At 28, This Man Is Choosing Euthanasia Over Living With Bipolar Disorder- 'Life Is Absolutely Worth Living But Mine Is Entirely Unbearable'

Updated Mar 15, 2025 | 06:00 PM IST

SummaryOn his bipolar disorder journey, a 28-year-old Ghanaian man shares his experience and decision to choose assisted death in the Netherlands prompting a much-needed conversation about mental health struggles and how some people are in a cyclic treatment resistance.
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This is the story of Joseph, a 28-year-old man who's made a very difficult choice. On December 2024, Joseph Awuah-Darko shared the difficult decision of choosing euthanasia on Instagram. He's not physically sick, but he's been battling a severe mental illness called bipolar disorder for many years. He's tried many treatments, but nothing has helped him feel better. He feels like the pain of his illness is too much to bear. He's shared his story publicly to help people understand what he's going through and to show how serious mental illness can be. Joseph shared a post that explained why he is making this decision, in the caption of the post he shared, “I am not saying that life (as a phenomenon) isn’t worth living. It ABSOLUTELY is. What I am saying is that the mental weight of MINE has become entirely unbearable.”

Joseph has bipolar disorder, which means his moods swing very high and very low. He's had this illness for a long time, and it makes his life very difficult. On his Instagram, he has shared his journey with bipolar, he explained that he tried many different medicines and therapies, but they haven't worked. He feels constant pain and suffering because of his illness. He's reached a point where he feels like he can't go on anymore. He's been open about his struggles on social media, hoping to raise awareness about mental health. He wants people to understand how much he suffers and why he's made this decision.

Euthanasia in the Netherlands

Government of the Netherlands explain that in the Netherlands, it's legal for a doctor to help someone end their life if they meet certain conditions. This is called euthanasia. Joseph has applied for this because he feels his mental illness is causing him unbearable suffering. There are rules and procedures that doctors must follow. They have to make sure the person understands their decision and that there are no other options. The process can take a long time, sometimes years. Joseph believes that having the option of a peaceful and dignified death is important. He wants to have control over how his life ends.

The Last Supper Project

When Joseph shared his decision, people had many different reactions. Some people understood and supported him. Others were sad and hoped he would change his mind. He even received some negative comments. But he also received many kind messages, including invitations to have dinner. This inspired him to start "The Last Supper Project," where he travels and shares meals with strangers. In the caption he explained, “‘The Last Supper Project’ is based on the Harvard Study of Adult Development which speaks to the importance of quality relationships and community as the greatest predictor for happiness. And I feel connecting this way around food as a great unifying vessel could be beautiful.”

The Last Supper Project is one of the longest studies, lasting for more than 80 years, done on adult development. In an Author Speaks edition of McKinsey & Company, the study’s director Robert Waldinger explained the study wanted to know what helps people have happy and healthy lives, even if they had problems when they were young. Most studies only looked at what goes wrong, but this one wanted to know what goes right. The study emphasizes that it is never too late for positive changes. People often believe they are too old or incapable of forming good relationships. They may think happiness is out of reach. However, the study has observed individuals who found happiness unexpectedly.

Joseph wants to connect with people and enjoy these moments while he waits for his euthanasia request to be approved. He sees these dinners as a way to find joy and connection in his final chapter. He still has bad days, but he finds comfort in these shared experiences.

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8 Red Flags That May Suggest Cancer Growth In Your Body

Updated Dec 16, 2025 | 12:00 PM IST

SummaryGlobal cancer cases are rising, with nearly 20 million diagnoses yearly. Beyond routine screenings, experts urge attention to warning signs such as persistent fatigue, unexplained weight loss, chronic pain, skin changes, bowel or bladder shifts, new lumps, lingering coughs, and stubborn headaches. Early medical evaluation and timely screening can improve outcomes.
8 Red Flags That May Suggest Cancer Growth In Your Body

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In 2022, there were around 19,976,499 cancer cases diagnosed from around the world, notes the World Cancer Research Fund. Out of them, 10,311,610 were men, and 9,664,889 were women. In 2024, several reports say that there were over 19 million new global cases in that year. The cases of cancer are rising, so is there any way one can stay one step ahead of it?

While it is important to get screenings done frequently, especially if one has a family history of cancer, there could be certain red flags, one must look out for to book an appointment with oncology.

