At 28, This Man Is Choosing Euthanasia Over Living With Bipolar Disorder- 'Life Is Absolutely Worth Living But Mine Is Entirely Unbearable'

Updated Mar 15, 2025 | 06:00 PM IST

SummaryOn his bipolar disorder journey, a 28-year-old Ghanaian man shares his experience and decision to choose assisted death in the Netherlands prompting a much-needed conversation about mental health struggles and how some people are in a cyclic treatment resistance.
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This is the story of Joseph, a 28-year-old man who's made a very difficult choice. On December 2024, Joseph Awuah-Darko shared the difficult decision of choosing euthanasia on Instagram. He's not physically sick, but he's been battling a severe mental illness called bipolar disorder for many years. He's tried many treatments, but nothing has helped him feel better. He feels like the pain of his illness is too much to bear. He's shared his story publicly to help people understand what he's going through and to show how serious mental illness can be. Joseph shared a post that explained why he is making this decision, in the caption of the post he shared, “I am not saying that life (as a phenomenon) isn’t worth living. It ABSOLUTELY is. What I am saying is that the mental weight of MINE has become entirely unbearable.”

Joseph has bipolar disorder, which means his moods swing very high and very low. He's had this illness for a long time, and it makes his life very difficult. On his Instagram, he has shared his journey with bipolar, he explained that he tried many different medicines and therapies, but they haven't worked. He feels constant pain and suffering because of his illness. He's reached a point where he feels like he can't go on anymore. He's been open about his struggles on social media, hoping to raise awareness about mental health. He wants people to understand how much he suffers and why he's made this decision.

Euthanasia in the Netherlands

Government of the Netherlands explain that in the Netherlands, it's legal for a doctor to help someone end their life if they meet certain conditions. This is called euthanasia. Joseph has applied for this because he feels his mental illness is causing him unbearable suffering. There are rules and procedures that doctors must follow. They have to make sure the person understands their decision and that there are no other options. The process can take a long time, sometimes years. Joseph believes that having the option of a peaceful and dignified death is important. He wants to have control over how his life ends.

The Last Supper Project

When Joseph shared his decision, people had many different reactions. Some people understood and supported him. Others were sad and hoped he would change his mind. He even received some negative comments. But he also received many kind messages, including invitations to have dinner. This inspired him to start "The Last Supper Project," where he travels and shares meals with strangers. In the caption he explained, “‘The Last Supper Project’ is based on the Harvard Study of Adult Development which speaks to the importance of quality relationships and community as the greatest predictor for happiness. And I feel connecting this way around food as a great unifying vessel could be beautiful.”

The Last Supper Project is one of the longest studies, lasting for more than 80 years, done on adult development. In an Author Speaks edition of McKinsey & Company, the study’s director Robert Waldinger explained the study wanted to know what helps people have happy and healthy lives, even if they had problems when they were young. Most studies only looked at what goes wrong, but this one wanted to know what goes right. The study emphasizes that it is never too late for positive changes. People often believe they are too old or incapable of forming good relationships. They may think happiness is out of reach. However, the study has observed individuals who found happiness unexpectedly.

Joseph wants to connect with people and enjoy these moments while he waits for his euthanasia request to be approved. He sees these dinners as a way to find joy and connection in his final chapter. He still has bad days, but he finds comfort in these shared experiences.

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Fibroid Or Rare Cancer? When Common Symptoms Need A Second Opinion

Updated Sep 4, 2026 | 08:00 PM IST

SummaryUterine fibroids are common and benign, but their symptoms can resemble rare uterine sarcoma, highlighting why accurate diagnosis, MRI, monitoring, and second opinions matter.
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A uterine growth diagnosis can be very alarming. That said, it is vital to note that such growths are often simple, run-of-the-mill fibroids. They are non-cancerous, very common, and completely harmless. At the same time, it is important to realise what uterine sarcoma is, and why fibroids are often confused with uterine sarcoma. It comes down to anatomy. The uterus consists mainly of smooth muscle tissue. A fibroid is just an overgrowth of this smooth muscle that expands over time. Uterine sarcoma is a rare cancer that originates within that very same muscle wall. Since both develop in the same spot, they tend to trigger identical symptoms—like unexpected bleeding, pelvic aching, or pressure.

Why Accurate Diagnosis Matters Before Surgery

Before starting treatment, it is important to fully understand what the diagnosis is, as that is the first step to safety.

Surgeons often treat routine fibroids with minimally invasive techniques. These methods break or chop the tissue into smaller fragments so it can be pulled through tiny incisions. If a growth, however, turns out to be an unsuspected sarcoma, breaking it apart inside the pelvis can spread malignant cells. A thorough diagnostic workup beforehand makes sure nothing gets disrupted accidentally, so that the surgical team builds the safest possible treatment plan.

What You Need to Know About Fibroids

Here is some genuine peace of mind: benign fibroids don't suddenly turn into cancer. Medical research shows that malignant transformation inside an existing fibroid is exceptionally rare. Because fibroids and sarcomas are biologically different conditions from the start, monitoring a standard fibroid does not put you at risk of it turning into a tumor down the line.

Most fibroids stay completely harmless throughout life. It is, however, important to watch out for a few specific red flags:

Post-menopause changes: Fibroids shrink on their own once hormone levels drop after menopause. Any new growth or spotting at this stage demands a closer look.

Growths that keep expanding on medication: If a mass gets bigger while one is on prescriptions designed to shrink it, the patient must seek out a secondary review.

Ambiguous scans: When a routine ultrasound shows atypical tissue structure, stepping up to advanced imaging helps clear up the picture.

Next Steps and Second Opinions

Following an ultrasound, it is recommended to opt for a dedicated pelvic MRI for a much sharper view of the uterine muscle wall to confirm whether a mass is truly benign.

