pill, which was rolled out by the NHS this month.

But some people are 'non-responders', meaning they do not lose a meaningful amount of weight despite treatment. Research earlier this year found that around one in 10 people taking GLP-1 medications are considered non-responders.

Why Weight-Loss Drugs May Not Work For All

Although GLP-1 receptor agonists have delivered remarkable results for many people, they do not work the same way for everyone. Obesity is a complex condition influenced by brain signaling, hormones, genetics, and metabolism, meaning treatment responses can vary significantly. Possible reasons include:

• Genetic and hormonal variability
• Underlying medical conditions
• Unrealistic expectations about weight-loss outcomes

• Switching to another GLP-1 medication
• Using older, approved weight-loss medications
• Structured lifestyle changes involving diet and physical activity
• Comprehensive medical management of obesity tailored to the individual.