Here are the cancer red flag one must keep a look out for:

Persistent Fatigue

Persistent fatigue remains one of the most overlooked symptoms of oncology. This is not like a routine tiredness, this is a kind of exertion that stays despite rest, balanced meals, and time off. Data from 2022-24 shows that over 30% of early stage cancer patients reported unexplained fatigue prior to diagnosis.

Unexplained Weight Loss

Oncologists explain that over 40% of newly diagnosed gastrointestinal and lung cancer patients experienced weight loss. This could happen due to metabolic changes caused by tumors, which can alter energy absorption and consumption, often suppressing appetite and leading to a rapid loss of body fat.

When to see a doctor? If you have lost more than 5% of your body weight in under 6 to 8 weeks, it is important that you seek immediate medical attention.

Chronic Pain

If there is a pain that does not go away, it could be because of cancer. Many patients have complained of persistent pain as one of the fist symptoms of their cancers. This is particularly true for back pain, which is common in pancreatic or ovarian cancer. Bone pain too is common in metastasis, and pelvic pain is common in uterine or colorectal cancer.

Skin Changes

Not all cancers start inside the body, some also show up on the skin. These changes could be new moles, non-healing wounds, or changes in pigmentation. In fact, unusual rashes also signal changes like skin cancer.

Changes In Bowel And Bladder Habits

If you experiences changes in your bowel and bladder habits and find blood in your stool or urine, it is best to see a doctor. Colorectal, bladder and prostate cancers often start subtly. Before it becomes serious, keeping a track of your bowel and bladder habits could prevent the cancer from spreading.

Lump Or Thickening Of Body

While lumps could be benign, they are also one of earliest signs cancer. For instance, the early detection of breast cancer and testicular cancer are from lumps, which are observed while self examination. In fact, the early detection, thanks to self examination, has even increased by 22%.

Persistent Cough

While this may be a season of virus and flu, but if your cough does not go away, it may be a serious sign. If you find blood in your cough, see a doctor, take scans. If you are a smoker, you may be more prone to early stage throat cancer.

Headache That Does Not Go Away

There could be certain neurological issues, including a stubborn headache that does not go away. This may be an indication of a tumor in the brain.

If you have any of these stubborn symptoms, it is best to book a doctor's appointment and go for a screening.

Note: Health and Me is not a substitute for doctor's advice, please consult a registered doctor, if you face any of these symptoms.

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AQI Explained: It’s Not Temperature, As Delhi CM Says, Here’s What the Air Quality Index Really Means

Updated Dec 16, 2025 | 11:09 AM IST

SummaryDelhi’s air quality improved slightly Tuesday, with AQI at 381, shifting from severe to very poor. Amid relief, confusion grew after the Delhi CM likened AQI to temperature. Experts clarify AQI measures pollution levels and health risk, not heat, using monitored particles and gases from multiple pollution sources across the capital city.
AQI Explained: It’s Not Temperature, As Delhi CM Says, Here’s What the Air Quality Index Really Means

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Delhi's AQI on Tuesday morning seemed to be doing somewhat better than Monday morning. The AQI has brought some relief to the residents who had been dealing with 'severe' pollution levels, with visibility being hit. As per Tuesday's AQI, according to Central Pollution Control Board (CPCB), Delhi's air pollution stood at 381 AQI as of 6.30 am. This has placed the air quality in the 'very poor' category.

While it has become a habit of many to check AQI before stepping out of the house, how many of us actually understand what AQI really means?

Recently, Delhi's Chief Minister Rekha Gupta claimed that AQI and temperature are the same. At a summit hosted by a news channel, Delhi CM Gupta referred to AQI as "temperature".

Such statements could further lead to misconceptions, and add to everyday confusions. Health and Me is breaking down what AQI really means and why is it not the same as temperature.

How Air Quality Index Work And What It Means

As the Delhi CM claimed that AQI is like temperature and could be "measured using any instrument", is not true. Though it is understandable why such comparisons may have been drawn as you can easily check the AQI report on your phones, like we do with temperature.

However, in real sense, AQI or the air quality index is a tool used for communicating outdoor air quality and health. The AQI includes six-color coded categories, each of which corresponds to a range of index values. The higher the AQI value, the greater the level of air pollution and the greater the health concern.

Air quality is made of dust and small particles like PM2.5 and PM10, along with gases like nitrogen dioxide from car exhaust, sulphur dioxide from factories, and carbon monoxide from vehicles. The levels are measured through specialized machines. In India, the standard of the machines are carried out by the Central Pollution Control Board or CPCB.