Getting a second opinion from a specialist is a normal, proactive move. It is especially critical if:

  • A mass grows rapidly after menopause.
  • A patient develops new pelvic symptoms or bleeding years after your period has stopped.
  • The scans are flagged as atypical or difficult to read.

The good news is that uterine sarcomas are remarkably rare, making up just 2% to 5% of all uterine cancers. A patient needs to be cognizant by paying attention to changes in the body and asking questions about the scans.

Dr Bindhu KS - Sr. Consultant Obstetrics, Gynaecology & Robotic Surgery, Apollo Hospitals Navi Mumbai

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From Insulin Resistance to Fertility: Understanding the Metabolic Side of PCOS

Updated Sep 3, 2026 | 01:08 PM IST

SummaryPCOS can involve insulin resistance and metabolic changes that affect hormones, ovulation and fertility, making metabolic health an important part of managing the condition.
From Insulin Resistance to Fertility: Understanding the Metabolic Side of PCOS

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For many women, polycystic ovary syndrome (PCOS) begins with a familiar story—irregular periods, acne, unwanted hair growth or difficulty conceiving. But PCOS is far more than a reproductive disorder. At its core, it is often a complex interplay between metabolism, hormones and reproductive health.

One of the most important, yet frequently overlooked, pieces of this puzzle is insulin resistance. When the body becomes less responsive to insulin, the pancreas compensates by producing more.

Elevated insulin levels can, in turn, contribute to increased androgen production by the ovaries and disrupt the delicate hormonal signals required for regular ovulation. The result may be irregular cycles, fewer ovulations and, for some women, difficulty becoming pregnant.

PCOS And Insulin Resistance Can Affect Women Of Any Weight

Importantly, PCOS and insulin resistance are not synonymous with obesity. Women with a healthy body weight can also have significant metabolic abnormalities. This is why judging metabolic health by appearance alone can be misleading.

The 2023 International Evidence-based PCOS Guideline recognises insulin resistance as an important underlying feature and recommends attention to metabolic risk across the weight spectrum.

Also read: Decoding The Fertility Markers

The Metabolic Risks Go Beyond Fertility

The metabolic implications extend well beyond fertility. Women with PCOS have a higher risk of impaired glucose tolerance and type 2 diabetes, making long-term metabolic surveillance an important part of care.

The guideline recommends appropriate glycaemic assessment, particularly when pregnancy is being planned or fertility treatment is being considered.

Also read: Can Regular Consumption of Junk and Processed Food Affect Fertility?

Building A Healthier Foundation For Pregnancy

Yet there is an equally important message of hope: PCOS does not mean infertility, nor does it have to define a woman’s health journey. Lifestyle interventions—including regular physical activity, nutritious eating, adequate sleep and sustainable weight management where appropriate—form the foundation of care and can improve metabolic health.

For a woman planning pregnancy, the goal should not simply be to “get pregnant.” It should be to enter pregnancy metabolically and emotionally healthier, with blood sugar, blood pressure, nutrition, lifestyle and other risk factors appropriately addressed.

Take-home message: PCOS is not merely about irregular periods or cysts on the ovaries. It is a lifelong condition in which metabolic health and reproductive health are deeply connected. Recognising insulin resistance early, looking beyond weight, and providing personalised care can help women protect both their fertility today and their health for years to come.

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How An Inactive Lifestyle Is Damaging Your Knees

Updated Sep 3, 2026 | 09:56 AM IST

SummaryKnees are created for motion, and motion is essential for keeping the flexibility of a joint. The less active various leg muscles are, including quadriceps and other counterparts, the weaker they will be.
How An Inactive Lifestyle Is Damaging Your Knees

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The view generally is that the occurrence of knee issues is usually associated with age, injury or overexertion. However, there is another reason people ignore: lack of movement. If a person leads an inactive lifestyle, spending long hours sitting at a desk, working from the couch, watching TV or doing nothing physical, the eventual consequences for the knees might arise.

Knees are created for motion, and motion is essential for keeping the flexibility of a joint. Their effective functioning depends on the health of the muscles surrounding your knee. The less active various leg muscles are, including quadriceps and other counterparts, the weaker they will be. The muscles help stabilize the knee and can relieve it from some of the burdens during daily activities performed by the knees.

Remaining seated for an extended time can also lead to stiffness. When you sit for a while, you may feel uncomfortable or stiff in your knees when you finally stand up. While the occasional instance of stiffness may go away with movement, constant stiffness can impact mobility and cause people to wish to move even less.

Another issue is gaining weight. Living a sedentary lifestyle causes individuals to become heavier, and excess weight puts more stress on the knees. In time, this added pressure will lead to increased wear of the joints and the development of knee pain and other problems in the musculoskeletal system.

The positive aspect with respect to your knees is that you don’t have to put in hours at the gym to keep them safe. Small, steady efforts can easily do the trick. You can choose to walk for five minutes after being seated for a long time, stretch regularly, take stairs if you are physically able and do some simple workouts for the legs and thighs to increase strength. Low-impact sports such as swimming, cycling and walking can help you maintain muscle power and flexible joints while avoiding the stress on your knees resulting from extensive workouts.

Persistent pain in the knee, however, cannot be treated as a usual symptom of ageing. Knee swelling or prolonged stiffness, difficulties climbing stairs, instability, or pain that has an impact on routine activities should be addressed by health professionals.

Movement is necessary for knees to be strong and flexible. Therefore, if you want your knees to be strong, you need to use them consistently and perform all activities without remaining still for long.

(By Dr Sujoy Bhattacharjee, Chairman & Chief, Max Institute of Robotic Joint Replacement, Max Super Speciality Hospital, Saket)

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