What Makes Delhi So Polluted?

As per a review of Delhi's air quality from 1990 to 2022, published in Sustainability (MDPI), an open access journal, these are the following sources of Delhi's Air Pollution:

  • Transports emit around 10 to 30% of pollution. This includes all road, rail, and aviation modes and combustion of petrol, diesel, and gas.

  • Dust make up another 10 to 30% of pollution. Dust from resuspension on the roads and construction activities.

  • All industries, including small, medium, and large industries, including power plants and brick kilns lead to 10 to 30% of pollution.

  • In summers, all residential activities, including cooking, lighting, and heating activities lead to 10% of pollution, whereas in winter, it makes up for 30%.

  • Waste burning, including residential sides and landfills leads to 5 to 15% of pollution.

Power plants from outside the city leads to less than 7% of pollution. Dust storms contribute to less than 5% of pollution. Agricultural residue burning, which is a seasonal source of pollution leads to less than 3% of pollution, whereas firecrackers, another seasonal source, leads to less than 1% of pollution.

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Influenza A: Can Flu Kill You? Here's All That You Need To Know

Updated Dec 16, 2025 | 06:42 AM IST

SummaryOntario health data warns of a tough flu season driven by Influenza A, with rising cases and three child deaths reported in Ottawa and eastern Ontario. Influenza A spreads rapidly, triggers strong immune responses, and can be fatal when lung damage limits oxygen, especially among vulnerable groups, causing sudden flu symptoms.
Influenza A: Can Flu Kill You? Here's All That You Need To Know

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Earlier in November, the Public Health Ontario's (PHO) data revealed that Ontario and Canada as a whole could be in a "very tough" flu season this year, thanks to the Influenza A or the flu A. The PHO data revealed a 1.8% rise in influenza cases in the last week of October. Now, amid the influenza A outbreak, 3 children have died from the same in Ottawa and Eastern Ontario region.

Influenza A: Can Flu Kill People?

As per the infectious physician at the Johns Hopkins University Center for Health Security, as reported in Scientific American, "Dying from the flu is not like dying from a bullet or a black widow spider bite. The presence of the virus itself isn't going to be what kills you. An infectious disease always has a complex interaction with its host.”

Once the virus enters someone's body usually via their eyes, nose, or mouth, the influenza virus begins hijacking human cells in the nose and throat to make copies of itself. This triggers a strong response from the immune system, and sends battalions of white blood cells, antibodies and inflammatory molecules to eliminate the threat.

T cells work by targeting and destroying virus-infected tissue, especially in the respiratory tract and lungs where the infection usually settles. In most healthy adults, this response clears the virus and leads to recovery within days or weeks. In some cases, however, the immune reaction becomes excessive, damaging large areas of lung tissue and impairing oxygen delivery to the blood, which can cause hypoxia and, in severe cases, death.

What Is Influenza A?

As per the National Institutes of Health, US, influenza viruses that contains single-stranded RNA that are classified into three types: A, B, and C. Type A and B cause annual epidemics and even pandemics, while type C is a less common disease.

As per the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC), Influenza A viruses are descendants of the 2009 H1N1 pandemic virus that emerged in the spring of 2009 and caused a flu pandemic. These viruses, scientifically called the "A(H1N1)pdm09 virus," and more generally called "2009 H1N1," have continued to circulate seasonally since 2009 and have undergone genetic and antigenic changes.

Influenza A(H3N2) viruses also change genetically and antigenically. Influenza A(H3N2) viruses have formed many separate, genetically different clades in recent years that continue to co-circulate.

It is a fast-spreading respiratory virus responsible for seasonal flu outbreaks and, at times, global pandemics. It changes quickly through genetic shifts, which makes new strains harder to predict and control. The virus is grouped based on surface proteins called hemagglutinin and neuraminidase, with H1N1 and H3N2 among the most common strains in circulation. It spreads mainly through coughs, sneezes, or close contact and often comes on suddenly, causing fever, cough, body pain, and extreme tiredness. In some cases, it can lead to serious complications, especially in vulnerable groups.

Influenza A: Common Signs And Symptoms

  • Fever or chills
  • Dry cough
  • Sore throat
  • Headache
  • Fatigue
  • Some people could also get symptoms like diarrhea or vomiting, especially kids.

The symptoms usually appear 1 to 4 days after exposure and could linger for a week.

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